Confused!

stratospheres

Ok so I'm single, not loving or hating it, happy enough to just go with the flow atm...

Having being taken almost constantly for a year or so, I've been taking advantage of being able to score random guys on nights out
Anyway, the past 4 guys I've met have all seemed really interested, took my number, texted lots etc etc...I even went out again with 2 of them.
After this however, there's been nothing! They've said they're not looking for anything, which is fine, but why say you really like me, date me again and get my hopes up?! It's really annoying and it seems to keep happening to me lately...

Why do guys do it?!

I've no problem with meeting you in a club and letting that be it, don't take my number and text me and see me again and say you like me if you don't want anything! I mean what's the point?!

PinkPrincess26

stratospheres wrote:

Ok so I'm single, not loving or hating it, happy enough to just go with the flow atm...

Having being taken almost constantly for a year or so, I've been taking advantage of being able to score random guys on nights out
Anyway, the past 4 guys I've met have all seemed really interested, took my number, texted lots etc etc...I even went out again with 2 of them.
After this however, there's been nothing! They've said they're not looking for anything, which is fine, but why say you really like me, date me again and get my hopes up?! It's really annoying and it seems to keep happening to me lately...

Why do guys do it?!

I've no problem with meeting you in a club and letting that be it, don't take my number and text me and see me again and say you like me if you don't want anything! I mean what's the point?!

Have you slept with any of the lads or just a few smooches??

The Freeman

stratospheres wrote:

Ok so I'm single, not loving or hating it, happy enough to just go with the flow atm...

Having being taken almost constantly for a year or so, I've been taking advantage of being able to score random guys on nights out
Anyway, the past 4 guys I've met have all seemed really interested, took my number, texted lots etc etc...I even went out again with 2 of them.
After this however, there's been nothing! They've said they're not looking for anything, which is fine, but why say you really like me, date me again and get my hopes up?! It's really annoying and it seems to keep happening to me lately...

Why do guys do it?!

I've no problem with meeting you in a club and letting that be it, don't take my number and text me and see me again and say you like me if you don't want anything! I mean what's the point?!

did you sleep with any of them?

stratospheres

Nope didn't sleep with them!

muppetkiller

Same reason girls do it. They lose interest.
They meet you in a club or a pub so all they have is looks and banter to go on.
Then you meet up and have a proper chat or conversation over dinner. Here you learn a little about there interests/background etc.. And if you can't see much in common you don't bother continuing things.

The amount of women i've met who actually have no interests ouside of Big brother, night clubs and working is shocking. Which is why you meet more interesting people in Outdoor clubs and groups IMO.

Kinetic^

They're looking for giggidy, they've seen you twice and not gotten any so they've moved on.

Jack Bauer999

stratospheres wrote:

Ok so I'm single, not loving or hating it, happy enough to just go with the flow atm...

Having being taken almost constantly for a year or so, I've been taking advantage of being able to score random guys on nights out
Anyway, the past 4 guys I've met have all seemed really interested, took my number, texted lots etc etc...I even went out again with 2 of them.
After this however, there's been nothing! They've said they're not looking for anything, which is fine, but why say you really like me, date me again and get my hopes up?! It's really annoying and it seems to keep happening to me lately...

Why do guys do it?!

I've no problem with meeting you in a club and letting that be it, don't take my number and text me and see me again and say you like me if you don't want anything! I mean what's the point?!

Ive slepted with girls I've meet in nightclubs etc, had a good time and texted for a while, then met up again
and realised i didn’t actually like the person. It's not being nasty or trying to hurt someone, you just don’t like
someone so you've given it a chance and it hasn’t worked out.

If they really do like you then they will let you know.

If they stop calling/txting etc then id pretty much take as they don’t.

Move on, until you find someone that does actually like you or can i have your number!

Caliden

Usually means you weren't their type when they met you outside of a nightclub. It's called 'dating' and it's always hit and miss. I've gone out with a few girls outside of nightclubs and some of them were just boring or not very interesting. I would cut down on texting them after we went to the cinema/dinner or whatever and forget about them. Some could say it is harsh to do it this way but I find it's better than pointing out someones faults to them and shattering their confidence.

BaZmO*

Kenny 5 wrote:

They're looking for giggidy, they've seen you twice and not gotten any so they've moved on.

Yeah, I'd say that's the case alright.

G&T

They're just not into you

Nothing more to it than bad luck I think.

Shellie13

You sound like your really eager for a relationship from your post!
Perhaps it may be coming across as desparation (apologies if i'm on the wrong track here!)
what was said before is right- dating is hit and miss you can only decide if you like someone after you get to know them-all you can judge someone on in a club is pure physical apperacnce and really no1 could be expected to base a relationship on that!Enjoy the dates-don't go activly seeking a relationship- one will pop up if you click with the right person!