Dirty txts from Ex, live with a different ex!

LegacyUser

I need some advice. I went out with a girl about 3 years ago for a few months. I had known her for many years previous. Anyway the sex with her was good and she was very adventurous. I went to Oz for a year shortly after we got together as i had it planned. I seen her a few times when i got back though nothing happened. While i was away we kept in contact and some of our emails were very sexual in nature i.e. what we did to each other what we'd like to do etc.

Anyway i broke up with my current girlfriend we are on good terms but the relationships wasnt going anywhere. We had been going out for a year. We live in a rented house. We have a spare room so i just moved in there and she stayed in the master bedroom. We have 6 months left on our lease.

Anyway the ex has been txtin me and she knows i am now single. Basically our txts are very sexual we have phone sex... mms etc. But tbh now i just want to actually start shagging her instead of all the rest of above.

I am very nervous of bringing her to my house as obviously my most recent ex is there. I cant go to hers as she still lives at home at 25!

Should i mention it to my most recent ex that i am seeing someone?

Evil Phil

Go to a hotel.

Marksie

^^^^
Qft
Going to a hotel will save you aggro for the remainder of the time your ex is around


as for tellin your ex rather than your ex ex.

Question: How is she likely to take it?

If its badly, then don't.

Simply for the limited time you have left sharing accommodation, why put yourself through aggro

LegacyUser

Break your lease. What in gods name are you doing living with your most recent ex and how did you possibly think it would be a better idea than breaking the lease?

jubi lee

hotel!

louisecm

Why can't you advertise the room and get someone else to move in for the 6 months that way you can move on? Take it from someone who was forced to live with an ex for 6 WEEKS after a breakup - it ain't good for either party.

Tar.Aldarion

Don't live with somebody you have feelings for...just don't...

_blank_

Bring her to the house.

If you are on such good terms with the ex, then it shouldn't matter.

tampopo

Yeah, hotel or B&B, don't forget to put on the country accents at breakfast and talk about busses!!!! lol

LundiMardi

my god man move out!!!! And tell her the same!!!

chamlis

I lived with an ex and she started bring guys home. Was not a pleasant thing at all i can tell you. Just letting you know what it's like from the other side...

neacy69

seansouth wrote:

Bring her to the house.

If you are on such good terms with the ex, then it shouldn't matter.

And if you are on really good terms you could land yourself a nice little threesome!

LegacyUser

chamlis wrote:

I lived with an ex and she started bring guys home. Was not a pleasant thing at all i can tell you. Just letting you know what it's like from the other side...

**** that's rough! How did you not lose the head!?

louisecm

neacy69 wrote:

And if you are on really good terms you could land yourself a nice little threesome!

Oh come on...:mad:

azezil

Advertise the room and get out of there, how can you get over someone you see every day??

LegacyUser

azezil wrote:

Advertise the room and get out of there, how can you get over someone you see every day??

Jesus how did you handle that?

I dont want to leave as the house is 2 mins away from work, and luas to town and my ex works in town so she doesnt want to leave either,

Tar.Aldarion

You can't, sometimes it is hard to leave though...

Marksie

neacy69: Unhelpful/ offtopic posting will result in a ban.
PLease take time to read the charter

LouiseCM: Use the report post button and the mods will deal with it

neacy69

I thought it was helpful ok sorry

If you wanna shag your ex-ex then go to a hotel do the deed go back and keep playing happy families but I think you should move out

Trx

B and Bs are better for this sort of purpose !!!!!

Vinnie K

Man lets be honest, what the f**k are you still doing in that house?? If you are really over her you will move out so you can have your space, you say its because your close to work but your also close to the luas so you have the whole luas line to find a gaf.
And it would be a seriously bad idea to bring a girl back for 2 reasons 1) The agro you'r gonna get off your ex, 2)The fact you were wit her a year means you did/do care about her, so imangine how **** it would make her feel, if she did it to you how would you feel?? Get out off the house, f the lease, f the short distance to work, or are you refuseing to leave cause you wanna spend time with her and you like being close to her?

LegacyUser

burntCornlake wrote:

Man lets be honest, what the f**k are you still doing in that house?? If you are really over her you will move out so you can have your space, you say its because your close to work but your also close to the luas so you have the whole luas line to find a gaf.
And it would be a seriously bad idea to bring a girl back for 2 reasons 1) The agro you'r gonna get off your ex, 2)The fact you were wit her a year means you did/do care about her, so imangine how **** it would make her feel, if she did it to you how would you feel?? Get out off the house, f the lease, f the short distance to work, or are you refuseing to leave cause you wanna spend time with her and you like being close to her?

I dont actually see her that much, i'm doing 3 summer football leagues and play at the weekend aswell and she has started going home most weekends so id say apart from sleeping we are in the house together for maybe 5 hours per week

DublinWriter

Trx wrote:

B and Bs are better for this sort of purpose !!!!!

You are kidding?!?

OP - move out, break the lease, rent the room, do whatever it takes.

Firetrap

Yep, move out. There have to be other houses you can rent nearby that are equally convenient to work.