casual relationship

tlc

Hi guys,

As the title would suggest I am looking for a casual relationship and am curious about how best to go about it.

The thing is I've moved home from overseas, living in rented acc' where I moved in as a randomer, and unfortunately don't have anyone really to out boozing with which would enable me to meet women.

I have joined a few sporting clubs - god my life is pathetic now that I type it out!! - in the hope of building up a network of people that I can relate to etc and eventually establish what normal people classify as a life I guess where I go on holidays with other people and don't go to the cinema along etc..

While I'm doing this - getting a life and gf both of which will take bloody time - I would really like to meet a woman, possibly a person who is time poor but who wants the same as I, as a sexless life is a bloody awful existence I must say.

Has anybody heard of any websites - and I'm talking about dating sites - that cater for people who wish to meet for sex and nothing else??

Any replies would be appreciated.

Nevyn

You don't want a relationship you want to date people.
There are plenty of adult dating sites for exactly that type of thing, just put adult dating in google and you will find them.

Marksie

As thaedydal says there are many sites out there. However, the sites catering for s*x and nothing else are besieged with single guys both attached and unattached looking for the same thing.

More "traditional" internet sites give the option of relationship V dating.

DublinWriter

tlc wrote:

Has anybody heard of any websites - and I'm talking about dating sites - that cater for people who wish to meet for sex and nothing else??

Hi tlc,

I think maybe your problem is a little more complex that you want to admit.

Reading between the lines of your post you state that you want a gf, a woman for random-shaggage and a social network of friends. I could be flippant and call it the "Kinder-Egg" syndrome (you want a toy, cholocate *and* a surprise), but I won't!

Bascially it looks like you are building your personal life back up from scratch after a period away. Dublin is one hard town to make friends in, probably second only to Cork in terms of clique-iness.

Here on boards.ie they have several nights out during the course of the year (Boards Beers). You could also considering doing volunteer for a charity (in a non-chugger capacity) to increase your social-network.

Sports clubs/gyms aren't great, we tend to use them just before/after work and everyone is in their own personal space with the headphones on.

Also consider what your hobbies might be and if there are any societies/groups that you could go to based on them.

Best of luck, etc.

tlc

Cheers folks for all replies and suggestions...