I feel like im missing out on the college experience

LegacyUser

I feel like I am missing out at college, It took me a good while to settle into college(eg the last two months) because of not getting along with house mates and class mates being geeks thus I found it hard to get to know people I got along with and shared the same interests as me.

So once I did get know people and started heading out I found it hard to get with any women(iv had this problem a good while now) which has become very frustrating. Like I could talk to any stranger(M&F) for about an hour about nothing but once it comes down to trying to score with a girl I just get scared and then I would act like im not interested but in my head I just wanna jump on top of them.

Like last week when I was walking down to the club I walked pass two girls and I heard one girl comment on me having a nice ass to her friend and I was right beside them but did turn round and start up a conversation with her? No! I was thinking about it but once I did it was too late to do anything. Turns out the girl was really hot.

Then later on that night I was walking past a group of girls and one girl who I have seen around college a lot started dancing with me but I gave the impression I wasn’t interested and it resulted with me walking on thinking that I should put my head through the wall.

Then a few days ago there is this girl who I see out basically EVERY night and we have caught eyes a good few times but iv been unsure if she was interested. Like I would be one way and she would be going another then we would catch eyes and then I would look straight away and walk straight passed her. I know I should just go up to her and say "Hey, Iv seen you out a lot. What’s your name?...." but for some reason I just don’t do it.

Like I know im good looking, I have athletic body type and I always see girls checking me out (i know i know big head) like the other week was waiting for the green man to cross the road and there was this girl on the other side and I caught her eyes I look away look back about 20secs later still looking at me then I look at the light again and it goes green look back at the girl and she is still looking at me while we walk past each other(she was a good meter away from me). I know, I know I could of had a swasta on my forehead or something. I was just laughing to myself the hole way back to my apartment. Also she was very good looking.

Anyway back to the point I see that some girls are interested in me but I don’t act on them and give the impression that im not interested and thus I don’t score with that many girls tbh fúck all and I am just getting very frustrated with it all. What should I do? Stop thinking to much about it? Just relax a bit more/drink a bit more?

Rb

Not being able to score a girl isn't "missing out on the college experience". Unless of course, you've just started meeting girls when you got into college, and put a huge emphisis on it.

Relax a bit and make a bit of effort, and perhaps try to not give off the impression of yourself that you've given us.

Black Swan

Chill out! Get your mind off "scoring" and focus on making friends. Things will take their natural course... Your post sounds desperate? Don't give off those kind of vibes!

karen3212

Yeah, I'd say just relax a bit, don't be too hard on yourself.

Girls are pretty good at talking if you give them the chance.

Though don't go jumping on top of girls on the street.

Just start by saying hello to the girl,

the worst they can do is make a face and walk off, but the more doors you knock on, the more votes you will get, he he he,

goodluck

Sinfonia

rb_ie wrote:

Not being able to score a girl isn't "missing out on the college experience". Unless of course, you've just started meeting girls when you got into college, and put a huge emphisis on it.

Relax a bit and make a bit of effort, and perhaps try to not give off the impression of yourself that you've given us.

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Tak3n

Best way to get into bed with a girl is break the ice fast.. noone wants to talk about boring **** like "so.. what do you study in college?" ...

Be original.
Walk up to a girl and just say "Hey, im <insert name> and i have an 11 inch penis".
Seriously... try it .

Stirling

Tak3n I'm a big believer in the original approach myself but how have ya found that one working out for ya?? :rolleyes:

OP to be honest that getting nowhere and wondering where you're going wrong is the "College experience" IMHO. No one really scores with that many girls in College and most of the stories you'll hear are total fiction. You'll get nowhere 99 times out of 100 so if you spend all your time just trying to score then you really are wasting your College experience when you could be having a laugh with your new friends and getting to know new people. Then it does happen on those rare occasions you'll enjoy it all the more and will have learned more about yourself along the way!

philstar

Tak3n wrote:

Be original. Walk up to a girl and just say "Hey, im <insert name> and i have an 11 inch penis".
Seriously... try it .

works for you??..Tak :rolleyes:

Tak3n

philstar wrote:

works for you??..Tak :rolleyes:

****ed 4 college chicks since start of first year multiple times so cant be that bad

should probally mention that these girls were legless at the time and to never attempt something like this with a sober girl...

greenkittie

Tak3n wrote:

****ed 4 college chicks since start of first year multiple times so cant be that bad

should probally mention that these girls were legless at the time and to never attempt something like this with a sober girl...

I dunno if i was sober and someone said that to me i would think it was funny