In a nutshell

TeenageKicks

Live with gf, I found a load of photo's of her being spit roasted by two lads. Its clearly from before we met but jaysis did my stomach churn. I cant describe you the pletheroa of emotions you feel from being very hurt to being damn pissed off cos sometimes she has refused oral cos she was not in the mood and in the pics shes got two d1cks in her mouth!!!

Gutted!

She is away all week btw so hve not confronted her

easyontheeye

me smells a troll..... :cool:

PinkPrincess26

So basically you'd have no problem with the photos if you were getting head whenever you wanted, Grow up....

What were you doing rooting through your g/f's stuff for in any ways....

TeenageKicks

whats a troll, I can probably guess but please give me the specific internet slang definition

PinkPrincess26

TeenageKicks wrote:

whats a troll, I can probably guess but please give me the specific internet slang definition

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In Internet terminology, a troll is someone who intentionally posts derogatory or otherwise inflammatory messages about sensitive topics in an established online community such as an online discussion forum to bait users into responding.[1]

TeenageKicks

PinkPrincess I was merely trying to describe to you the whole rollercoaster of emotions, one min you are so angry and hurt cos it is someone you love you are looking at getting spit roasted and then another minute you are angry and pissed off cos you feel she never serviced you like that.
Wasnt going through her stuff btw we live together, u obviusly do not live with your other half or you would know how it is

milod

Hey, you could scan those photos and superimpose your own head on one of the participants! that way you might feel a little less left out...

Oh and you could photoshop a speech bubble coming out of your arse while you're at it...

Moderator?! Troll alert...

TeenageKicks

Oh God you are all kids, am taking this elsewhere.
How else could I have put other than, it is. Let me try, I spied some photographs of my loved one in a rather compromising position with two gentlemen I do not appear to recognise but it appears they were having a spiffing time!!!

Could you two fcuk off please, am just looking for anyone who has been through similar, I am sure someone has what with our video and camera phones these days.

flogen

Do you wish you were one of the guys?

Seriously - if you're going to start getting upset about things people did before you met them you may as well a) look at what grounds they have to get upset about you and b) look at the stability of your relationship - jealousy is obviously an issue with you.

easyontheeye

from sex with women while in periods to spit roasted girlfreinds....are you for real?

TeenageKicks

What an absolute utter sham this website is with people like you who live such sheltered lives you do not think this goes on? You must still live in Ireland

PinkPrincess26

TeenageKicks wrote:

PinkPrincess I was merely trying to describe to you the whole rollercoaster of emotions, one min you are so angry and hurt cos it is someone you love you are looking at getting spit roasted and then another minute you are angry and pissed off cos you feel she never serviced you like that.
Wasnt going through her stuff btw we live together, u obviusly do not live with your other half or you would know how it is

I do live with my other half actually, and if you actually lived with yours, im sure you would have came across these photos a lot sooner unless of course as i have suggested perviously, you were rooting......

As for the content of the pics.... its her past and theres nothing you can do about it...

Cancer-chick

previous post from u suspect too if i remember

troll alert for sure

TeenageKicks

Flogen thanks for a decent reply, yes jealousy is an issue with me (and actually my gf too thats another story) and yes I have been no angel in the past and have also had threesomes before (In my 30's) but I didnt keep mementos cos I would not want my missus to come accross it for the simple reason that I did not want to come accross hers

DarkJager

Oh man, you got a snow kiss and sloppy seconds in one!!! :O

easyontheeye

TeenageKicks wrote:

Flogen thanks for a decent reply, yes jealousy is an issue with me (and actually my gf too thats another story) and yes I have been no angel in the past and have also had threesomes before (In my 30's) but I didnt keep mementos cos I would not want my missus to come accross it for the simple reason that I did not want to come accross hers

your name implys you are in your teens, but you say "in your 30s"? do you have the mental age of a 15 year old but in fact are much older?

At least she likes to share... lmao

TeenageKicks

Easyontheye if you ever heard of the Undertones you would know where my name comes from, I do not think that implies I have a mental age of 15

easyontheeye

i am being cynical because i find it hard to believe you ... but if your are honestly in this situation be grateful ...you know have a chick up for anything (sarcasm)

TeenageKicks

I hope that Karma comes back on you one day

Cancer-chick

"Hello Ladies
Please do not think I am a sicko for even braoching this topic but I would just like to hear a womans perspective. Having sex during your period, what is the major diffence for you? Can you fell anything at all or is just pointless for you? I bring this up not because I regularly have sex with women who have their period but it has happened before and I was curious to know"

Seeing that this was your last rather juvenile post including the gem comment " i regularly have sex with women who have their period "
I certainly assumed you were in your teens due to the fact that most grown men would not feel the need to boast that they were constantly sh***ing full stop.

This current post is laughable imo

You are trolling mate

tbh

TeenageKicks wrote:

Live with gf, I found a load of photo's of her being spit roasted by two lads.

Who took the pics?

BoozyBabe

Ok, I'm not here to slag anyone.

TeenageKicks:- the whole terminology used in your first post really did not read like it came from a 30+ person, & the types of responses you've given since certainly do not reek of maturity, so I can really see where the others are coming from & why troll has been suggested SO much.

What do you want from us?
Do you need to know how to get past this?
Do you need to know how to get your gf to be more adventurous with you, now that you've seen she was in the past?
Are you hurt, etc?
Are do you just want us to say 'I've been / not been in that situation before?

What she did in the past is in the past & has nothing to do with you. Why she's kept the photos is anyones guess, but provided that you are sure that she's been totally faithful to you & that you love each other & have a great relationship, then that should be the only thing that matters.

You DO NOT have the right to be mad at her over this. At the time it happened it was none of your business (still isn't really)

Is you weren't pooching & they were just lying around to be seen, then just mention it to her if you feel hurt by it, or that you can't look at her in the same way.

Selphie

Cancer-chick wrote:

"Hello Ladies
Please do not think I am a sicko for even braoching this topic but I would just like to hear a womans perspective. Having sex during your period, what is the major diffence for you? Can you fell anything at all or is just pointless for you? I bring this up not because I regularly have sex with women who have their period but it has happened before and I was curious to know"

Seeing that this was your last rather juvenile post including the gem comment " i regularly have sex with women who have their period "
I certainly assumed you were in your teens due to the fact that most grown men would not feel the need to boast that they were constantly sh***ing full stop.

He actually said: not because I regularly have sex with woman who have their period, which in fact is quite the opposite.
But that's off-topic. If you're trolling, then grow up. If not, it'd be understandable to be jealous,but you clearly need to just talk it through with your g/f. It's from her past, so try and forget about it?

TeenageKicks

Tis true, moderator pls close down my account per my request.

Nevyn

Right if you hage an issue with someones post ie you think they are a troll Do not post in the thread about it use the report post fuction.

If you have an issue that someone has called your post a troll use the report post function.

Op the past sexual exploits of a partner is something every adult has to deal with at one stage or another of thier lives and of thier relationships.

True not many have it so visually pushed upon them, either you can get passed this with your partner of you can not and will have to break up with her.

How come you found them ?
Is there a possiblity she left them about for you to find so to have a discussion with you about it ?

Accounts can not be closed they may be abandoned.

Lorax

Troll, no1's buying your bs..

TeenageKicks

No she didnt leave them out for me but I do have work to do around the apartment she asked me to get it done this week as she was away and I was clearing away some stuff and yes I might have had a peak cos I wondered what photos they were, were theyof us etc so sure there was an element of curisity but I would not consider it rooting.
However when u said "viusally thrust upon you" you hit the nail on the head. I am not sure how I feel to be honest, I am just going from one emotion to another, cant handle it so far so was throwing it out there and inbetween the accusations of being a troll the few tit bits of common sense have calmed me somewhat, still am totally confused but some of the points u made have given me food for thought and thats how I am going to spend my evening trying to think exactly how I feel about this befire wading right in like I usually do

Sherifu

TeenageKicks wrote:

Flogen thanks for a decent reply, yes jealousy is an issue with me (and actually my gf too thats another story) and yes I have been no angel in the past and have also had threesomes before (In my 30's) but I didnt keep mementos cos I would not want my missus to come accross it for the simple reason that I did not want to come accross hers

Is she your girlfriend or wife?

look

if true, its a bitter pill to swallow (no pun intended)

I would be surprised if a women kept such pictures in a shared house with current partner. Doesnt make sense to me.

But nonetheless she was taking c*ck from two guys at once and your jealous/confused/etc.
But this was in the past and you have to accept that she had the right to receive two c*cks form guys, considering you have mentioned that you too were involved in threesomes.

Therefore the only problem you should really have is her inconsiderate & sloppy picture storage practices. Cant see what else could be bothering you?

Talliesin

TeenageKicks wrote:

Live with gf, I found a load of photo's of her being spit roasted by two lads.

The amount of commitment she had to you at the time is zero.

The degree of failure to stick with her commitments to you is hence zero.

TeenageKicks wrote:

she has refused oral cos she was not in the mood and in the pics shes got two d1cks in her mouth!!!

Maybe she was in the mood then :rolleyes:

Besides she may not be 100% happy with the experience in the photographs, so if anything it could be a reason to not want to engage in oral sex.

TeenageKicks wrote:

What an absolute utter sham this website is with people like you who live such sheltered lives you do not think this goes on? You must still live in Ireland

And yet, unlike you, some people in Ireland know what spit-roasted means.

peckerhead

look wrote:

Therefore the only problem you should really have is her inconsiderate & sloppy picture storage practices. Cant see what else could be bothering you?

Look on the bright side. At least you don't have to wonder what to get her next time her birthday, eh, (t)rolls around...

http://www.expansys.ie/zoompic.aspx?type=item&i=144670

metrovelvet

Dont you wonder who took the pictures?

hullaballoo

tbh wrote:

Who took the pics?

Exactly.

The Corinthian

Ridiculous thread TBH. Assuming it is not a troll, it simply smacks of churlish jealousy and little else. Additionally I would have to ask how the OP came across such photos, as I would doubt if they are kept out in the open and betraying her privacy is a far worse sin than anything she may have done before she even knew him.

LegacyUser

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TeenageKicks wrote:

Live with gf, I found a load of photo's of her being spit roasted by two lads. Its clearly from before we met but jaysis did my stomach churn. I cant describe you the pletheroa of emotions you feel from being very hurt to being damn pissed off cos sometimes she has refused oral cos she was not in the mood and in the pics shes got two d1cks in her mouth!!!

I was under the assumption that spit roasting wasn't 2 c*cks in someones mouth but rather simultaneous penetration of the mouth and either vagina and anus.'

Marksie

I am having difficulty believing this myself and i guess that is why there are so many responses.

Anyways lets treat it as real.

So you found them, she has had an active life in the past, so have you.

you say you are both jealous about each others past, well hey. Generally people who have experimented tend to be able to talk about it to each other as a couple. But what do i know

How did you find the evidence?, i think it is rather strange that it should have been left where you could find it. Were you looking in which case that is a no-no and it serves you right.

It goes to show what a jealous personality is capable of really. You have opened a can of worms and now you have your head in a mess.
It isnt your partners responsibility its yours.

TeenageKicks

just a thought! wrote:

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I was under the assumption that spit roasting wasn't 2 c*cks in someones mouth but rather simultaneous penetration of the mouth and either vagina and anus.'

Yes but my point was there were several pictures and obviously throught the course the gentlemen in question swapped it around a bit as one is wanting to do in a 3some. And I meant it as overall I have seen photos with her having two cocks in her mouth, not neccessarily at the same time.
Give it over you pedantic prick.

TeenageKicks

rkm wrote:

Is she your girlfriend or wife?

she is my gf but I like many many people I know do call their partners "The missus" regardless of martial status.
Another pedantic sap

TeenageKicks

tbh wrote:

Who took the pics?

I hope the camera had a timer function but I seriously seriously doubt it

TeenageKicks

And yet, unlike you, some people in Ireland know what spit-roasted means.[/QUOTE]

Oh please!!!

rediguana

TeenageKicks wrote:

Live with gf, I found a load of photo's of her being spit roasted by two lads. Its clearly from before we met but jaysis did my stomach churn. I cant describe you the pletheroa of emotions you feel from being very hurt to being damn pissed off cos sometimes she has refused oral cos she was not in the mood and in the pics shes got two d1cks in her mouth!!!

Gutted!

She is away all week btw so hve not confronted her

It's a tough one. She must be a fun girl if she got up to those kinds of capers before. After the terrible jealousy subsides, gently try to get her back into the scene. It'll be much less threatening if you can be there the next time, taking the photos and handing out drinks etc.

Best of luck.

~nop~

You could always just ask her..?

Otherwise you're probably better off just letting it go, hard though that may be.

TeenageKicks

marksuttonie wrote:

I am having difficulty believing this myself and i guess that is why there are so many responses.

Anyways lets treat it as real.

So you found them, she has had an active life in the past, so have you.

you say you are both jealous about each others past, well hey. Generally people who have experimented tend to be able to talk about it to each other as a couple. But what do i know

Not necessarily, some of us "exprement" as you like to call it and never want to know those people they have expremented with as anything more than that. You are not going to tell every persepctive girlfriend you meet hey I was bit of a slut in the past etc etc we all try to protray ourselves in a way that we think will make this person like us. I did not tell her much about my adventures and likewise she did not either. Thats the way it was for us when we met

How did you find the evidence?, i think it is rather strange that it should have been left where you could find it. Were you looking in which case that is a no-no and it serves you right.
I told you earlier, I had work to do that SHE had asked me to I had to clear sh1t this woman is a hoarder btw she throws nothing away (obviusly) so I was moving sh1t so the photo envelope and then yea sure I looked at it

It goes to show what a jealous personality is capable of really. You have opened a can of worms and now you have your head in a mess.
It isnt your partners responsibility its yours.

This is a very true statement, I cannot argue with it

LegacyUser

'I cannot see why U should be so upset or concerned.

This was done BEFORE your time with your g/f.

Surely, it is the objective of most guys to get
as much pussy as possible and 'sowing a few
wild oats' - before the settling down business
with the ONE person, marriage, the kids etc.

And - don't think the women are any better either.
They want cock too - and, plenty of it !'

~nop~

The other question is is there anyone else who might have a copy of the pics..

She could be in trouble over that one mate

rediguana

The Corinthian wrote:

Ridiculous thread TBH. Assuming it is not a troll, it simply smacks of churlish jealousy and little else. Additionally I would have to ask how the OP came across such photos, as I would doubt if they are kept out in the open and betraying her privacy is a far worse sin than anything she may have done before she even knew him.

This is unbelievably sanctimonious and stupid.

Most people, happening across a photo of their girlfriend taking it royal from two blokes, would feel intense hurt. It's probably a biological / evolutionary thing. It's not rational.

Secondly, step down from the Hill of Tedious Morals regarding him betraying her privacy. Stuff like this is common among cohabiting couples.

TeenageKicks

Like I said they were made before we got together and there are negatives in the photo envelope (but no film can) so not done digitally which narrows that down a bit for her and also she is usually a very private person (I think that ties in with hoarding all her stuff too if you can see that link) so am surprised that she did it or allowed it to be done. The pics not the act so much

azezil

Spit roasted, hmm I pictured one cock in her mouth and another in her ass! Silly me

Catari Jaguar

I guess you see her as pure and innocent and good.

Now you see her as well, used and slutty and not so moral.

That's not to say she is, maybe she was drunk, or curious or made to do it. blackmail or a persuasive, domineering boyfriend... anything. Maybe she regrets it, maybe she liked it. You don't know the reason for her to keep the pictures so don't go inventing one.

But, the thing is, you cannot judge her! It's not your business, it was before your time. She's still the same person. She's having sex with you, she's had sex with others, and if you break up will have sex with more people. So what?

Get the image out of your head and stop the way you now see and think of her.

The Corinthian

rediguana wrote:

Most people, happening across a photo of their girlfriend taking it royal from two blokes, would feel intense hurt. It's probably a biological / evolutionary thing. It's not rational.

Why does every idiot who can't deal with his or her own insecurities on PI always have to try and justify it by using pseudo-science?

There are plenty of things that are potentially biological or evolutionary in origin, but that does not justify them as acceptable behavior in what are supposed to be mature adults.

Had he simply found a photo of his gf with an ex from years ago and gone on a similar rant (as you'll often find here), that too would have been potentially biological or evolutionary in origin, but it would not have been justified either - so do spare us your excuses.

Ultimately as adults we get over these things and view them in a rational perspective, that's part of what being a Homo Sapien is all about. You might do well to take that on board yourself.

Secondly, step down from the Hill of Tedious Morals regarding him betraying her privacy. Stuff like this is common among cohabiting couples.

Speak for yourself. It is common enough that cohabiting couples will accidentally come across each other's things, but specifically looking for them is another thing. I've not said that he is, but I would be very suspicious of how he came across the photographs in question nonetheless.

ChainFireMetal

And yet, unlike you, some people in Ireland know what spit-roasted means.

lol! just what i was thinking!