Sick Of The Size :(

LegacyUser

Long story short.. Im sick of the size of my circumsized penis.. The lenght and the width of it.. When erect it stands 5 inches, maybe a little smaller! Never properly measured. And its width I'd say is 1.5 inches. Now I have had sex a few times with my girlfriend and she re-assures me its not small but Im still really upset about it. Like they say if you have confidence it will be fine, I have confidence but still I doubt I will ever pleasure her to her most. When ever I put on the condom its loose and that then cause me to lose my errection tho making it hard to put it in her.. you know.. and then losing it completly! I feel really embarrised and felt like I let her down! But she says its ok! And the fact that Im circumsized takes away alot of the pleasure when entering the vagina and inside of it!

So basicly what Im asking is, Is their anyway to make my penis longer and thicker (even a tiny bit more) because I dont think I can go any longer with it! Do exercises actually work? and if so could someone link me to a website?!

thank you!

Dave!

Can I ask you what age you are mate?

LegacyUser

'Im 17!'

LegacyUser

'It's not so much d size of d lad in the fight
as the size of d fight in d lad !'

BoozyBabe

It's cliché, but honestly size isn't important.
I really really want you to believe me, because I'm not saying this to try & make you feel better.
Now, I haven't had all that many to compare, but my ex was quite big.
Defo a bit thicker than my current bf, & I'd say a good inch anyway longer.

Did I notice this first time with my bf?
Honestly, I did. I can't remember if it was the actual penetration or when that I noticed it, but I do remember knowing it was smaller.

Was I disappointed. Most definitely NOT.
I was & still am crazy about my bf. Just kissing him makes me want to jump him.

When we first had sex, it was absolutely incredible!!!!! As they say:- "it's not what you do, it's the way that you do it."
When he was inside me he just did something very different from my ex, & it was fantastic, best sex I'd ever had.
(& I'd been with my big willied ex for 5+yrs)

I say was is if all that's in the past. It's not. Our sex life is wonderful. It's just I no longer remember what my ex's felt like, or remember how differently he moved, so I don't compare.

All I know is my bf's willy is smaller, but boy does he know who to use it & I wouldn't want to change it for the world.

Please trust your gf. She's your gf. She's crazy about you. Trust me, your wee finger would have her going crazy never mind your willy.
Size honestly isn't everything. Just trust that she loves you, she wants to be with you, & when she says size isn't important, she isn't lying.

If you want to ask me anything, feel free to pm me.

Dave!

Very, eh, graphic post there BoozyBabe, thanks for that. I think we can all learn something from it

PeakOutput

BoozyBabe wrote:

Trust me, your wee finger would have her going crazy

thats exactly what i said ....she thought i was being lazy though

Talliesin

Unreg'd:( wrote:

Long story short.. Im sick of the size of my circumsized penis.. The lenght and the width of it..

Unreg'd:( wrote:

I have confidence but still I doubt I will ever pleasure her to her most.

There's a certain aesthetic advantage, but that's the same as acne-free skin, being "ripped", having nice eyes, or anything else that is commonly found attractive. And of course since people's taste varies all of these things are a matter of the averages - one particular person might prefer men to not be "ripped".

I have a big enough penis to be happy enough in that regard, but it really isn't much help in bed at all. My tongue and my fingers have certainly brought about more pleasure and more orgasms in lovers than my penis has, by a very large margin.

Talliesin

chump wrote:

I can say though that having an average sized willy (like mine) isn't all it's cracked up to be. Who wants to be normal

Both you and the OP (assuming you are both accurate in the measurements you give) fit within normal.

LegacyUser

'Hey listen in answer to your question, yes pi exercises (thats the muscles you exercise to get increased size) do work to a degree. I discovered this after a girl i was going out with told me mid conversation that the best sex she'd ever had was a one night stand with some guy with a wide cock. unfortuenetly not all girls are into the whole little finger will do cos they love you buzz unfortunetly.

i looked it up and started doing em, after about a month i most definitely had some increased size however i think i may have over done em a bit as i started to get tenderness around the base so i stopped but id recommend looking it up. the basic technique is you use a small hand towel soaked in warm water and squeezed out,
hold this around your erect penis to warm up the muscles.
now put your hand under the head and slowly stretch it up until you feel the pinch then hold for 10- 20 seconds then release and massage the blood back in.
then grab under the head again and stretch to the right as far as it will go, hold for 10 - 20 seconds release massage the blood back in then repeat the exercise to the left.

Don't do it more then twice a day and at opposite ends of the day, maybe before you jerk off.

as i said this isn't going to make you John Holmes but it might increase you a little and give you a little bit more self confidence, truth be told while size/shape does unfortunately come into the equation its still technique that wins out so don't get to freaked out, lack of confidence will make you a worse lover then lack of girth.

best of luck!'

Anti

Complete bull****.

Any woman saying size dosent matter has never had a decent size wang. Granted saying size is not everything is true, it what you do with it that really matters.

As for making your meat stick longer, forget them penis pumps, i have read many horror storys about them. At 17 you are not fully developed yet. Afaik the penis does not stop growing untill your 19/21 (i think) So there is a chance it might get a bit larger. As for the condoms, durex probably sell smaller condoms.

Marksie

Its about average.
But why the 1 dimensional thinking?

The P*nis is not the be all and end all by any stretch of the imagination, in fact, penetration is only a very very small part of the experience.

At 17 you are just beginning to learn all this.
There are oodles of erogenous zones which can be stimulated by hands, tongues, lips, even hair, not to mention feathers, silk scarves, and the like.

All this blends so that lovemaking becomes a total experince and not juts a focus on two sections, her and your genitals. if the two of you explore each other then it will show you just how irrelevant p*enis issues are

If you can overcome the idea of size, that being a good lover is somehow dependant on how long you can "last" or how fast you go or any of the things that society and your mates tell you.

It is no big secret how to become a good lover and hhow to recieve the same in return. Open communication.
If you ask your g/friend what she likes, does it feel good,and vice versa it will move you beyond this thinking.

Further, in opening like this you will move deeper and can explore all facets of lovemaking. You can ask for what you want and it will be given and vice versa.

Remember too that 80% of communication is non-verbal. Listen not only to what she says but the sounds she makes.
Listen with your fingertips, to the moves she makes and teh way the skin and musculature move beneath you. THAT will give you a better indication of how muhc pleasure she is recieving.

LegacyUser

'When I was 17 I thought I had a small penis aswell, but after having a few partners and a bit of practice it doesn't matter, trust me. Just get to know what ur partner likes and enjoys and she will never be complaining. watch her play with herself and see how she does it. Penetration isn't everything, a lot of girls won't orgasm from penetration, its all about d clit. I know this doesn't answer ur question about increasing ur size but I really don't think u have to go that far'

azezil

As others have said, there's a hell of a lot more to sex than ramming your cock deep inside your partner and its not the size of the boat its the motion of the ocean baby!

If you're worried about not pleasing your partner, go read a freakin sex manual

spurious

There are lots of things can be done to pleasure a lady without any involvement of a penis of whatever size - believe me - don't worry about it.

cowzerp

[QUOTE=Unreg'd

So basicly what Im asking is, Is their anyway to make my penis longer and thicker (even a tiny bit more) because I dont think I can go any longer with it! Do exercises actually work? and if so could someone link me to a website?!
thank you![/QUOTE]
At your age im sure your pulling and tugging at it regular enough so you will stretch it if its humanly possible! chill out little man!!

LegacyUser

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spurious wrote:

There are lots of things can be done to pleasure a lady without any involvement of a penis of whatever size - believe me - don't worry about it.

I know but for my own confidence I would like to be abit bigger, seeing as I have to look at it everyday!'

Marksie

Unreg'd:( wrote:

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I know but for my own confidence I would like to be abit bigger, seeing as I have to look at it everyday!'

So is the actual issue here not the fact that you are worried about pleasuring her, but in your own self confidence based on the fact you think in a penocentric manner.

Trust me as you gain experience and learn, it will not be an issue at all

Skiesonfire19

If the girl your with loves you it shouldnt matter.

Are you forgetting that average sive is around size anyway?

Skies

Wibbs

marksuttonie wrote:

So is the actual issue here not the fact that you are worried about pleasuring her, but in your own self confidence based on the fact you think in a penocentric manner.

In fairness most men think in a penocentric manner. That's what gets us into soooo much trouble. Kudos on the word penocentric btw. Class. In future if anyone suggests that I'm acting in a boorish manner around women, I'll say "no, I'm simply penocentric, you wouldn't understand..."

Trust me as you gain experience and learn, it will not be an issue at all

There's truth in that. It's only an issue if you perceive it to be. Most women don't. A woman's body is very adaptable and may only take account of size when the rest of the relationship, both in the bed and out is not up to scratch.

Women, while being mad, unfathomable people at the best of times, are generally more concerned about how you treat them, how you make them feel and how you respect them than the size of your pecker.

Talliesin

Wibbs wrote:

In fairness most men think in a penocentric manner. That's what gets us into soooo much trouble.

It's well worth getting out of that mindset though.

Wibbs wrote:

Kudos on the word penocentric btw. Class. In future if anyone suggests that I'm acting in a boorish manner around women, I'll say "no, I'm simply penocentric, you wouldn't understand..."

The word phallocentric is more widely attested.

SarahSassy

Anti wrote:

Any woman saying size dosent matter has never had a decent size wang.QUOTE]

Says him who is the moderator of tweaking and modding!!!!!!

From girls chats on a night out the general consensus has been that men with big 'wangs' tend to be very cocky (pun intended) and while a larger 'wang' may be generally more aestetically pleasing the owner of the big 'wang' tends to be a selfish and arrogant lover..... We are only talking from experience.

Marksie

SarahSassy wrote:

From girls chats on a night out the general consensus has been that men with big 'wangs' tend to be very cocky (pun intended) and while a larger 'wang' may be generally more aestetically pleasing the owner of the big 'wang' tends to be a selfish and arrogant lover..... We are only talking from experience.

Now you come to mention it, i recall am cosmo article, many years ago and trying to guage the perfect length.
The "big guys" were excluded for that very reason. It was the "Italian Stallion" syndrome.

The guys between 5-6" had according, to the article, the best blend of sensation and consideration*


*Cannot remember the date of issue and it was an in general article before the acutely sensitive guys get up in arms

Caryatnid

Unreg'd:( wrote:

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I know but for my own confidence I would like to be abit bigger, seeing as I have to look at it everyday!'

Ok whatever about the other issues you said in your first post . . . regarding this one.......just don't look at it everyday!!! I don't look at my womanly bits every day! Or maybe it's just because you're 17 - in which case maybe you're at the age where your fascinated with your new found friend, and I'm sure you'll get over it by the time you're 30.
Boys?

Marksie

Caryatnid wrote:

in which case maybe you're at the age where your fascinated with your new found friend, and I'm sure you'll get over it by the time you're 30.
Boys?

Nope ;-).

I like my lingham thank you very much :-)

Wibbs

Talliesin wrote:

It's well worth getting out of that mindset though.
The word phallocentric is more widely attested.

I was joking you know.

Caryatnid wrote:

Ok whatever about the other issues you said in your first post . . . regarding this one.......just don't look at it everyday!!! I don't look at my womanly bits every day!

Well your womanly bits are a little more around the corner so to speak, for a start. Plus we're holding it quite a few times a day and not just for pleasure purposes so it'll be a little more hard to avoid for the OP than you seem to think.

Or maybe it's just because you're 17 - in which case maybe you're at the age where your fascinated with your new found friend,

Personally I was well acquainted with it well before the age of 17. By that stage the novelty of first discovery was gone by at least 7 years.

and I'm sure you'll get over it by the time you're 30.
Boys?

Nope. Fascination not gone at all. Not by a long shot. No pun intended. Worry about size and such things should have calmed down by then though.

imeatingchips

Caryatnid wrote:

I'm sure you'll get over it by the time you're 30.
Boys?

unfortunately, no

it's like being chained to a lunatic

LegacyUser

Cut your pubic hair really short or shave it off!
Doing this makes your penis look bigger!

might give you a little bit of confidence, then you can concentrate on what you do with it rather than the size of it

Nytfevr

Hey man check out the sexpert on youtube. Listen to some solid advice from him. Don't refer to your weapon as small, from now on think of it as a huge snake, an anaconda. pen15s are for biology class, give yours a personality!

Call Me Jimmy

Nytfevr wrote:

Hey man check out the sexpert on youtube. Listen to some solid advice from him. Don't refer to your weapon as small, from now on think of it as a huge snake, an anaconda. pen15s are for biology class, give yours a personality!

class