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How do I get out of this mess?

  • 02-05-2007 11:36am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    My marriage of 10 years fell apart a while ago. We have 3 kids. There was no single reason for this, only a gradual and ultimately very sad decline in the relationship over a coule of years.

    I accepted it is over some time ago, and there is no way back now.

    I want to move on at this point, but cannot as we haven't reached a settlement to part formally. I am still living at home until this is finally sorted. Legal letters are flying around to and forth.

    Every element of my life has suffered - work (no interest in it), social (meeting mutual friends is awkward at best), confidence, and frankly I feel in a bit of a hole right now.

    I feel like I'm in pergatory of some sort tbh. A sort of non person.

    Any advice?


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  • #2
    Beruthiel
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    Crossroads. wrote:
    My marriage of 10 years fell apart a while ago. We have 3 kids. There I want to move on at this point, but cannot as we haven't reached a settlement to part formally. I am still living at home until this is finally sorted. Legal letters are flying around to and forth.

    Can you both not come to some sort of quick decision with regards to a legal separation?
    The sooner you are both not under the same roof, the better.
    It is extreemly difficult to move on while seeing each other on a daily basis. Try and sort that one asap. It's better to do that than to quibble over silly little things in the separation.
    Speaking from experience, once you have a place just for you, it will start to get better.
    Good luck!


  • #3
    Kell
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,479 ✭✭✭Kell


    I dont think any poster here can help you. TBH, I think you're only help is to be found with someone trained to help you take the next steps forward.

    K-


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Thanks folks.

    The legal thing will take it's course I'm sure, and it's time too. I just want it finished now.

    I'm ready to move on, and simply get on with my life. I'm sure my outlook will improve once under my own roof.


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