How old is too old?

LegacyUser

Hey, 22 yr old male, just a quick question. How old do you think is too old for a male of my age to be sleeping with? Currently in a sexual relationship, just sexual, with a 32 yr old woman, and my buddies are giving me a hard time about it. your opinions please

seamus

Your mates are jealous. Simple as.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with a nice healthy feck-buddy relationship with an older woman. 10 years is nothing.

Evil Phil

Nothing wrong with what this. As seamus said, they're just jealous.

22 and 32 is fine. 22 and 82 would be a bit weird imho.

Miss Fluff

Your mates are jealous. A woman really comes into her own sexually in her dirty 30s, she knows exactly what she wants and how to get it. What better way than an eager to please and virile 20-something year old. Keep up the good work lad.

BoozyBabe

Chances are she's far more experienced than ladies the same age as yourself, so your sex life is prob far better than your mates!!!!

Nothing wrong with the age difference.
Don't let your mates make you doubt yourself.
If you're enjoying it, then that's all that matters.

_blank_

That's fine.

When I was 21 I had a FB who was 38. Best sex I ever had. (hope my gf ain't reading this!)

Marksie

I was 21 in a relationship with a woman 31, lasted several years and we are friends.
They are just jealous, ignore them and enjoy the woman you are with

Zombrex

Unreg212reg wrote:

Hey, 22 yr old male, just a quick question. How old do you think is too old for a male of my age to be sleeping with? Currently in a sexual relationship, just sexual, with a 32 yr old woman, and my buddies are giving me a hard time about it. your opinions please

If it is "just" sexual there probably isn't a problem. Proper relationships with a large age difference can get complicated because often people of different ages want different things at that point in their lives.

But if it just a causal thing that probably isn't relevant. And while at 22 32 can seem very old, a 32 year old woman thinks she is quite young!

stovelid

Age differences are only in the eye of the beholder. I wish I had a older woman at that age. Enjoy...

aye

i had this this time last year. 23 and 33. was loads of fun.
why woud you care what the lads think anyway!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ruu_Old

stovelid wrote:

Age differences are only in the eye of the beholder. I wish I had a older woman at that age. Enjoy...

Couldn't agree more, enjoy yourself OP.

Slow Motion

Agree with all of the above, not quite the same but my other half is 8 years older than me and I'm a bit older than you OP, when your mates give you a hard time just smile and ask how their love lives are, chances are not as good as yours. Enjoy

chump

Why do people say his mates are jealous?
Everyone knows them very well?

Sure for all you lot know his mates are all hooked up with a gaggle of beauties.

I'd say OP that they're just winding you up. Whenever an easy opportunity arises to take the piss out of a mate usually the a group of lads will go for it. I'm just surprised that you're taking it to heart.

Stick at it and don't mind yar mates giving you a 'ribbing'

stovelid

Christ, these youngsters....they have a hot older woman on the go and all they can worry about is what their mates think. *tsk*

Oryx

I agree your mates are just jealous. And if they werent ripping you for this, it would be something else. The age gap is fine, (sexually shes at her peak and so are you, perfect!) The young guy/ older women thing is getting a lot more common and acceptable.

Men have much younger girlfriends all the time, this is just equality catching up.:D

And 32 is not old.....*cough*

Marksie

KatieK wrote:

The young guy/ older women thing is getting a lot more common and acceptable.

Men have much younger girlfriends all the time, this is just equality catching up.:D

And 32 is not old.....*cough*

ha neither is 43

But looking back to where i was then to where i am now, I would say never to regret this and live it to the full. Don't worry about the age gap or future. One thing that it did for me was ensure that those 20 year old posturings were seen for what they were. She took no bull.

I am assuming that she is confident and assured, mine was, learn from her and teach her as well. Whatever the future brings you this is going to really be a rapid learning curve for you, something that many learn late or not at all!