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What to think?

  • 30-03-2007 08:02PM
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,006 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi, I just want to get your opinions on something.
    Recently, about 2 months ago, I met a girl on the internet. We were getting along great online and talked on the phone everyday. We talked alot about relationships and what we are both looking for and she mentioned how she wanted to take things slow due to a bad experience in the past.
    She lives in london and asked would I like to come over for a few days. Which I did. We were getting along great or so I thought anyway. Ive been back home now for days and we have not been talking as much as we used to. In fact, we are hardly talking at all! And when we do she is very short with me. I know she is busy with other things at the moment, new job etc but I have a feeling something is up. Ive asked her is anything wrong or has she changed her mind about anything but she said im just being paranoid and she is just really busy. But I can feel that something is not right. I dont really know what as we got along so well when we met up. It felt like I had known her years. My head is officially wrecked now!
    Id be greatfull for some opinions on what you think is going on...


Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 43,044 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    The only way you will know is if you ring her and ask her.
    No one else has the answers you seek.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    Do you think anyone on here knows what is actually going through her head? I think all you'll get is a load of possibilities, most of which you will already know. The only person that knows for sure is this girl so just tell her what you told us...you know something is up & you can sense a change in her behaviour towards you. Alternatively, she might just be busy?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 911 ✭✭✭Little-Devil


    Do you think anyone on here knows what is actually going through her head? I think all you'll get is a load of possibilities, most of which you will already know. The only person that knows for sure is this girl so just tell her what you told us...you know something is up & you can sense a change in her behaviour towards you. Alternatively, she might just be busy?

    I agree, your probably only to get more head wrecking thoughts from others on what there opinions are. Why dont you let her contact you next and maybe play it cool over the weekend, like you said she says she busy, so she maybe tell the truth, but only you know this.

    If it was me i wouldnt contact her for a few days and let her call you and see if she says anything.


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