Any advice, please!

LegacyUser

Basically I quite like this girl, whom I believe likes me too (I've been told by people and I kinda get that 'vibe' from her) but the problem arises in that shes friends with alot of my friends.

I fear that she is trying to hide her feelings incase of problems that may insue a bad break-up etc.

So I'm just looking for some basic advice or maybe stories from people in similiar situations, thanks!

Ps: I have tryed asking her out but her reply was a very long winded and very unconvincing no.

Ruu_Old

How do you mean very unconvincing? Can you explain this a bit better?

biko

You are both young? Well, if she does not want to go out that's it really.
You can try wooing her though.

Beetlebum

Well, you're probably not going to want to hear this but if she really did like you, I think she'd give it a go despite worries that it may disrupt friendships if things were to go wrong. If you're mad about somebody, you're usually willing to take the risk if it means being with them. She did say no afterall, it doesn't really matter how unconvincing you say it was, the fact is she said no. She knows how you feel now, she'll come to you if she changes her mind. For now, I'd suggest you try to forget about this girl.

cornbb

Beetlebum wrote:

Well, you're probably not going to want to hear this but if she really did like you, I think she'd give it a go despite worries that it may disrupt friendships if things were to go wrong. If you're mad about somebody, you're usually willing to take the risk if it means being with them. She did say no afterall, it doesn't really matter how unconvincing you say it was, the fact is she said no. She knows how you feel now, she'll come to you if she changes her mind. For now, I'd suggest you try to forget about this girl.

Thats some good advice right there.