Getting hard and staying hard...??

kaizersoze123

Getting hard and staying hard...??
Ok little embarassed about this, but recently me and my girlfriend moved into the sexual side of our relationship, and while i have no problem with that, i do seem to have a problem of getting hard when i want to.
Normally not a problem, only seems to be when we actually get down to sexual intercourse, later on even its fine, i can be painfully hard for hours afterwords, lol. I am not old, only early 20s, not a virgin, but not very experienced either.

What i want to know, is there something i can do to help this (be hard on command), or do i just sit back and hope it will work its way out over time?

DarkJager

I suppose the best thing to do here is to introduce more foreplay before you get down to the sex itself. It should help you out...

6th

kaizersoze123 wrote:

Getting hard and staying hard...??
Ok little embarassed about this, but recently me and my girlfriend moved into the sexual side of our relationship, and while i have no problem with that, i do seem to have a problem of getting hard when i want to.
Normally not a problem, only seems to be when we actually get down to sexual intercourse, later on even its fine, i can be painfully hard for hours afterwords, lol. I am not old, only early 20s, not a virgin, but not very experienced either.

What i want to know, is there something i can do to help this (be hard on command), or do i just sit back and hope it will work its way out over time?

Take the stres out of it, just play around and not have it lead to full intercourse. The stress of the situation wont really be helping but if you're genuinely worry after a few more weeks go see your GP.

Caliden

relax and enjoy the situation and try not to overly assess the situation

Wibbs

If you've no problem keeping it up at other times, chances are high it's not physical. Pure stress mate. Stage fright as it were. Happens to us all. It'll pass after a while I'd reckon. The more foreplay plan as other have said is a good idea. It should take your mind off the whole penetration bit.

Lamps

I used to be the same, it stage fright.

Now within the first few seconds of foreplay hes up to say hello. This is also probly because the GF really really turns me on, which helps.

kaizersoze123

Sorry, i didnt actually post this...someone hijacked my account

Beruthiel

kaizersoze123 wrote:

Sorry, i didnt actually post this...someone hijacked my account

Then you should pay better attention to your account and safe guarding it kaizer. :rolleyes:
If it happens again, I'll site ban your account.
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