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Trying to break up with boyfriend for 4 months!

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,150 ✭✭✭Floppybits


    I have to say I feel for the poor girl and the reason why is that at one stage in my life I was that pitiful bloke crying on my knees because a girlfriend broke up with me. When I think back about it now I cringe saying what a silly twat I was. Anyway in the end the girl just told me F**k off and get a life, which is exactly what I did after a few weeks of feeling sorry for myself. The thing is that I didnt contact her again and I tell ya I am stronger for it and glad it happened to me because of some other things that have happened in my life since then.

    So my advice to you is to be cruel to be kind. You are doing the guy no favours by getting back with him when he crys or acts all pitiful. Just tell him that its over and thats he should just get on with his life. It will take a while but he will leave you alone, you just have to be strong and not answer any texts or phone calls from him. It has to be done because it seems this guy isnt going to move on if he thinks you will come back each time he sheds a tear.


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