The other half

LegacyUser

Right here is the story.

i have been friends with this girl for around a Year now, I'm desperately in love with her but i Just cant tell her.
Recently We were at a party, where i introduced her to a acquaitance of mine.

Now the two of are going out, and she never has time for me, Like i was ment to meet up with her today and she completely shafted me, I rang and she thought i was Joking when i said i was disapointed she was late,she laughed and Told me to "chill out".

I HATE THIS GUY. He Just makes me want to kill him, All i hear now Is that " oh {insert name} is so wonderfull, he's Great, he's perfect, i'm so glad you introduced us!"


This makes me sick... How can i show her that i'm her soul partner?

cournioni

Tell her how you feel, see what happens. You could end up getting your heart broken though. You know the "I like you as a friend but I'm with ..." line.

I personally think you've missed your chance.

cornbb

Thats a horrible place to be buddy. I don't know if there's anything you can do except put up with it and try to get over her. She's not your soul partner. Sorry dude.

Bottle_of_Smoke

If you want to have any contact with her in the near future then keep your feelings to yourself.

He'll find out, then use you as a running joke or forbid her from seeing you.

She'll more than likely avoid you because it's awkward. If she's going on about how wonderful he is to you then there's absoloutly no chance she'll dump him for you.

You have my sympathy, I think your best option for now is to phase her out & try to get used to the idea of her only being a friend/

Exar Khun

Been in that position before. Dude suck it up and move on nothing you can do, as said before you kinda missed your window of opertunity. Don't wait for her as it will wreck your heart. I also wouldnt suggest you tell her cause you'll only look like an idiot especially if you know she already seeing someone. I repeat suck it up, chalk it down as an experience you dont want to repeat, and what ever you do move on man!

Caliden

If she's only started going out with him recently let it run its course.
You may be lucky enough that the relationship ends on its own accord. Other than that there's not much you can do without riskign losing a friend if you try tell her how you feel while she is with someone.
Give it time

LegacyUser

Your jealous. Get over it.

Smushbush

i had this problem recently and i sorta felt like that aswell......best thing to do is to just let her see whet she is missing! i had to find a way to do this but i just decided, that if i felt that way about her and she doesnt listen,i should move on to someone that actually does listen! you know what i mean?

boffin

Think you missed out - i know its easier said than done but its time to move on. If you don't and are always there waiting for her in the background, she will deffo take you for granted. Also , if something was going to happen it prob would have happened by now.

tbh

boffin wrote:

. Also , if something was going to happen it prob would have happened by now.

I'd agree - tho I feel for ya mate, it's a horrible position to be in. My only advice would be don't carry on hating this guy because:

1. He didn't do anything wrong
2. If you hate him, your mate will know, and probably choose him over you
3. It's doing no-one any good, and only harming you.

what you hate is the fact that he got in there before you, so you're probably angry at yourself for not doing anything about the situation, but as said, she probably doesn't feel that way about you anyway.

Beruthiel

tered12332 wrote:

i have been friends with this girl for around a Year now, I'm desperately in love with her but i Just cant tell her.

I know it's harsh, but you snooze, you loose.
How is it that in one full year you did not make a pass at her?
In all that time, if she were interested in you there would have been a sign, I take it there weren't any?

I would think at this stage that you either forget about her altogether
or
Pour your heart out to her and let the cards fall where they may.

Like i was ment to meet up with her today and she completely shafted me, I rang and she thought i was Joking when i said i was disapointed she was late,she laughed and Told me to "chill out".

This is because you have feelings towards her and she just sees you as a mate who shouldn't get so uptight about a thing like that.