Touchysubject

LegacyUser

Right there is no way to say this without it sounding like a piss take, so here it goes. I am a young fairly healthy male in my early twenties. I have never had any problems meeting women, but once things got to the point where we would engage in sexual contact thats when things go downhill. I am a fully confident guy and its not performance anxiety or anything, you see the problem is when it gets to the point of penetration no matter what amount of foreplay is involved beforehand there is always discomfort on her part. Now my penis isn't super long about 7' but it is the girth that is the problem. I am yet to find a condom that doesn't almost cut it right off. I was just wondering what do people think about reduction or is it even viable, this really is no laughing matter for me and it is really making my life quite difficult.

Catari Jaguar

Women say size doesn't matter, but it is all about girth!

Try a lot of lube and some Durex kingsize or XXL condoms. Can get them on http://www.smartpaddy.ie if you can't find them in chemist. Ask the girls to go on top to control depth etc.

Look, if a girl can fit a baby out of her vagina, then your penis is not likely to cause much bother. Can't be much bigger than some of the freaky vibrators out there

iguana

Try the Magnum XL they are the widest on the market.

daiixi

I don't think there is such a thing as a reduction in this area. There is a lady who can insert an unlubricated football (think rugby) though so you're not completely out of luck. Relaxation and lubricant is anyones friend.

skywalker

Definitely take your time, tonnes of foreplay. And you can get those magnums in boots btw. I know it seems like the worst thing in the world, but take heart, it would be much worse if it was the opposite problem.

Blisterman

It'll take a while, but if you're going out with her a while, she'll get used to it, after a few weeks. Just take it slow until then.

spinandscribble

Blisterman wrote:

It'll take a while, but if you're going out with her a while, she'll get used to it, after a few weeks. Just take it slow until then.

truth

Marksie

The v*gina is very elastic. It IS designed to stretch well beyond your girth.

Maybe she is nervous, or you are nervous and it is transmitting to her. As a result she is involuntarily clenching.

In addition to what other posters have said, perhaps you could try not penetrating all the way initially.

The most sensitive part of the vagina, is the first couple of centimetres or so.

Rather than thining of deep penetration think of shallow, just the tip and light rapid movements of an inch or so. In that way she will feel more conmfiartable accepting you if you just concentate on those, let netural lubrication take its course and just let it accept you.

One of the names for teh technique is the thrust of the sparrow. It is like a bird, light, shallow strokes.

Don't be tempted to push hard at any stage, as the resistance lessens then it will move in naturally. If you do, withdraw to a more comfortable position.
The sensations for you will be very intense as well, though it may mean some effort as you will be holding your hips back.
Alternatively, use the woman on top position and don't move at all, let her get used to it and control it. In that way she can be more comfortable as she is dictating the pace, depth etc.

Beruthiel

Touchysubject1 wrote:

I was just wondering what do people think about reduction or is it even viable.

I've said it before, if a baby's head can come out, your schlong can go in.
I'd bet a months wages it's all down to the fact these women are not relaxed and ready for you.
Loads more foreplay is required.
Also, you don't mention how long these relationships last.
You will find a long term g/f much easier as she will be used to you and will tell you what she want/needs.
It's all about how relaxed and comfortable she is. Nothing whatsoever to do with your size.

Miss Fluff

Beruthiel wrote:

I've said it before, if a baby's head can come out, your schlong can go in.

ROFL

Get the lady in your life to go on top, that way she can control how deeply you penetrate her. Like everyone else said, LOTS of lube and don't worry, it will happen with time.

nicolo

do you wanna trade? you can have mine;)