Interested or not?

dceire

Ok so I like a girl at work, we get on great together and i get the since that the feeling is mutual. The thing is she has a quite flirtatious personality and I’m struggling to distinguish between her actual flirting and her just being herself.

Has anyone been in a similar situation or any general advice, not a big issue I’m mainly writing this out of boredom!

Red Hand

Maybe suggest that few of you from work (including her) go to the cinema, and if that goes well, maybe ask her to have a coffee or lunch (alone) sometime after?

Beelzebub

Yeah find out how she feels about you.

I was in a similar situation and I didn't do anything about it...she got married and I found out later that she fancied me but didn't think I fancied her...

Don't let that happen to you...

Live is too fckuing sort for regrets...

Fanny Cradock

That seems like a good idea, Jeremiah 16:1. However, I'm a little confused as to how sitting watching a film and not conversing for two hours or so could 'go well'... unless you try the penis in the popcorn trick. Get unsalted popcorn though. OP, after a hard days work you should casually suggest going somewhere to relax - just the two of you of course.

dceire

Fanny Cradock wrote:

try the penis in the popcorn trick. Get unsalted popcorn though.

Sounds like a foolproof plan to me!

LegacyUser

dceire wrote:

Ok so I like a girl at work, we get on great together and i get the since that the feeling is mutual. The thing is she has a quite flirtatious personality and I’m struggling to distinguish between her actual flirting and her just being herself.

Has anyone been in a similar situation or any general advice, not a big issue I’m mainly writing this out of boredom!

Yeah it's a tricky one seeing as you work together - you can't just avoid the person if it goes wrong.
I was in a similar situation with this girl who was a friend of mine, I went to college and worked with her also, and liked her quite a bit...
She would be really friendly towards me and giving me loads of attention etc.
I had an inkling maybe she liked me but couldn't work out whether it was just her friendly personality...

Anyway all of a sudden she just changed and barely notices me at all now!

Looks like she did like me after all but it's a bit late now.
So if you decide to "leave it and wait" you could end up in that situation.

Ah well I give up trying to figure out girls anyway. The batchelor life's not so bad.

_Kaiser_

Beelzebub wrote:

Yeah find out how she feels about you.

I was in a similar situation and I didn't do anything about it...she got married and I found out later that she fancied me but didn't think I fancied her...

Don't let that happen to you...

Live is too fckuing sort for regrets...

Same here.. really liked a girl in work and we got on great but I left it too long. When I eventually did ask her out "properly", she told me she'd just started seeing someone (who she's now married to)

Oh well... learn from our mistakes OP. Good luck!

dceire

Unreg4352 wrote:

Ah well I give up trying to figure out girls anyway. The batchelor life's not so bad.

I think you might be onto something there mate!:rolleyes: