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Boring girlfriend!

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,006 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Im still with her...
    Did'nt have the heart to break up with her on valentines.
    On the bright side though, I've taken marksuttonie's advice on board and we've been communicating a lot better recently...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,577 ✭✭✭StormWarrior


    Going on what you said in the first post, it doesn't necessarily sound like she's boring. It sounds to me like she's ashamed to be seen with you.

    If she was just boring, I could understand the not going anywhere. But that doesn't explain why she has kept you away from her family.

    You say when you're "having a laugh" with your mates she tells you to stop being childish. Perhaps your juvenile behaviour embarrasses her?

    You complain she's not adventurous enough in bed and says no to the things you want to try. Maybe you're either rubbish in bed and she wants to get it over sooner, or maybe you are asking her to do perverted things that she doesn't feel comfortable with? Maybe you're pressurising her to do things she doesn't want to. That's a turn off for anyone. Or maybe she's not attracted to you any more.

    You've never been invited to her house and she basically won't go out in public with you. I think she's just ashamed of you, and given your frankly horrible comments about sticking with someone who has the personality of a door just cos they're a looker, I don't blame her. Maybe she is currently going through a dilemma of how best to dump you. Do the poor girl a favour and set her free.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    Nice one StormWarrior! I was beginning to despair of the replies empathising with the OP. I know not all of them were, but it's nice to finally see a "you're being a horrible person" reply. OP, you obviously have no interest in her and your sex life is unfulfilling so what advice other than "break up with her" do you expect? Oh, but she's hot so there must be an alternative. Well there is an alternative: stay with her to use her as arm candy. :rolleyes:

    I can't believe you refer to her as your girlfriend when you talk the way you do about her. Did you ever love or respect her? Or did you just get with her in the first place because she's hot?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 334 ✭✭zeusnero


    '
    And yes it was the physical attraction at first.
    '

    Dudess!

    OP has already said that it was...

    And go easy on the guy ffs. To be fair, it sounds like he has tried to change things around and spice up his relationship, it's not like he just in there for the sex.

    It looks to me like he's going to give it a shot and who knows, maybe things will improve. Good luck with her OP and if you do break up with her, let her down gently!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 37,214 ✭✭✭✭Dudess


    I hear where you're coming from zeusnero, but no, I'm not convinced. It seems simple to me: he'd drop her like a hot potato if she wasn't that beautiful because there would not be a single reason to stay with her, but in this case, she is beautiful, so there is a single reason to stay with her. And that's why he's working on communication etc. Clutching at what straws there are that will give him an excuse to not have to dump this "hot" trophy girl.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 19,341 ✭✭✭✭Chucky the tree


    Dudess wrote:
    I hear where you're coming from zeusnero, but no, I'm not convinced. It seems simple to me: he'd drop her like a hot potato if she wasn't that beautiful because there would not be a single reason to stay with her, but in this case, she is beautiful, so there is a single reason to stay with her. And that's why he's working on communication etc. Clutching at what straws there are that will give him an excuse to not have to dump this "hot" trophy girl.



    So? Most* fella's wouldnt say no to a trophy girlfirned.


    Except the male posters on boards though, there a fine bunch who treat women like princesses. :rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,441 ✭✭✭Firetrap


    You've clearly got a low opinion of your girlfriend and are only going out with her because you like having a hot woman on your arm and you get regular sex. Why are you wasting your time with her? If you were single again, you might get the chance to hook up with the nymphomaniac intellectual babe you so desire.


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