Is it a big issue or am i thinking selfishly??

Shanod

I’m sure this has been discussed numerous times on here but was wondering if anyone has any advise !!

With my girlfriend a year now (both in our mid 20s) and totally love her to bits.

Everythings great, really really love her, but I reckon we’ve different sex drives!!

Now don’t get me wrong, the sex is great for both of us (or so she says ) but I’d probably be up for it every night (well even 6 nights a week ) but she might only be up for it 3 nights a week ! She said its nothing to do with me, just that she just doesn’t be in the mood every night!! While I love her, its sort of hard as anyone who has a high drive im sure would confirm !!

Does this happen with a lot of couples? Anyone any advise as I don’t like wrecking her head as im sure she’ll get pissed off with me, but its tough when the hormones are flying around the place!! Or am I thinking selfishly, unthoughtful, being a typical bloke, etc etc??

Beelzebub

Women usually aren't turned on as quickly as us guys! I'm not just talking about the usual foreplay.
Maybe you need to romance her a bit more. Surprise her!
You don't have to take her out every night of the week or buy her flowers every day! But you should do those things as well from time to time, when she doesn't expect it. Show her and tell her that you are thinking of her and that she's special to you.
You can do things for her, like massage her feet, most women I've known love that! Cook her a meal.... music, candle light etc.
Just don't jump her bones and expect her to be up for it!!!
Restraint, and control, the key words.
It takes a bit of an effort, but it's worth it!

Angeles

Op, there's a quick fix for this issue.
Her name is palm, invite her around for the 3 nights your g/f is away.

iremex

Angeles wrote:

Op, there's a quick fix for this issue.
Her name is palm, invite her around for the 3 nights your g/f is away.

without her five sisters, its a useless exercise!!

Miss Fluff

Some people love nothing more than having sex before work, others prefer a bit of nookie before sleeping for the night or during the night. Why not try and see if she is hornier in the morning? Or at another time during the day? Some people are just too tired at night after working all day and morning sex can be really really horny. The worst thing you can do is turn sex with you into a chore for her so just try and coordinate your horny times

onemanband

Excellent advice from Miss Fluff

Catari Jaguar

Most women are up for it in the morning, that's when guys have morning wood, so a woman is tuned to be most hormonal and horny then. That's science.

Black Swan

Yes, she may be tired from work or school when she gets home. That's natural. Rested mornings have already been suggested. In addition, are you two playful in your relationship? After all, we are just kids inside, with an adult candy coating...