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Am I overreacting?

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,303 ✭✭✭✭event


    dame wrote:
    The OP is 21 max and they've been going out for less than a year probably, considering he never met her mother.

    where does it say any of that?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 565 ✭✭✭free2fly


    Tristrame wrote:
    Incidently my Mum died only 2 weeks ago and my father 8 years ago so I've some idea of the emotional rollercoaster that puts you on.

    Sorry about your losses Tristrame and OP. I lost my mum this past Christmas Day and my dad's 4 year anniversary is coming up next month. So I know what you are feeling as well OP.

    You're not overreacting, but it does sound as if he's very sorry. Have you talked to him yet?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,006 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    'Maybe he hadn't wanked it off in a while and 'd baby gravy' started to build up and got the better of him - and then he got really horny while comforting U.

    Nevertheless - I'd say 'd little head' was doing the thinking for 'd big head'.

    Under the circumstances, I think it was a bit ignorant - but, then again, no one is perfect. If he is a half-decent fellow and not normally that ignorant, I'd probably forget about it if I was U.'


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 994 ✭✭✭Carrigart Exile


    bolliwoodi wrote:
    Last night my bf and I were in my house watchn a film.I was a bit ill so i was taking medication-I ended up taking a bit too much and was kinda dozy.The conversation turned to parents and I started crying(Its my mothers annivsery next week so i got a bit emotional)He was great-He held me and told me to let it all out....

    And I thought he was the best

    Until while hugging me he turned around and said" will ya give me a ****"

    I went mental and Kicked him out-Told him i never wanted to see him again!

    Hes been calling emailing and texting all day and im not replying.Im not mad cos he asked that(Cos weve slept together plenty of times)Im mad cos he asked it when i was crying about my mother-Sounds a tad overdramatic but I feel he was disrespecting my mothers memory!

    I know he didnt know her but thats not the point-You just dont do that when someones upset-Espically about someone who died!

    Am i right or am I overreacting?

    Are you sure he wasn't trying to crack a joke


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,943 ✭✭✭BeardyGit


    unroggggie wrote:
    'Maybe he hadn't wanked it off in a while and 'd baby gravy' started to build up and got the better of him - and then he got really horny while comforting U.

    Nevertheless - I'd say 'd little head' was doing the thinking for 'd big head'.

    Under the circumstances, I think it was a bit ignorant - but, then again, no one is perfect. If he is a half-decent fellow and not normally that ignorant, I'd probably forget about it if I was U.'

    Ah, there it is - The intelligent contribution.

    OP, you're over reacting. He said something stupid and innapropriate, whether he was horny or trying to be funny, or both.

    Get over it or just move on but don't make out that this 'problem' is all his fault, because it's clearly not.

    Gil


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,706 ✭✭✭craichoe


    He probably just took the situation up the wrong way...

    Are you having sex or just giving each other hand love ?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,623 ✭✭✭dame


    event wrote:
    where does it say any of that?

    She said in the OP that he never met her mother...since her mother died one year ago it is a reasonable assumption that they've been going out for less than or just about a year. In her post about being disappointed over job interviews the OP said she'd done her Leaving Cert three years ago....hence an age of 21 max.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 938 ✭✭✭chuci


    id have been offended too dont think your over reacting but i suppose let him apologise and let him know why you got so upset. also see if he has an explaination for waht he said. i mean its bound to be worth a giggle


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