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Some advice please....

  • 29-01-2007 5:34pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Just looking for some advice here been seeing a guy for couple of months now (nothing serious) but the spark seems to have disappeared already.

    Couple of weeks ago we had a pregnancy scare and I think this has something to do with the way im feeling because I havent slept with him since, but i just feel like im not attracted to him sometimes, personality wise were a match made in heaven and we get on fine.

    Now I don't know if i should break up with him and move on but it would kill me to hurt him because he is so nice, any advice wud be appreciated thanks!!


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  • #2
    Black Swan
    Moderators, Category Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 47,532 CMod ✭✭✭✭Black Swan


    Dontknowwhat2do wrote:
    Just looking for some advice here been seeing a guy for couple of months now (nothing serious) but the spark seems to have disappeared already.
    It would seem that you have answered your own question?


  • #3
    humanji
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,976 ✭✭✭✭humanji


    Tell him about it. Simple as that.


  • #4
    Petey2006
    Closed Accounts Posts: 423 ✭✭Petey2006


    Honesty really is the only way. I know it'll probably hurt him, but being lied to would be far worse.


  • #5
    Kell
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,479 ✭✭✭Kell


    Dontknowwhat2do wrote:
    been seeing a guy for couple of months now

    Then why on earth are you giving the matter so much thought? The sparks gone, he doesnt flick your switch anymore, so move on. Simple. Stop complicating things.

    K-


  • #6
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    Kell wrote:
    Then why on earth are you giving the matter so much thought? The sparks gone, he doesnt flick your switch anymore, so move on. Simple. Stop complicating things.

    K-

    In a nutshell. You're seeing each other as friends anyway so why not make it official and break up with him.


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  • #7
    sweet-rasmus
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,128 ✭✭✭sweet-rasmus


    Dontknowwhat2do wrote:
    the spark seems to have disappeared already.

    im not attracted to him sometimes, personality wise were a match made in heaven

    you've said it yourself; better as friends.
    Now I don't know if i should break up with him and move on but it would kill me to hurt him because he is so nice, any advice wud be appreciated thanks!!

    of course you wouldn't want to upset him, but the longer you let it drag, the harder it will be to say. just say it, as best you can, reinforcing the fact that you feel like you're acting as friends, and perhaps that's what it should be. good luck :)


  • #8
    kaalgat
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 136 ✭✭kaalgat


    Petey2006 wrote:
    Honesty really is the only way. I know it'll probably hurt him, but being lied to would be far worse.


    I agree.


  • #9
    Ruu_Old
    Closed Accounts Posts: 36,634 ✭✭✭✭Ruu_Old


    Get on with your life and let him get on with his with someone else also. Be honest.


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