sent new girlfriend a really weird text!

LegacyUser

so i've been seeing this girl for a few weeks and everything is going really well. last night i was really drunk and i sent her two really crazy texts which make absolutely no sense to me today! basically i sent some crazy talk about me being a bastard! i have no idea why i sent those texts, particularly since i'm not a bastard!

she sent me a text today saying my texts have freaked her out.

i've explained that i was really drunk and that i have no idea why i sent those texts, that i'm not a bastard and that she should dismiss them as drunken nonsense...

she has said ok but i still feel like i'm after doing something with more permanent unrecoverable consequences!

Am i being paranoid?

I won't be seeing her again until tomorrow night.

wheelbarrow

Don`t worry about it. If she makes an issue of is she is just making excuses. If you`re out drinking again, give the phone to a friend.

Ruu_Old

Don't make a habit out of it. You admitted you were wrong so hope that will be the end of it.

Tails142

dont give the phone to a friend, my friends would just text something even worse to her =P

zAbbo

textinidiot wrote:

so i've been seeing this girl for a few weeks and everything is going really well. last night i was really drunk and i sent her two really crazy texts which make absolutely no sense to me today! basically i sent some crazy talk about me being a bastard! i have no idea why i sent those texts, particularly since i'm not a bastard!

she sent me a text today saying my texts have freaked her out.

i've explained that i was really drunk and that i have no idea why i sent those texts, that i'm not a bastard and that she should dismiss them as drunken nonsense...

she has said ok but i still feel like i'm after doing something with more permanent unrecoverable consequences!

Am i being paranoid?

I won't be seeing her again until tomorrow night.

Maybe cut back on the booze ?

Princess Consuela Bananahammock

Both previous posts seconded.... drink less, leave phone at home.

Heisenberg.

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Uhm
Call her?

You're letting a drunken misunderstanding fester and all you are doing about it is texting?
Is the green button on your phone broken?

Go out and do something normal with her ie meet up and make a laugh about the texts as if they are meaningless drunk drivel.
Thats what they were weren't they?

GretchenWieners

phone at home is all i can say!

Duras

textinidiot wrote:

so i've been seeing this girl for a few weeks and everything is going really well. last night i was really drunk and i sent her two really crazy texts which make absolutely no sense to me today! basically i sent some crazy talk about me being a bastard! i have no idea why i sent those texts, particularly since i'm not a bastard!

she sent me a text today saying my texts have freaked her out.

i've explained that i was really drunk and that i have no idea why i sent those texts, that i'm not a bastard and that she should dismiss them as drunken nonsense...

she has said ok but i still feel like i'm after doing something with more permanent unrecoverable consequences!

Am i being paranoid?

I won't be seeing her again until tomorrow night.

The issue here is not the text you sent but the fact that you don't remember if/why/when you sent them.

Get a closer look to the picture here... There may be other things you don't remember, not only those texts... You say u r not a bastard... or maybe u r when u r dead drunk? You wouldn't remember anyways... :eek:

So my advice is, don't jump over the hedge. Drink as much as you want but make sure that all the time it's YOU who enjoys the drink and not your auto-pilot.

And her freaking out... I don't think few texts are such a big deal... Imagine this scenario: u were drunk, some mate of yours wanted to have fun; he took ur phone and sent those texts without u seeing it... Or maybe u saw it but u were just to out of there to even process what u saw.

Good luck.

ANXIOUS

ive had this happen before, quite simply blame it all on your friends deny it to the ground . And when you see her today, tell her that it was your friends that text her, and the only reason you said it was you was because, you didnt want her to get a bad impression of your friends.

limklad

textinidiot wrote:

so i've been seeing this girl for a few weeks and everything is going really well. last night i was really drunk and i sent her two really crazy texts which make absolutely no sense to me today! basically i sent some crazy talk about me being a bastard! i have no idea why i sent those texts, particularly since i'm not a bastard!

she sent me a text today saying my texts have freaked her out.

i've explained that i was really drunk and that i have no idea why i sent those texts, that i'm not a bastard and that she should dismiss them as drunken nonsense...

she has said ok but i still feel like i'm after doing something with more permanent unrecoverable consequences!

Am i being paranoid?

I won't be seeing her again until tomorrow night.

Do not feel paranoid about your situation, it may be bad, but it could also be good. You can tell a lot about your girlfriend in how she reacts to it and from your apology (hoping it was sincere). If she still gets paranoid, then it is time to call it a day.. you will understand if you don’t. :eek:

Sony

No big deal-just dont do it again!!

LegacyUser

'So ya sent a drunken text? Who ****in hasn't! If she's still "freaked out" the next day instead of laughing it off, and is willing to tell you she's freaked out, she needs to loosen up a bit. Ya don't wanna be walking on eggshells every time your drunk.'

kaalgat

My ex-boyfriend did that too sometimes. First time was shortly after we started seeing each other. I was a bit puzzled the first time, but when he explained that he was a bit up the tree at the time, it was grand.
It's not worth making a fuss about.

But I agree with everybody else that maybe you should leave the phone at home/with a friend if you know you're going out/getting hammered