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Feeling the blues...still

  • 26-01-2007 11:24pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hallo all,
    When i split with my gf i was gutted,she said she wasnt happy but really i think she just didnt want to be tied down anymore since she was in long relationship b4 me and was taking care of her family an awful lot,i knew it was a hard thing for her to do and she left by calling me that cute name she calls me and said maybe sometime again in so many words.She moved outa home and we kept in contact for about 5 mths after, b4 we drifted apart.

    That was a year and a half ago!During that time i went on a 6 mth break to oz and went back to college,call it a new lease on life.Met a few girls on the way and this one girl who was stunning,i mean heads would turn,went out with her for 2 months b4 i started to 'drift away',she was really nice and put in an effort,ppl were calling me crazy and to be frank i thought i was too but the feeling just wasnt there.I'm not the strongest of ppl on the inside but i always thought myself as being able to deal with things.

    Sometimes i still think of my ex,like when i stay in at night i wonder if she's out having a good time and who she's with.

    Jesus a year ago i thought i'd be well and truly over it by now.We lived in the same town and she went over seas to finish studying so we're bound to meet again,but god what the hell am i holding on to,i mean i just cant help it!
    If i seen her going out with someone else i know it would still affect me,a year and a half is a nice bit of time to get over someone but their is something still stuck to me which,i dunno,just cant let go...


Comments

  • #2
    Anti
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,401 ✭✭✭✭Anti


    Sounds like you think of her as the love of your life. But it is time to move on, as im sure she has.


  • #3
    littlesurfer
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 812 ✭✭✭littlesurfer


    why don't you try and get in touch with her....if she's interested then great ,...if not you'll know you need to move on......its the crappiest feeling in the world and a year and a half is too long to be going through it.....


  • #4
    Ruu_Old
    Closed Accounts Posts: 36,634 ✭✭✭✭Ruu_Old


    You are tormenting yourself OP. If you want then go ahead and find out how she is doing but if she is in a relationship then it might not help you, best to get on with your life and stop mulling over this.


  • #5
    I_and_I
    Closed Accounts Posts: 126 ✭✭I_and_I


    Maybe you are not letting yourself think of another in the same way, I mean if you still feel that there is a possibility that ye might get back together you will never have room for someone else, you sound like you never really got any closure. Although a year and a half could be considered just that.


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