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Would I be a dirtbird?

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  • Posts: 9,005 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    First of all.If I did not know her.I would have been with her by now.But I do know her.We were out tonight.Told her to come to disco Iwas in.She went to other disco.I ignored her texts.We happened to get same taxi home.Her friend was like"Give her a hug".I gave them both a hug.Then she was like"Just give [other girl] the hug."
    Christ I wish I was kinda sober instead of being totally drunk.:(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,658 ✭✭✭✭The Sweeper


    You ignored her texts? It's like watching a train wreck. Go to bed. Sleep. Drink water. In the morning when you're sober, sort things out.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,509 ✭✭✭✭randylonghorn


    /adopts nature-programme-commentator voice:

    " ... and they circle each other in a mating ritual which is as old as time."


    Jeez, Dazzler, you NEVER ignore a woman ...
    ... when she's talking to you
    ... texting you
    ... whatever
    ... unless of course you WANT to crash and burn!

    The only time it's safe to ignore a woman is when she's asleep in bed ... in another room ... on the other side of the world ... and there isn't a phone for 50 miles!

    Now listen to MAJD, get some kip, and start afresh tomorrow.


  • Posts: 9,005 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Don't really remember writing that message.Dam I think actually really fancy her.lol
    Fun times in NUIG!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,333 ✭✭✭Zambia


    Don't really remember writing that message.Dam I think actually really fancy her.lol
    Fun times in NUIG!

    :D Dude you are so goona die alone...


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 980 ✭✭✭macroman


    Nah man, you wouldn't be a dirtbird! Most relationships start off as friendships! Go for it, she obviously is interested or is a really intimate friend! No harm in chancing your arm! ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,509 ✭✭✭✭randylonghorn


    Don't really remember writing that message.
    Why does that not surprise me?!
    :rolleyes: :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,128 ✭✭✭sweet-rasmus


    yeah... ignoring texts will leave you in the dog house for a while, deffo! (remember for future ;)) good luck with whatever comes next :) though perhaps make sure she has cooled off before you make any more advances :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,980 ✭✭✭limklad


    First of all.If I did not know her.I would have been with her by now.But I do know her
    We were out tonight.Told her to come to disco Iwas in.She went to other disco.I ignored her texts.We happened to get same taxi home.Her friend was like"Give her a hug".I gave them both a hug.Then she was like"Just give [other girl] the hug."
    Christ I wish I was kinda sober instead of being totally drunk.:(
    She is playing you and you are play her. You both are going down two seperate roads
    /adopts nature-programme-commentator voice:

    " ... and they circle each other in a mating ritual which is as old as time."


    Jeez, Dazzler, you NEVER ignore a woman ...
    ... when she's talking to you
    ... texting you
    ... whatever
    ... unless of course you WANT to crash and burn!

    The only time it's safe to ignore a woman is when she's asleep in bed ... in another room ... on the other side of the world ... and there isn't a phone for 50 miles!

    Now listen to MAJD, get some kip, and start afresh tomorrow.
    I agree.
    Don't really remember writing that message.Dam I think actually really fancy her.lol
    Now you relies this, everybody reading these poster already know you fancy her before now, from your previous posts.
    Fun times in NUIG!
    Not the way you are doing things!!
    see
    Zambia232 wrote:
    :D Dude you are so goona die alone...

    Not if you ask her out together to some event or drink (without friends getting in the way). Ask her out!! and let us know!
    Good luck


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 823 ✭✭✭dumbyearbook


    id say the
    "fun times in NUIG" was sarcasm I had my fun time at nuig and not being a twat but if i liked a girl and i was in -i was in and there was none of this rubbish youre like somethin off Dawsons Creek your daft in the head coming on here and then doing nothing, GO GET SOME or lock this thread, text her back man god youre off the wall?
    "Hugged them both" unless you are up for a threesome which i doubt by the sound of you ignore the other birds housemates whatever - you tryin to keep everyone happy or what ?

    Quick one here for you ---- do you like her or like the idea of liking her?


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  • Posts: 9,005 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I like being ackward.I know she likes me now because her roommate told me she was upset in the disco that I did not go.You dont need girls to have fun in NUIG!:D (They are a help.):p

    We will see what happens in tequila twister tonight.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 823 ✭✭✭dumbyearbook


    ......anyways best a luck I can see what you mean, ive been awkward myself in the past its no harm at all


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,980 ✭✭✭limklad


    We were out tonight.Told her to come to disco Iwas in.She went to other disco.
    I know she likes me now because her roommate told me she was upset in the disco that I did not go..
    ... and you're sending her mixed messages.
    He is sending everybody mixed signals not just her...:eek:
    We will see what happens in tequila twister tonight.
    Don't forget to tell her which Disco you are going to. :rolleyes:
    I like being ackward..
    I now feel sorry for her..:eek:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,509 ✭✭✭✭randylonghorn


    I know she likes me now because her roommate told me she was upset in the disco that I did not go.
    ... and she texted you, and you were ratarsed, in a "F*** her" mood and ignored her ... doofus! :D
    limklad wrote:
    He is sending everybody mixed signals not just her...:eek:
    You mean the bit about not needing girls to have fun in NUIG ? :D I'm not sure that was exactly what he meant! (:p @ Dazzler)

    Ach, seriously, give him a break, it's very easy to be the hurler on the ditch!

    / sits back and awaits the next episode of "Playboy of the Western World - The Remix"


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,566 ✭✭✭GrumPy


    This thread better have some good reading when you get home from your night out OP!!!

    She likes you, you like her, YOU are messing her around!!! Get stuck in already, but only if your 100000% sure she is into you, otherwise you will ruin a good friendship too!


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,119 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    Jaysus, I might head along and watch the trainwreck in the disco toinight.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,980 ✭✭✭limklad


    You mean the bit about not needing girls to have fun in NUIG ? :D I'm not sure that was exactly what he meant! (:p @ Dazzler)
    This was for Dazzler


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,980 ✭✭✭limklad


    Jaysus, I might head along and watch the trainwreck in the disco toinight.
    Give us an update with a nature-programme-commentator commentry:
    The world is waiting...:eek:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,317 ✭✭✭McSween


    mate, let me have her number and i'll suss her out for you :D:D

    seriously i think the thread should be closed if he doesnt get off with her tonight :)

    unless you are like me and enjoy the chase and lose interest when the kill has been achieved?


  • Posts: 9,005 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Drunken twister and a message from her aking me"if I loved her" and I was with her.God love 2 euro tennants and other people bottles of tequila!!:D
    I even hae next girl sorted for if this goes off the rails.


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  • Hosted Moderators Posts: 7,486 ✭✭✭Red Alert


    Legend! Good man! (I need to start work on my own project now!)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,382 ✭✭✭Motley Crue


    There is a stumbling block as she was with a good friend of mine last september.Would I be a dirtbird to pursue this girl?

    I dont know what a dirtbird is, but im pretty much assuming that you aint one and im telling you now to ring this girl!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,317 ✭✭✭McSween


    Drunken twister and a message from her aking me"if I loved her" and I was with her.God love 2 euro tennants and other people bottles of tequila!!:D
    I even hae next girl sorted for if this goes off the rails.

    elaborate please


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,124 ✭✭✭missmatty


    Imagine. After all this ****e, he gets with her but already has the next conquest earmarked.


  • Subscribers Posts: 32,872 ✭✭✭✭5starpool


    Drunken twister and a message from her aking me"if I loved her" and I was with her.God love 2 euro tennants and other people bottles of tequila!!:D
    I even hae next girl sorted for if this goes off the rails.
    Who says romance is dead.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,509 ✭✭✭✭randylonghorn


    Drunken twister and a message from her aking me"if I loved her" and I was with her. God love 2 euro tennants and other people bottles of tequila!!:D
    Finally!

    /dusts off cobwebs
    I even have next girl sorted for if this goes off the rails.
    Get out of that, ya .... oh , wait, this is PI, I can't call you what I want to call you! :D

    Good luck with it!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,980 ✭✭✭limklad


    I even hae next girl sorted for if this goes off the rails.
    Its offical he care for her. :rolleyes:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78,787 ✭✭✭✭Victor




  • Posts: 9,005 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    limklad wrote:
    Its offical he care for her. :rolleyes:

    Im young.Im going to america in the summer.Whats the point in just having somethng serious with the one person before you are going to be gone for four months?
    Just not worth it.I really like her but I am young and footloose and got really hurt n my last relationship.We watched dvd tonight.But there was others around.(Oh yeah.Nothing happened tonight.)


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,509 ✭✭✭✭randylonghorn


    I really like her but I am young and footloose and got really hurt n my last relationship.
    It happens, mate. It has happened to all of us, but you can't let it stop you from trying again, or you'll miss out on a lot of things.

    Anyway, that's long-term advice, rather than really directed at this situation.

    You have to make your own decision on this one ... don't mind us winding you up, it was just irresistible, probably because most of us could picture ourselves in the same situation, or had really been in it.

    Just don't end up hurting her because you got hurt, that wouldn't be very fair, would it?


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