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Appropiate behaviour ?

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 643 ✭✭✭Beelzebub


    IrishMike wrote:
    Theres a lot of deeply paranoid people here
    Is it not right that i give her the benefit of the doubt?
    And spying on her? Im not exactly james bond and what would that accomplish?
    I want the girl to be honest with me, i will find out either way if she was with
    someone else so i have to trust her or else there really is no point
    And can i also say that she is normally pretty shy and it just happens when
    she is drunk that she gets "dutch courage" as they say
    Breaking up with someone for flirting is maddness IMHO

    Yeah, IrishMike, I agree with you.
    Definitely give her another chance. You'll always regret it if you don't.

    Good Luck.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,838 ✭✭✭DapperGent


    lol at guys buying chicks drinks all night.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,623 ✭✭✭dame


    Does she not have any female friends? I'd be disgusted if one of my friends behaved like that! Does she go out all alone or what? How does it end up that she spends all night chatting to one guy and sponging off him? Does she have no self respect at all. Or any respect for you.

    I wouldn't be inclined to fall for the tears if I were you. I'd say other posters are right in saying that she's stringing you along until something better comes along.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 301 ✭✭Sony


    Mike stick with her-this is'nt reason enough to want to break up-Ive been in this situation before and in my case I was prepared to stick with her and see how things panned out...it was worth doing!

    Everyones different, she just sounds a little insecure,maybe has had bad exp with other guys in the past or is just afraid of getting too close to you...if you even consider walking away now you'll regret it.

    Take a chance,trust her and just go with the flow;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,980 ✭✭✭limklad


    Sony wrote:
    Everyones different, she just sounds a little insecure,maybe has had bad exp with other guys in the past or is just afraid of getting too close to you...if you even consider walking away now you'll regret it.

    Take a chance,trust her and just go with the flow;)
    Been insecure or bad experience with others is not an excuse to do what she did! You can justify bad behaviour especially since it was not mike who she had the bad experience with. Mike is the victim here


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