I'm going to burst!!

LegacyUser

I fancy a guy in work for ages now - I'm just not sure if he fancies me! I think he knows I fancy him as I think he may have overheard a conversation I was having with one of my colleagues!!! We get on really well and he's a bit of a messer so when we meet he is either trying to scare me by jumping out from behind doors or playfully pushing me - so Guys out there? Do you reckon he does fancy me. I don't think he will ever make a move though. Thought something might have happened at the xmas party but nothing....

Miss Fluff

He sounds interested girl! Organise a work night out with just a few of you, get him drunk then take advantage

Ruu_Old

Don't be waiting for someone else to make the move, if you want to be with him then go ahead and ask him out for a drink or something.

little lady

I agree he sounds interested, however he may not want anything to happen in front of other co-workers. Why not indirectly ask him out? Something along the lines of "Myself and my mates are going to X pub on Y day, pop along if your not busy!"

His reaction and him showing up or not will answer your question.

LegacyUser

Miss Fluff (!!!) - what do U mean by 'take advantage' ??? Tut. Tut.

Does that mean 'take him to a prayer meeting' or 'take his trousers off
and give him one' ??? Can U please be more specific. Afterall, they have to work together and we don't want an embarrassing situation.

Anyway, I do think he is interested in U and U could invite him out for a
cup of coffee as a start and take it from there.

r3nu4l

Little lady has hit the nail on the head! Go for it.

LegacyUser

'One thing that might effect the whole thing and maybe I should have mentioned this earlier, I kissed another boy at the end of the night of the xmas party. Not sure if he knows but Im sure boys talk - do you think this would effect how he'd feel about me!???????'

LegacyUser

Maybe I should have told you that at the end of the xmas party i kissed another work colleague. I'm not sure if he found out or would it effect him asking me out if he knew.

Awhhhhhhh - I'm gonna burst.

little lady

OK, this could be an issue depending on if he knows or not although it doesn’t have to be a HUGE issue. Everyone has had a drunken kiss at some stage however if he knows he may think that you’re not interested in him and therefore probably won’t make a move on you.

I still would go with my original idea of casually asking him out. If he goes and brings up your xmas kiss, laugh it off as what it was a silly mistake, if nothing is mentioned then don’t say a thing. At the moment you’re free to kiss whomever you please so if he likes you it really shouldn’t be a problem.

py2006

Miss Fluff wrote:

He sounds interested girl! Organise a work night out with just a few of you, get him drunk then take advantage

Can you imagine the reaction to this comment if the the sexes were reversed?

LegacyUser

No

Mojito

He does sound like he does like you as for if he's interested there's only one way to find out.

Invite him out to town some weekend when he's doing nothing. Say you've got a couple of tickets to some show and none of your friends can go and would he like to go. If he say yeah, go buy a couple of tickets and hope they haven't sold out!

Hit a pub afterwards get him drunk and take advantage of him! We love that!

PS: I'm free next Saturday and there's a good comedy show on I'd like to go to.

Victor

Mojito wrote:

PS: I'm free next Saturday and there's a good comedy show on I'd like to go to.

Get your own thread or you'll be getting a ban stick.

Húrin

Ask him out.