Scared of change

LegacyUser

hey, i've had a problem on my mind lately. My girlfriend of a year and a half is off to college this year after her leavin cert in June and i'll only be goin into 6th year. i'm just scared dat she might not want to be with me anymore when she goes. i just feel she will be too busy with all her new friends and socialising to see me. she might see me being too imature compared to other guys in her class. has anyone had a similar incident before? how did it turn out? am i just being insecure?

thanks

free2fly

It sounds like insecurity to me OP. Have you talked to your gf about the way you feel?

Ruu_Old

Theres no reason you can't hang around with her when shes in college. It does sound like you are insecure, talk to your other half and sort something out.

Poppy84

Me and my guy were in this situation I was the one going of too college.

You need to tell her your insecurities before she goes. Ye have been going out long enough Im sure she loves you.
WHen she goes make sure ye keep in contact make an effort to ring her and be in touch during the week.
Also make an effort to meet her new friends and visit her in college she needs to know you support her in going to college. By staying in touch and visiting etc you are creating a presence in her college life that way its not going to be her "new life i.e. her college life" and "her old life i.e. her life at home".

This is what happened me and my guy we broke up so many times when i was in college cos it was like i had two seperate lives and once it starts off that way its very hard to change.

dont be too worried about things im sure you will be fine just keep in mind not to let it get to the stage were she has two lives

Black Swan

Talk to her.