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Friend thinks I tried it on with her BF....

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 16 sexkitten


    Yeah your dead right. There’s no reason for you to be dreading going into work every day. you didn’t do anything wrong. Its just a pity you work together. I bet you anything she’ll realize your not in the wrong and she’ll slowly but surely start talking to you again.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,006 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    'OP under no circumstances bring this problem into work.
    Leave it at the workdoor, otherwise you may face bullying haressment charges in work.

    Speak to her about this matter outside work hours and if possble speak to her and her bf together.
    Put him right on the spot and make him lie to your face, something much harder to do.'


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,006 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Oh I would never for a second think of bringing it into work, I value my career far too much for that. She originally started it in txt and wanted to wait and talk to me yesterday when she was back in work but I rang her and said under no circumstances was this to be brought to work.
    Dealing with her work wise so far (touch wood) has been fine. She seems to be better today and asking for help etc as opposed to one word replies to mails yesterday.
    I don't think she would go as far as to report me as bullying however, I never thought I'd be accused of something like this either so I obviously don't know her as well as I thought.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,006 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    'Had a chat today after work with my friend. She now believes after my reaction that It was nothing malicious however she still believes I tried to kiss him but just because I was drunk and messing.
    I told her my side, how I did not kiss him nor try to and that maybe he read a lot more into what was nothing but a mere chat.
    I know she will never believe me as she is being told otherwise by her boyfriend and I think if I had said "yeah sorry, was locked and just messing" it would all be forgotten about. Obviously I am not going to do this so I think it'll be a case of being polite in work and when we meet with our mutual friends but we will never be friends again as such. Maybe i'm better rid, I don't know but thats guys for all your support and posts, It really has helped me get through all this!'


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