Praying as part of a group

foxyloxy

Hi all,
I hope this post isn't inappropriate.

I was raised a Roman Catholic, and practised into my teens while living in the family home.
Later I explored "spirituality" as opposed to religion. I feel I have a more personal relationship with God and Spirit now, as it comes from a deeper longing to be a good, honest person. As opposed to going to church with my family once a week.
I recently returned to mass, and though I find comfort and familiarity in the "ritual" and peace of mass, I do feel slightly dis-connected from the congregation.
I'm wondering, should I try another church (by which I mean not RC). I feel I would enjoy particiapting in a group, without wanting to sound frivoulous.
I think praying with other people through words and singing (I love choir) would be more fulfilling. I suppose I am looking for the community that comes from praying with a group.
Is this right or wrong or selfish? Am I looking for something for the wrong reasons?
And if not, where would one start? Is it rude to simply turn up at a church where you have no introduction?
I'm explaining this very badly, but I'd appreciate any insights or help.
With thanks
FL

BrianCalgary

I would go on a church shop trip. Find some churches in your area and start going to different ones every week until you get comfy.

It isn't rude to just go unannounced to any church. If you were here we would love you to pop by. Many churches here in North America give vistors an opportunity to fill in a little form if they would like to talk with a church member at a future date.

This gives you an opportunity to meet informally with someone and ask what the church has to offer.

PM me if you would like and I'd be more than happy to help you get started in your quest.

Excelsior

Christianity is Christianity. The Catholic Church preaches Christ crucified. So do all other true Christian churches. My view is that theologically you are on firm ground. We all have different personalities because God has seen fit to have us shaped this way. For me personally, I appreciate the cereberal approach to faith in my home tradition. For others, it would be too dry and verbose.

So do what BC advises- seek out a spiritual home where you feel secure and fulfilled and then get on with loving God and loving your neighbour!

Barnabas

I'm not so sure that the approach to worship of God should be modelled on our modern consumerist society as, I would respectfully suggest, Brian seems to be advocating. Shopping around is what one does when one wants to buy a pair of shoes or when one wants to get the best bargain. It probably isn't the best course of action when it comes to the practice of one's faith. I would suggest that someone who feels uncomfortable and or disconnected from their worshipping community should perhaps talk this out with their Church leader - in this case the priest - and give voice to their concerns. Far away hills look green, but before you move on it would probably be best policy to find out exactly what you are leaving behind and to be clear as to why you are doing so. Just a suggestion.
I pray that the Lord Jesus will guide you in this.

BrianCalgary

I do agree Barnabas.

To elaborate, once that home is found become involved and stay at that home. If problesm arise do exactly as you suggest and discuss it.

The initial step is in finding the church would God can use your talents in the best way possible.