Friends Girlfriend

LegacyUser

I am a regular poster but have friends who use this site so prefer to stay anonymous. Just like to know how to handle a friends gf who treats my gf like a piece of sh*t. Basically walking past her in the street like she is not there etc... I have no problem with my friend but If I be a man and say something then I am going to cause a split in the "group" as in I could only go out if they werent going out. Sorry if I am not being clear but my nosey work colleague is around and also my use of the english language is crap!

brum

Anon101 wrote:

I am a regular poster but have friends who use this site so prefer to stay anonymous. Just like to know how to handle a friends gf who treats my gf like a piece of sh*t. Basically walking past her in the street like she is not there etc... I have no problem with my friend but If I be a man and say something then I am going to cause a split in the "group" as in I could only go out if they werent going out. Sorry if I am not being clear but my nosey work colleague is around and also my use of the english language is crap!

My best mates girlfriend didnt like my gf acouple of years back. Thankfully she lived 2 hours away and only came down every weekend. My gf made all the effort even though she knew the mates gf was bitching behind her back.

Waht we did was ask the other couple out to dinner and and try and get the mates gf to wake up and see my gf was actually nice..... I suggest organising nights out and trips to places where she has to get to know your gf.....

On the other hand, if you know your mate knows his gf doesnt like your gf and u trust him, ask him why? If your friend turns his back on you, he aint worth being a friend!

TheBlock

If you really like this girl you have to say something to your friend.It may be better to not see your friend when the ladies are about.

Sounds like your mates Girlfriend is jealous or feels threathend.

I would not risk a confrontation about this as loosing mate over something that does not really involve you two is hard.

brum

brum wrote:

My best mates girlfriend didnt like my gf acouple of years back. Thankfully she lived 2 hours away and only came down every weekend. My gf made all the effort even though she knew the mates gf was bitching behind her back.

Waht we did was ask the other couple out to dinner and and try and get the mates gf to wake up and see my gf was actually nice..... I suggest organising nights out and trips to places where she has to get to know your gf.....

On the other hand, if you know your mate knows his gf doesnt like your gf and u trust him, ask him why? If your friend turns his back on you, he aint worth being a friend!

My mate since broke up with said gf bc he realised she was too controlling.... just be hnest with him..

LegacyUser

Something I should have added too is that my mate and his gf have been going through a rough time lately. They moved in together but are both moving home now to save for a house! It is more like they cant live with each other anymore. She is very controlling. He cheated on her a couple of years ago and has paid for it everyday. She used to be the only girl in the "group" now she isnt. So a previous poster could be right when they said she feels jealous or threatened.

Kell

Anon101 wrote:

Just like to know how to handle a friends gf who treats my gf like a piece of sh*t.

Originally mis read your post. I assume she feels threatened by someone who is taking attention away from her and is probably better looking than your mates GF? Its my experience that average looking women take an automatic dislike to v good looking women. Its called jealousy. Pity your friends GF for being such a silly fúckwit and your mate for putting up with it.

Dont be afraid to split the "gang". If anyone asks why ye dont hang around anymore, just point the finger of blame at your mates GF and let the shít get hurled where it belongs. Alternatively, ask your mates GF what the fúck her problem is and make her face the issue.

Anon101 wrote:

She used to be the only girl in the "group" now she isnt

Theres your answer mate. She is just being a dumb jealous muppet.

K-

Black Swan

Your friend needs to sort out his g/f.

Macker

hold on a minute boys and girls

He cheated on her a couple of years ago and has paid for it everyday.

maybe she's afraid he will cheat again ,that's not the OP's girlfriends fault but may be the reason she feels threatened