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  • 01-10-2006 10:42am
    #1
    janullrich
    Closed Accounts Posts: 409 ✭✭


    Hi. Ok this is a bit like the last thread. Life is pretty crap at the moment and has been for 2 years since I moved back from Berlin. I have just finished work with a firm because it was boring and had little change. I had a huge fallout with one of a few of my best friends the other evening because I was the designated driver. One pulled the handbrake while fully moving and one expected me to bring him the whole way home to the south of the city even though there was a bed with a friend of mine around where I live. I thought it was sorted out at the start but obviously it wasn't. We were to go out last night to a comedy show. I ended up going myself.

    Apart from that I am an only child (poor me I know). I have a great relationship with my dad but have never got on with the mother. She has banned me from the house and does not want me at Christmas.

    I left a long term relationship in Berlin and apart from one relationship here in Dublin seeing my friends with wifes and girlfriends ain't easy. Not going out with my other single friend as we were supposed to tells its own story.

    I have a lot going on (gym, football, cycling etc). However apart from the obvious of putting yourself out of the misery I think maybe I should go back to where I was successful to ie London and Berlin, and take a good holiday. Any thoughts would be appreciated.


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  • #2
    Faith
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,661 Mod ✭✭✭✭Faith


    One must ask, what's keeping you in Dublin, if you're so unhappy there?

    Yes, go back to where you were happy. Why did you leave Berlin? If nothing is holding you to Dublin, then just leave. You might have more luck somewhere else.


  • #3
    Mojito
    Closed Accounts Posts: 209 ✭✭Mojito


    edidted


  • #4
    Ruu_Old
    Closed Accounts Posts: 36,634 ✭✭✭✭Ruu_Old


    Patch things up with your mother and I think you'll find it will be a great weight off your shoulders. I would probably move back to where you are happiest in life if nothing is keeping you in Ireland. Good luck.


  • #5
    Black Swan
    Moderators, Category Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 47,537 CMod ✭✭✭✭Black Swan


    If in fact you were happier elsewhere, then go there.


  • #6
    janullrich
    Closed Accounts Posts: 409 ✭✭janullrich


    Thanks. I am certainly done a lot of thinking and mellowed a lot in the last few days not that I am free from the work I was doing and had a long patch-up talk with my friend where we had a nasty (quick) fall-out Saturday morning. I have decided to take time off, enjoy life, don't rush anything, go on a holiday and then get the right job as I go along in Ireland or abroad. I am going to bring my dad on holiday to Spain for Christmas. Proves there is hope!


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