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Relationship situation

  • 19-09-2006 4:15pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I currently like a guy I have known a long time and it's mutual. We'd like something to happen as he may be moving back home but there's also the possiblity he may be staying abroad and this is why I don't want to rush into anything as I don't want both of us to get hurt. While he knows how I feel, I'd hate to think I would be influencing his decision to stay or move back. Long distance probably wouldn't be an option, it would be a bit difficult. Just wondering if anyone has advice on this, or would be familiar with this situation.


Comments

  • #2
    lizzy_beth
    Closed Accounts Posts: 18 ✭lizzy_beth


    Why don't you just tell him exactly what you told us. Explain that you dont want to influcence his decision but that if he does return you are interested? If he doesnt are you open to the idea of sometime long distance? Talk about it together!


  • #3
    Ruu_Old
    Closed Accounts Posts: 36,634 ✭✭✭✭Ruu_Old


    Is he abroad for long term or work or something else? Talk to him about how you feel and what your concerns are. Make sure he doesn't move back just for you as he may feel trapped later on and go to blame you if he is having a hard time, just what could happen. I don't really have any other advice for you. Good luck.


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