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Confusion with a girl...

  • 01-08-2006 8:41am
    #1
    Beer is Life
    Closed Accounts Posts: 371 ✭✭


    Can I start by saying a big WHAT THE ****?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

    Met this girl Saturday 2 weeks ago. Shes a friend of a friend and we really hit it off, spent the night together etc etc. She lives a bit away so I havent seen her since but we kept in touch through texts. On Thursday she told me she liked me, so I arranged a meeting for today which shes blown off and thursday which she has also now blown off. Shes barely said 2 words to me through text since Thursday too.

    Was she just wrecking my head or what? The whole vibe im getting is a complete lack of interest, but why did she say she liked me then?


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  • #2
    Bluetonic
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,588 ✭✭✭Bluetonic


    Beer is Life wrote:
    Was she just wrecking my head or what? The whole vibe im getting is a complete lack of interest, but why did she say she liked me then?

    Why don't you ring her and ask her?

    No one here is going to be able to give you a definitive answer, all that can happen is people will add to your speculation.


  • #3
    AnitaMcCluskey
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 65 ✭✭AnitaMcCluskey


    Nah, don't bother. Move on. She is playing games


  • #4
    Femelade
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,820 ✭✭✭Femelade


    Bluetonic wrote:
    Why don't you ring her and ask her?


    dont ring and ask her for gods sake, that would freak her out and make you look like an idiot..

    Just leave it be, dont bother txting her if she seems to have no interest, if she is interested she'll txt you. Dont chase after her, just move on man.


  • #5
    jcoote
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,968 ✭✭✭jcoote


    yeah i agree move on she obviously either hasn't the balls to follow through ith likin you or she doen't know what she want

    i wouldn't want someone like that around tbh


  • #6
    Darren1o1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 744 ✭✭✭Darren1o1


    Why not enquire subtly about it through your mutual friend, you did say she was a friend of a friend.


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  • #7
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Forget about it. Simple as that.


  • #8
    LadyJ
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,122 ✭✭✭LadyJ


    OP,you didn't schedule a sex meeting did you? I mean,you did invite her out,no expectations style right? For a meal/drink or something?

    If she got the impression that you only wanted to meet up for more sex,after she admited to liking you,then maybe that scared her off.

    Also,if that's not the case,then maybe she just told you she likes you to see if you'd say it back,thus giving herself a confidence boost. Some people have been known to do crap like that. Actually,I have a mate who's a bit strange and that's exactly the kind of thing she'd do....Hope it wasn't her.......


  • #9
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I think U should leave it.
    Sounds like just a one night stand.
    I'm not so sure that U can make anything when 'the deed' happens
    too soon.


  • #10
    Heyes
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,203 ✭✭✭Heyes


    leave it be, defo sounds like she has calmed her intrest down a bit. maybe as said above it was a confidence boost to know someone had an intrest in her, sure who wouldnt feel good about that.

    but for your sake i would leave it be, if she was really intrested she would have met you and she would definately be putting a bit more imput into her texts.


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