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What should I do?

  • 13-07-2006 5:08am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Ok, so I like this guy, he is a pretty good friend, I'm not sure if he likes me or not because he is quiet enough and hard to read I would say.

    Anyway I've decided I'm gonna tell him I like him but the problem is he is going away for a month at the end of July so should I tell him before he goes away, so then if he doesn't feel the same way we'll have a month to get over the akwardness or should I wait til he gets back?


Comments

  • #2
    Static M.e.
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,093 ✭✭✭Static M.e.


    If you tell him before he goes, be warned, depending on where is going and why, he could be off with other women for that month.... do you want that at a start of a relationship. It might ruin his holiday aswell because then he will have to decide between you and "other" women.

    Tell him when he gets back and least that way if anything does happen neither of you can fell bad about it.


  • #3
    fuzzywiggle
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,089 ✭✭✭fuzzywiggle


    No time like the present. Say it to him now.


  • #4
    Black Swan
    Moderators, Category Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 47,537 CMod ✭✭✭✭Black Swan


    I agree with fuzzywiggle. If you like him, tell him. If the feeling is mutual, then just maybe you start dating upon his return?


  • #5
    free2fly
    Closed Accounts Posts: 565 ✭✭✭free2fly


    I'd say wait until he returns. That allows him to enjoy his travels freely. If you tell him before he leaves it may leave him feeling guilty if he wishes to be with other women while he is away. If it were me I would rather start a relationship without that burden.


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