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Help with womans prob

  • 10-07-2006 5:17pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi, can anyone help me with this problem.

    my girlfriend is 17, im 18. we have never had sex but i have fingered her numerous times. (over a period of 8 months)
    everything was fine until a week ago. she experienced heavy bleeding afterwards. this lasted for 5/6 days. then she had her period. yesterday, we did it again and the bleeding started again.

    did this ever happen to anyone before or can anyone say what it might be. just to put our minds at ease.

    mods i jknow this isnt a medical forum but i would appreciate it if you would not close this thread. my gf is going to a doc as soon as she can but she cannot let her parents find out or they will kill her.
    sorry if this topic is too vulgar for anyone, but we are worried sick about this.


Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Really this is a medical matter and only a dr will be able to resovle it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 731 ✭✭✭Madge


    OP, it sounds like you just 'popped her cherry'...


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,661 Mod ✭✭✭✭Faith


    I doubt it, Madge. Bleeding is common when the hymen is broken, but not heavy bleeding usually, and would hardly last 5-6 days. I can't imagine he broke it twice, either.

    OP, maybe you cut her with your nails inadvertantly. This is definately something your girlfriend needs to get checked out with her GP, asap.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 47,532 CMod ✭✭✭✭Black Swan


    She needs to she her GP about this. Definitely medical.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 25 withneill


    GP is the answer lad. Dont worry, Im ten years older than you and in that time Ive been through panic, terror, mystery and learning learning and learning and Im continuing to learn. Thats the thing about women, physically, emotionally and intellectually they are an infinitely more complicated being than a man-in general- and we got to keep up my friend and when they need us to be strong and say the right thing, that’s when you tell her to go to the GP and hold her hand and tell her everything is going to be alright and when the time comes, she will do the same for you.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 330 ✭✭oulu


    If you where been a bit to rough with her ,this could cause the bleeding nothing to do with her been a virgin, this is a common problem so next time tale your time and be gentle


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