Your mate's boyfriend/girlfriend...

faceman

If one of your mate's had a sexy partner (now i mean really sexy) and he/she got on well with you and one night you are on the bus/luas/dart on the way home on your own.

Your mates stunning partner is on it too on his/her own and sits beside you. You have both had a few drinks and start having a giggle. you get off and walk home and he/she admits that she/he would love to get it on, no strings attached and no one would ever know.

Would ya and have you ever done it? (I never did and never would)

PowerHouseDan

No

BrokenArrows

the only question you need to ask yourself is how good a mate is he/she

garthv

Never.

Ruu_Old

I wouldn't do that on a mate and in the end you'd be found out and probably be nursing a few broken bones.

Roen

To even consider it is being pure scum. No one deserves 'friends' like that.

Karoma

Bro's before ho's,etc.

super_furry

I was in almost that exact situation once before. I turned her down, she got all pissy and told my mate that I'd made a move on her and she was 'scared' to be around me. He, of course believed her and that was that, he went for me in a pub and we haven't spoken since. He subsequently caught her in bed with an ex-boyfriend.

So to answer your question, I'd think about it. If you're going to be hanged, you might as well steal the pig.

BrokenArrows

super_furry wrote:

So to answer your question, I'd think about it. If you're going to be hanged, you might as well steal the pig.

never herd that expression before but if i was going to be hanged id do alot more than steal a pig. Id steal 2 pigs. lol.:D

babypink

no...not to a mate

faceman

super_furry wrote:

I was in almost that exact situation once before. I turned her down, she got all pissy and told my mate that I'd made a move on her and she was 'scared' to be around me. He, of course believed her and that was that, he went for me in a pub and we haven't spoken since. He subsequently caught her in bed with an ex-boyfriend.

So to answer your question, I'd think about it. If you're going to be hanged, you might as well steal the pig.

actually similar thing happened to me kinda. He was me best mate and his missus used to come to me for advice on their relationship blah blah. she even used to ask me for advice on she shud give head!! Anyway she used to always moan at me about how crap he treated her and how crap their sex life was. eventually i told her that she needs to evaluate the relationship and whether its worth being in it.

she went off and told me mate what i said and it nearly came to blows. altho its water under the bridge now i very rarely see him (he used to be me best mate) and he married her! lesson learned i can tell you.

Miguel_Sanchez

I've had it done to me. Wouldn't to it to a friend.

AngryBadger

nope, and I've been in that situation

Winters

Nope, would never do it to a friend.

Terry

i've had the chance, but i turned it down.

Chakar

Well if it was a really good friend I wouldn't but if it was just some guy I knew I wouldn't think twice.

upmeath

Karoma wrote:

Bro's before ho's,etc.

lol

Dave!

Nah... I'd restrain myself... begrudgingly.

LadyJ

No.

Of course not.

Brian Capture

I would compromise and perform / give oral sex and no more.

BizzyC

No.

6th

...wait .. in this situation, am i single?

Heyes

I would never go near a friends other half

Tusky

nope.

Lamia

Never.

[Jackass]

Happend to a mate of mine, he found his missus, who he LOVED, in bed with his best mate, they litteraly beat the sh*t out of eachother and have never seen eachother since...He still talks about it the odd time when he's drunk, 4 years on, so I know first hand how fu*ked up it is!!

NEVER! Not worth it, freinds are wayyyy more important than chicks!

CuLT

Karoma wrote:

Bro's before ho's,etc.

^^^

tba

what if they are your sworn nemesis?

looder

Jeff_Lebowski wrote:

I've had it done to me. Wouldn't to it to a friend.

join da club
does getting revenge on him count as doing it to a friend- i wudn't ave considered him a friend den doh

monkeyfudge

If by 'getting it on' you mean surgically removing her brain and putting into the body of an atomic robo zombie so she can act as a lieutenant in my army of atomic robo zombies which I'll use to take over the local branch of Atlantic Homecare... then the answer is yes... most definitely.

embee

No.

These things have a way of always getting back to the person you've tried desperately to keep it from.

simu

No. Friends are harder to come by than one night stands tbh.

Nehpets

`nope. never.

Fanny Cradock

Brian Capture wrote:

I would compromise and perform / give oral sex and no more.

ah, that's ok then! after all, eating isn't cheating.

in my case - NO!

Zebra3

No.

Big Nelly

Yeah, damn sure. Everyone here trying to be goody 2 shoes saying they wouldn't, prob cause they never got the chance. When it 2 or 3 in the morning and the drink is in and the wit if out over 99% of people would do it. You always think when drink is in they will never find out, and if you are any good they won't.

Now have done it with a number of girls that I know have boyfriends, suppose could say they where mates but not best mates or anything. Just knew the lads.

It is survival of the strongest at the end of the day. If none of you have the killer instinct then it leaves more for me:eek:

I know alot of women and ever one of them have never been faithful in a relationship, all of them have had a snog or something at some stage when they where out with the girls etc when they thought nobody was looking.

Trust no-one except family, learned this a long time ago when I had a problem with my ex and they all my mates ran around her cause she had a nice ass, I dropped them all and moved out of the county

Tar.Aldarion

AngryBadger wrote:

nope, and I've been in that situation

I'll make a slight edit to that. Nope, and I'll never be in that situation.

Everyone here trying to be goody 2 shoes saying they wouldn't, prob cause they never got the chance.

No, it's because I am not scum and value my friends.

Big Nelly

6th wrote:

...wait .. in this situation, am i single?

Doesn't really matter, sure if she is not then what does it matter if your not?

Remember one time was on the piss with some girls from the house I was in, both me and one of the girls had partners but had been kissing etc on and off for a couple of months, anyway where in club and abit pi**ed, her BF was over in one cornor and my GF was in the far cornor. We where more or less standing in the middle taking the p**s about the situation. Drink was in remember

So she decides that we should have a kiss to see what happens, so we ended up kissing for about 5 mins in the middle of the floor with one of the other girls in the house trying to run around hiding us, when we finished we both went back to partners and they seen nothing, was funny:D ahh I miss college!!

The Yipper

Spot on there Big Nelly....jump in with both feet !!!

The bottom line is...if your best mates bird is gagging for it, and she's coming on to you..chances are she's playing the field on a regular basis....I'd say she's a right slut.....it's a no brainer....I'd be in like Flynn!!!!

The other question to consider is: (if you decide to pass up the opportunity)

If she eventually breaks up with her fella after trying it on...and getting it on with someone else......what's an acceptable amount of time to wait before sh@gging your best mates ex-slapper girlfriend?;)

Big Nelly

The Yipper wrote:

If she eventually breaks up with her fella after trying it on...and getting it on with someone else......what's an acceptable amount of time to wait before sh@gging your best mates ex-slapper girlfriend?;)

My average is about a week or two!:p

ozt9vdujny3srf

None of my mates are stpid enough to stay with a girl who'd do that.

Big Nelly

Haylee Fancy Crystal wrote:

None of my mates are stpid enough to stay with a girl who'd do that.

Girl like that? that rules out your mates going out with more than 99% of the women in this world

The Yipper

Two weeks???
I'd be there to "comfort" her in her HOUR of need!

Big Nelly

The Yipper wrote:

Two weeks???
I'd be there to "comfort" her in her HOUR of need!

Have to give the dry out period or your accused of getting her on the bounce, not with your wit and charm which you know will win out in the end

oulu

I will be honest unlike people here, of course who wound'nt , like talking Cindy Crawford, Heather Lockler, then yes

Big Nelly

oulu wrote:

I will be honest unlike people here, of course who wound'nt , like talking Cindy Crawford, Heather Lockler, then yes

Why wouldn't you? if you are honest then you would say of course it could happen. Nobody knows what they will do in that situation till it happens and most of the time when it does they go in and think about it the next day. I know I do!!

poggy

should never need to ask that! its obvisouly no!

philius

as mentioned above, it depends on the situation.

1)how close a friend he is

2)how attracted you are to the girl

3)whats happening in your life at the time.

for the record, have done it once, i do regret it (lost a few friends) but if i was in the same situation as i was then, it would probably yield the same results. It happened over about a year, i knew the couple around the same amount of time, the girl was a real good friend to me through a difficult time (break up, mourning for a girl) and we had a lot in common. And then it happened. their relationship was on the rocks anyhow.

that said, it is a selfish decision to make, and at the time i didnt have the personal strength to make the right decision. i obviously wouldnt be too hard on anyone in that situation now, as i understand how this sort of thing happens.

Big Nelly

Quick story about myself to show its not only men, its a long one so get ready

Years ago there was a large gang of us that hung around, brothers, friends and a load of girls, my brother GF(now wife) was staying wit mates in a house in Dublin while they all went to college, one of the girls in this house was a good friend(call her Jo) of mine as well but had kissed only once on a bus on the way home which happened about 2 weeks before this.

Anyway one nite a load of them came to our local(in Cavan) and I ended up with a friend of Jo's from college, anyway went out once or twice and this girl was very very immature so I broke it off(nothing to break off but just said I didnt want to see her anymore). Had 5 days of missed calls and txt of her crying down the phone saying she missed me(CYCO).

So we went out one night and Jo came over to my local in Dublin wit a few mates, about 30 mins later cyco landed in, Jo had txt sayin where she was and she got a taxi over. Cyco followed me around all nite when we got to club so told her to leave me alone.Jo came over about 20 mins later and dragged me to the other side of club and started kissing me etc. So we stayed there for ages "playing" and then she got up and said she better go and walked over to Cyco who was in tears, started to hug her etc been all friendly and then looked up at me and winked.

You got to love a woman like that:D we actually kept seeing each other for about 2 months after that but then just went back to friends and are still to this day. Cyco stopped txtin about 2 months later but then about a year later started again saying it was a year since we broke up, was going out wit a girl then and explained wat happened(we where in pub) so she replied to her with this really bitchy txt, last I heard from cyco

tba

Neil is an Asshole

Big Nelly

tba wrote:

Neil is an Asshole

Who is Neil?