Question for the ladies.

sunzz

Do People often take over confidence as a sign of cockiness, and just wondering if many girls/women like this trait?

Dragan

sunzz wrote:

I would consider myself to be a good-looking guy (am 21) Pm f you want pics

And your wondering why people think your cocky????

In all seriousness , most girls i know will say that they wouldn't go out with a cocky guy.....doesn't seem to stop them though!!!

Beruthiel

sunzz wrote:

random birds

Your problems starts here

sunzz

Beru so basically your saying if you seen an attractive girl in the night club you wouldn't go up talking to them or their group of friends?

Zillah

Wait... so whats the topic? Are you just in the mood for getting abused or something?

Dragan

Zillah wrote:

Wait... so whats the topic? Are you just in the mood for getting abused or something?

Yeah, the poor chap has kinda left himself open for a lot of abuse alright!!!

Beruthiel

sunzz wrote:

Beru so basically your saying if you seen an attractive girl in the night club you wouldn't go up talking to them or their group of friends?

well, that went right over your head...

oh
and to answer your question, I can safely say, I've never done that

Zillah

You lie!

Beruthiel

Zillah wrote:

You lie!

A girl came up to me once...
Now that was a surprise

sunzz

Okay edited as to not sound like a cock:D
Told you tho it's in my nature

Hobbes

pm for pics

Just as well you edited it.

Kiera

sunzz wrote:

Okay edited as to not sound like a cock:D
Told you tho it's in my nature

You’ll probably grow out of it, with any luck.

sunzz

beru, sorry did go over my head

Dragan

sunzz wrote:

Okay edited as to not sound like a cock:D
Told you tho it's in my nature

#

Well, there are two kinds of dudes who are cocks....there are the desperately wanna be cocks because they think it's cool. These poor souls are normally best left alone.

Then there are the actual, genuine cocks who treat people like ****....these poor fools can normally be found face down outside whatever club there were in after some dude gets sick of their ****.

So which one would you be then?

Depends how the guy is, if he can pull it off then its charming to a certain extent if its overly so in an obnoxious way then its a turn off!!!

EWheelChair

lol grom, you really are an idiot.

Black Swan

Confident is good, over-confident not.

LadyJ

OP,you should try and reaise that there is a difference between being cocky
and being confident.

You can be confident,without being or seeming cocky.

So do that.

spurious

Over-confidence, or 'cockiness' comes across to me as trying too hard and trying too hard is definitely not attractive.

Once someone can make me laugh, they're half way there. Self-deprecating humour always a winner in my book.

Doomspell

Don't be cocky be...funny, I personally don't care if you are 6ft have a fecking hot body, can swim,dance,sail,do everything* Its your personality that I care about, oh and humour is a big thing for me!



*though that helps........ALOT!!!!

AngryBadger

I think the biggest problem with cockiness/confidence, and all that jazz is that people worry about it too much. If you're confident then you're confident, you could spend your entire lifke trying to ensure that everyone realises your confident and not just cocky, but you'll never get everyone to think that, and tbh if you're that concerned about it you're obviously not confident or cocky at all.

Faith

Cockiness and arrogance are two of the biggest turn offs in the world for me.