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are we or aren't we?

  • 28-06-2006 10:05pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Unreg'd for this (on the grounds that it may incriminate me, lol)
    Anyway, my girl is playing up (or maybe its me) anywho, to make a long story short I have been seeing this girl (or maybe I haven't) we have been communicating mostly through the typed medium but it seems for the most part to be coming from me. I would text her and email a few times a day (say obsessive lesbian anyone) but she barely acknowledges them. I have asked her are we going anywhere or am I just fooling myself, she says yes, more than just yes but no extra detail needed here. Sometimes I wonder as I would have emailed her and no response then I would log into a site we are both a member of and there she would be but still nothing!!! I'm feeling like giving up but really don't want to, I like her too much but fear she may hurt me in the long run.


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  • #2
    Stark
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,083 ✭✭✭✭Stark


    unreg person wrote:
    I have asked her are we going anywhere or am I just fooling myself, she says yes, more than just yes but no extra detail needed here.

    "Yes we're going somewhere" or "Yes you're fooling yourself"?


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Yes we are going somewhere, but her work keeps her busy and then she seems to have a lot of other things on too.


  • #4
    spurious
    Moderators, Category Moderators, Education Moderators Posts: 27,315 CMod ✭✭✭✭spurious


    You need to talk to her, face to face.

    You also need to decide what to do with your 'girl' who is presumably oblivious to your carry-on with the other one.

    There are many reasons why someone would not answer a text or email immediately - people can be logged into a site and away from their computer - things are starting to sound a bit bunny boiler there...


  • #5
    Stephanos
    Closed Accounts Posts: 198 ✭✭Stephanos


    She is playing mind games. Games that involves you jumping thru hoops. You have to decide is she worth the effort. If she is you have to break the cycle. As was suggested, talk to her in person. Let her know how you feel/how she makes you feel.


  • #6
    azezil
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,397 ✭✭✭✭azezil


    Don't be so available for her, don't mail or txt her so often, if you don't get a reply straight away don't go feckin looking for her elsewhere online, wait for her to reply no matter how long it takes.


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