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Green Babies

  • 02-06-2006 11:56am
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,508 ✭✭✭


    My husband and I are expecting our first in November of this year, and we're both really interested in using products/methods that are as environmentally-friendly as possible.

    Specifically, we're foregoing the buggy for a wrap (baby-carrier), and I've done a lot of research to find out as much info as possible about the different wraps & slings out there. I'm wondering if anyone has personal experiences with a specific product that they'd recommend?

    Also, we're going to try the cloth/reusable nappies since they've evolved in convenience and effectiveness in the last generation. Any suggestions for good products here?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 345 ✭✭eiretamicha


    Hi Ayla,

    First of all, congratulations!! You and your husband must be so excited!! :)

    Second of all, hello to a fellow future green-parent!! My husband and I will be cosleeping, attachment parenting, cloth-diapering, no vaxing, and natural parenting...and I will be exclusively breastfeeding and allowing my child to wean him/herself. It's nice to find someone on here with some of the same goals! :)

    As we're not parents yet, I can only offer helpful suggestions that we plan on taking into account once our first is born. Here are some handy links that you might find useful.

    General Information
    Diaper Pin
    Attachement Parenting International
    The Natural Child Project

    Wraps & Slings
    The MeiTai Carrier
    The Kangaroo Sling
    The Moby Wrap

    Good luck with your search!! Also, keep us posted on how everything works out...I'm still in the states and won't be having my first baby until we move back to Ireland, so I'd be very interested in hearing where you end up buying your natural-parenting items. :p


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78,580 ✭✭✭✭Victor


    Ayla wrote:
    Also, we're going to try the cloth/reusable nappies since they've evolved in convenience and effectiveness in the last generation. Any suggestions for good products here?
    There are suggestions that cloth nappies aren't much better than diosposable ones, because of the energy used in waching & soap powders etc.

    No doubt put about by the manufacturers of diosposable one nappies.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 345 ✭✭eiretamicha


    Victor wrote:
    There are suggestions that cloth nappies aren't much better than diosposable ones, because of the energy used in waching & soap powders etc.

    No doubt put about by the manufacturers of diosposable one nappies.
    Even if that were so, one simply can't compare gentle cotton or hemp to harsh, abrasive paper and plastic when it comes to delicate areas of your baby's skin. :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22 EcologiKids


    Actually Victor, I've just completed a comprehensive piece of research with the women's enviornmental network in the UK and the cost of washing, washing powder, washing machine depreciation and the cloth nappies still SERIOUSLY outweighs the costs of using and disposing of disposable nappies - by over 1000 euros minimum.

    please see here for the research

    http://www.wen.org.uk/nappies/cost_comparison_ie.htm

    wraps:
    suggestions: go to www.thebabywearer.com to get great information on supplier and products for babywearing. stretchy wraps are great for newborns and are really comfortable for distributing the weight of baby as they get bigger. ring slings rest on one shoulder only and are easy to put on and off - maya ring sling is fabulous and fairly traded/made materials.

    nappies: there are cloth nappy companies in Ireland - you don't have to go abroad to get them (dare I say it but I run one myself).

    I would advise tots bots bamboozles for nighttime as they are natural, eco friendly and highly absorbent. they're made from bamboo (as the name suggests).
    for daytime you could use a lighter hemp material if you're looking to stay natural (something like ellas house hemp nappies are great or there is an Irish made hemp nappy available on the market as well - don't want to advertise my website as it's against the rules but you can pm me if you like).

    wool wraps are fab for nighttime and are 100% natural and breathable.

    if you want any more advice in choosing some nappies just pm me.

    Also, there was an attachment parenting conference on in maynooth just last month - did anyone go to it? it was really great and the Sears were here too!

    and I love this saying: I make milk: what's your superpower?

    hth
    Nicky


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22 EcologiKids


    oh also wanted to add that there is now finally an Irish based online company selling slings and wraps etc. it's

    www.babyslingsandoutdoorthings.com

    great that we're starting to get more natural parenting products here in Ireland!
    nicky


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,668 ✭✭✭nlgbbbblth


    Sling: We use a sling which came from the USA (present from sister-in-law). Very handy when shopping and doing routine household stuff. Baby is close to your heartbeat and is generally restful.
    Pram / buggy is handy for walks though.

    Cloth nappies: We ordered a supply (12 plus liners which can be flushed down the toilet) from a website based in Cork. Will post up webaddress later. Our son is just over two months old and they're still slightly big for him so we're stuck on disposables. He should have gained sufficient weight within a few weeks so we can start using the washable ones.

    Breast-feeding: My wife has fed Matthew since birth and it is going well. He seems to prefer sucking through the nipple shield though.

    Co-sleeping: He slept with us for the first two months but we have now bought him a cot and he went into it on Tuesday night. The cot is beside our bed as we don't plan on moving it into his bedroom for another three to four months.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,585 ✭✭✭lynski


    good to know we are not alone.
    we are planning to go the cloth nappy route too (due in october) and would like to use natural baby products as well (neals yard or organic baby brand in Tescos, can't rem its name).
    Also saw and liked the soap nuts, anyone used them?
    the one fly in the ointment is well meaning friends and relatives buy c**p, I mean gifts, for us. I am thinking of a specific gift list and I know the lack of a christening will put some of the them off, anyone else got ideas?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 528 ✭✭✭telecaster


    lynski wrote:
    the one fly in the ointment is well meaning friends and relatives buy c**p, I mean gifts, for us. I am thinking of a specific gift list and I know the lack of a christening will put some of the them off, anyone else got ideas?

    Yes, we're laughing (me and mum to be) reading your post as are giving the Christening a swerve too...the announcement of which almost caused us to be going to a funeral with my mother's shock. And we're also expecting a lot of crappy noisy plastic toys too. WOO-HOO


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    OP,

    I use two carriers, a Wilkinet & a Mothercare one.....

    RE cloth nappies, I use a mixture of fuzzi bunz, tots bots, fluffles and bamboozles on my two, with disposable liners....try contacting Maebh at http://www.thenaturalbabyresource.com

    Not only does she sell the nappies but she has mums all round the country that can do nappy demo's for you or you can meet up at a "Nappuchino"! There are loads of green products on the site, too....another good site for natural parenting is http://www.thebabyorchard.com/

    Good luck with everything....we planned to have a co-sleeping/breastfed/etc baby but due to circumstances outwith our control it didn't quite work out that way! lol! Hope it works out for you! :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 19 susiesue


    Hi Ayla,



    " My husband and I will be cosleeping, attachment parenting, cloth-diapering, no vaxing, and natural parenting...and I will be exclusively breastfeeding and allowing my child to wean him/herself. It's nice to find someone on here with some of the same goals! :)



    This has to be a joke, As a tired mum of three I wish you good luck, take a sneaky peeky at Viz - the new Age Parents.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 345 ✭✭eiretamicha


    susiesue wrote:
    Hi Ayla,



    " My husband and I will be cosleeping, attachment parenting, cloth-diapering, no vaxing, and natural parenting...and I will be exclusively breastfeeding and allowing my child to wean him/herself. It's nice to find someone on here with some of the same goals! :)



    This has to be a joke, As a tired mum of three I wish you good luck, take a sneaky peeky at Viz - the new Age Parents.
    Different strokes for different folks, Love. ;) I don't impose my views on anyone, I just live my life the way I feel is best for myself and my family. :o

    Take a look at some of the links I posted earlier, or even the Natural Family community on LiveJournal and Mothering.com. Many natural-parenting mothers, along with myself, are quite used to comments like yours. We can choose to either ignore them, or use them to spread awareness. :)

    I'm confused, however, at which part of my comment you feel to be a joke. The cosleeping? The baby-wearing? The cloth-diapering? The no vaccinating? Or perhaps the exclusive breastfeeding and child-led weaning? Oh goodness, I forgot to mention homeschooling - Waldorf style and unschooling. :p

    I suppose you'll also be shocked to hear that I'm an advocate of homebirth and unassisted birth. Most people are. ;)

    And none of this has anything to do with new-age parenting. In fact, this way of parenting is as old as the hills. :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Hi there susiesue,
    welcome to the parenting forum one of many different forums that make up the collective that is boards.ie.

    I suggest that you take the time to read the charter for this forum which can be found here.
    And I woud also suggest that you read the FAQ for the site.

    There ane many different ways to rear children and what suits one family and their children will not suit everyone.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 80 ✭✭Torak


    Ayla wrote:
    Specifically, we're foregoing the buggy for a wrap (baby-carrier)

    Hi there,

    Good luck with the parenting, its a joy and I hope that it goes well for you! I hope you have many happy years.

    If I could ask a question though. How exactly is a wrap "greener" than a buggy? Its not that I don't believe you I have just never considered it.

    Is it something to do with keeping the baby close to you?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,508 ✭✭✭Ayla


    Torak wrote:
    How exactly is a wrap "greener" than a buggy?

    Hi Torak,

    Thanks for your good wishes. Yours is a great question, and I'll do my best to answer it.

    As far as being "greener" I suppose that's arguable. That boils down to the environmental impact of creating, distributing and disposing of the plastics, rubbers, cloths, etc that goes into the making of a buggy. All that instead of a cloth wrap that can be made in a sustainable way, and even made by an old bedsheet. Those are the standard "green" arguments.

    All of that's important, but I suppose my decision to use a wrap instead of buggy is really because I find buggy's so awkward to use...trying to get through doors, up steps, down a crowded sidewalk. Not to mention getting the thing in and out of whatever car you have. Now, I can see the usefulness of them if you're out for a long day, etc., but for daily usage and just bouncing around town, I think it's just simpler to wrap your baby against you and take off.

    The most important reason for me in choosing a wrap, though, is just that I will be exclusively breastfeeding (all going well) and it's incredibly simple to do that in a wrap. In fact, it's well recorded that women can walk down the road, stand in a crowd and hold conversations and no one around them knows they're feeding the wee one.

    I also like the idea of having my little one against me, knowing they're safe, feeling their breathing, knowing when they sleep and wake up. The argument's also out there that "worn" babies are much quieter and calmer b/c they have the constant comfort of hearing a heartbeat, etc (all of which they're used to from the womb). That makes sense to me, and I'm going to give the wrap a good try.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 19 susiesue


    Sorry I honestly didn't mean to offend anyone, I have three children under 5 and certain things like co sleeping happen whether I want it or not. Having a new baby is exhausting and some of those suggestions would drive most new mums off the rails completly. I hope it works out for you. I was full of ideas before my children were born, somethings through no fault of my own did not work out. I think its important not too set out too many expectations for yourself, for instance breastfeeding did not work out for me, and that broke my heart, and the baby sling nearly broke my back, I still need physio for very painful trapped siatic nerves.

    I'm all for being green, but I value my sanity so I just try to do what best for us all as a family

    If you would like to ask me anything( I'm sure you won't) feel free.

    Best of luck again


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Ouch poor you susiesue :(

    3 under 5 must be rough. I had terrible issues with my back during and after having my second and the post natal depression was a bitch.
    Babies aren't all bliss and cuddles they are hard work.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 19 susiesue


    They would drive you to drink, but they are worth it, I went on a bit of a rant yesterday, ( sorry green mammys) - nappies feeding, fighting, more nappies feeding and fighting thats the way my day goes. The sciatia was bad, just down my left leg, I had it for 3 months after the birth of my last, and I just could not walk. I was depressed also but I never told anyone at all, the health nurse copped it though, and she is great. My mind was a mess. I was completly convinced I had brought the wrong baby home - this went on for months, I kinda laugh about it now.

    I'm new to this site so I hope to be joining in the chat every so often.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,508 ✭✭✭Ayla


    susiesue wrote:
    I'm new to this site so I hope to be joining in the chat every so often.


    Well, welcome susiesue. As you said earlier, I agree that's it important to keep an open mind about what our parenting experiences will be like. I have tons of dreams and ideas about how I'm going to be a "supermom," but I know my visions are probably quite far from the reality of spit-up, babies running around nappiless and messing everywhere, and just general chaos.

    As I'm not due till Nov, I'm hoping by starting this chat that I can prepare myself as much as possible, and hopefully meet some of my idealogical dreams. Babies are hard work (anyone saying otherwise is extremely blessed), and I know it won't all be picture-perfect. And of course some dreams get compromised if the reality forces it. But if all goes well, everyone wakes up in the morning, makes it through the day, and goes to bed happy. Everything else is just details... :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 19 susiesue


    When my gran came to my house after my first baby was born, she was astounded by all the baby equipment and junk in the room, she said look as long as a baby is fed, clean and warm they are happy, and her 6 children all slept in a bottom drawer as new borns!!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 345 ✭✭eiretamicha


    susiesue wrote:
    When my gran came to my house after my first baby was born, she was astounded by all the baby equipment and junk in the room, she said look as long as a baby is fed, clean and warm they are happy, and her 6 children all slept in a bottom drawer as new borns!!!
    Quite a few of my husband's siblings also slept in bottom drawers when the need arose! I agree with your gran; a fed, clean, and warm baby is a happy baby! :)

    susiesue, do you mind me asking what happened with the breastfeeding? I know quite a few mothers who were not given any support with breastfeeding, and finally gave in to the stresses and pressure to formula-feed. It was heart-breaking for them. :(

    Also, welcome! I also was on a rant seemingly all day yesterday (here and in the animals/pets forum!), and I apologize for that. Maybe it was the moon. :p


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 19 susiesue


    Cracked and painful nipples were the main problem, I gave in very easybecause I was so tired aswell.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Ouch, did no one recamend nipple shields to you ?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 19 susiesue


    Yes but I somehow thought I wouldn't need them and then when I got weep/tired it just seemed like such a relief to hand the bottle to hubby and say here you do it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,508 ✭✭✭Ayla


    I've checked out www.thenappylady.co.uk and gotten some great free advice from their nappy consultants re: reusables. They really break down some of the jargon and offer personalized advice for your life/work/personal situations. They also have a fantastic 20 pg document that you can print out that walks you through the care, usage, etc of resuables.

    On another note, does anyone know where I can actually see/try on any slings/wraps in the Donegal area?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,818 ✭✭✭✭The Hill Billy


    I know quite a few mothers who were not given any support with breastfeeding, and finally gave in to the stresses and pressure to formula-feed. It was heart-breaking for them.

    If you don't mind a Dad butting in here...

    My wife tried breast-feeding our lad & it didn't work out.

    While there was support offered in the hospital & by the district nurse - it was the kind of "support" (in both instances) that made my wife feel like a bad mother because it wasn't working out despite her best & continued efforts. If mother & child take to breast-feeding - great! If not, they should not be made feel guilty.

    The stresses & pressure that these people put my wife under was completely OTT. It was hard enough for her to go through the daunting experience of having her first child without the Breast-Feeding Nazi's giving her a hard time.

    (That comment is in no way directed at the other wonderful, wonderful staff in NMH who looked after my wife & child so well.)


    Best of luck to you all with your respective pregnancies & kids!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 831 ✭✭✭Carb


    Hill Billy wrote:
    If you don't mind a Dad butting in here...

    My wife tried breast-feeding our lad & it didn't work out.

    While there was support offered in the hospital & by the district nurse - it was the kind of "support" (in both instances) that made my wife feel like a bad mother because it wasn't working out despite her best & continued efforts. If mother & child take to breast-feeding - great! If not, they should not be made feel guilty.

    The stresses & pressure that these people put my wife under was completely OTT. It was hard enough for her to go through the daunting experience of having her first child without the Breast-Feeding Nazi's giving her a hard time.

    (That comment is in no way directed at the other wonderful, wonderful staff in NMH who looked after my wife & child so well.)


    Best of luck to you all with your respective pregnancies & kids!

    I would have to report a similiar experience, although the only pressure that was put on us was by ourselves, as we wanted to do the best we could for our son. Giving up felt like we were letting him down.

    We too had great support from the midwives in the hospital, and those that done the home visits it the subsequent days, when it came to breastfeeding. There was no pressure put on us by them. However, you quickly learn that this support is not there when the child is screaming at four o'clock in the morning and you can't get the child to latch on. After two days, and two nights of this, we resorted to the bottle. There was enough pressure attached to been a first time parent, without having to worry about whether the child was getting fed enough, which I doubt he was.

    OP - I suppose my point is that the best intentions in the world prior to the birth can quickly go out the window when reality kicks in. Breastfeeing does work out for some people, it doesn't for others. If your own mother or mother in law breast fed, their help and support in the first week or so would be a great benefit.

    Best of luck with your plans anyway. I hope they work out.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    There are breast feeding suport groups out there check with the baby nurse in your area and they are not all scarey.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,623 ✭✭✭dame


    Hi there OP,

    Congratulations and best of luck everything! I agree totally with wraps etc. Husband still uses carrier for our daughter on very long walks. She's 2 1/2 now so obviously walks herself most of the time but for very long walks (few miles or more) he still uses the big backpack type carrier that we got for her in the great outdoors when she outgrew the baby carriers. She loves it!

    However, I noticed something in Eiretamicha's first reply posted here which concerned me. It was the "no vaxing" bit that worried me. Our daughter has got all her vaccinations so far. We asked the doctor if he had given them to his own kids (he has 5) and he said "yes, but he has read all the research and wouldn't give his kids anything he thought might harm them". I think that with the measles etc coming back in clusters around the country that it would be fool-hardy not to vaccinate a child. Polio and all these other diseases have been drastically reduced in Ireland and other developed countries over the past few decades but if parents start refusing vaccinations then these diseases could become common again. Your child is far likelier to get measles than to get any bad effect from being vaccinated.

    Something to think about.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,264 ✭✭✭✭Hobbes


    Even if that were so, one simply can't compare gentle cotton or hemp to harsh, abrasive paper and plastic when it comes to delicate areas of your baby's skin. :)

    I'd agree with you maybe 20 years ago, but modern day nappies aren't harsh at all. The plastic pants you have to put on top of the normal nappy is more likely to be more painful.
    cloth nappies still SERIOUSLY outweighs the costs of using and disposing of disposable nappies - by over 1000 euros minimum.

    You should really pick a site that isn't biased to begin with. For example they picked an expensive price of 31.7 cents. You can get nappies around that price but you can also get them around 14 cents if you buy in bulk (and they are the good nappies).

    In fact the average is more like 20 cents (based on going through tesco.ie ).

    Here is what they say..


    At an average six changes per day at 31.7 cents per nappy this equates to an average cost of €13.31 per week, and an overall spend of €1730.30 over 2.5 years.
    .

    However if you were to buy at 14 cents then per week is 5.88 euros and approx 763 euros over 2.5 years. Only a 100 in the difference now.

    If we go by the average based on tesco.ie (20 cents) then its 8.40 euros a week and about 1091 euros after 2.5 years.

    so yes it can be expensive if you buy the insanely expensive nappies to begin with and then factor in how much your time is worth having to deal with disposible nappies vs real ones.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,818 ✭✭✭✭The Hill Billy


    Nice piece of investigative analysis Hobbes. The impression that I get is that the poster wishes to do good for the environment regardless of the cost. Fair dues to them, my wife & I also considered it & with a little bit of forethough decided "Fcek it! We'll have enough sh1t to be dealing with getting used to the new baby without having to save the world too."

    I think that Carb hit the nail on the head:
    Carb wrote:
    I suppose my point is that the best intentions in the world prior to the birth can quickly go out the window when reality kicks in.

    Still - It is nice to dream... ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,508 ✭✭✭Ayla


    Can I just take a moment to get us back on topic?

    I started this post asking for anyone who's had specific experiences with wraps/slings and reusable nappies. I was asking for their advices on specific products to try.

    Although I appreciate and have learned a good deal from everyone's replies re: breastfeeding, the cost factors of reusables, etc, the way I see it, everyone has their own experiences. No two are alike, and everyone has different opinions and information. That's the joy of parenthood.

    But I'd still love to hear if anyone's ever actually experienced slings/wraps & reusables. What products did you try and did you benefit from the experience?

    Another thought...

    Maybe we can start another thread to debate the factors involved in using reusables? I am interested to hear the figures out there, I just think it'd be best on another thread.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 17,485 ✭✭✭✭Ickle Magoo


    Ayala, I use cloth nappies on both my kids & I have several different slings - it would take me days to write down all the different kinds of nappies & the pro's & cons of using them....is there anything specific you would like to know? You can pm me if you would find that easier....:)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,653 ✭✭✭m_stan


    Haven't read the whole thread here so don't know for sure if this has been mentioned yet, but wanted to suggest EcoBaby - they have all sorts of stuff from eco-friendly disposable nappies to organic food products. They deliver to your door.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 294 ✭✭Misty Moon


    Don't have any children so can't contribute much to this thread. There is a woman who has a stall at the market in Marlay Park on Saturdays - if you are anywhere near there it might be interesting to call in and have a look and a chat.

    Someone mentioned soap nuts - I assume these are what I know as soap pods? I've used them for a good while now and find them great. Don't have any stinky nappies to be washing though so don't know how they'd cope with that. Again, there's a guy with a stall in Marlay Park on Saturdays (and a permanent shop in Windy Arbour, Dundrum called EcoLogic) who's a great source of information and advice.

    I remember years ago on another discussion board (think it was ivenus.com) someone mentioning a nappy service which collects your dirty nappies and leaves you new ones or possibly provided compostable nappies and arranged collection of the dirty ones each week and transferred them to a composting facility somewhere. Sorry to be so vague and not be giving you any direct experience but once you know something may exist I find you tend to hear about it from other people too. :)

    You've probably already heard about it but I believe the forums on rollercoaster.ie are also very useful.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,264 ✭✭✭✭Hobbes


    Hill Billy wrote:
    Nice piece of investigative analysis Hobbes.

    Its a bad habit I have from other forums. When someone cites something I tend to cross check.
    The impression that I get is that the poster wishes to do good for the environment regardless of the cost.

    Noble cause. :) I had a rummage around and the general consensus is that cloth diapers take up less space in a landfill. but waste more resources over thier lifecycle use (most notably water). Costs tend to be on average the same overall.

    Note: Nothing can biodegrade in a landfill, so all this safer for the environment is meaningless unless your composting the nappies yourself.

    The only thing I could find that may put one over the other is a study done by German scientists that noted that disposables may have an effect on sperm production at a later life (source), however before anyone starts citing that as Gospel they do ask for more research to be conducted for it to be conclusive.
    Misty Moon wrote:
    I remember years ago on another discussion board (think it was ivenus.com) someone mentioning a nappy service which collects your dirty nappies and leaves you new ones or possibly provided compostable nappies and arranged collection of the dirty ones each week and transferred them to a composting facility somewhere. Sorry to be so vague and not be giving you any direct experience but once you know something may exist I find you tend to hear about it from other people too.

    I think if you are going the green route this sounds the best.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 345 ✭✭eiretamicha


    dame wrote:
    However, I noticed something in Eiretamicha's first reply posted here which concerned me. It was the "no vaxing" bit that worried me. Our daughter has got all her vaccinations so far. We asked the doctor if he had given them to his own kids (he has 5) and he said "yes, but he has read all the research and wouldn't give his kids anything he thought might harm them". I think that with the measles etc coming back in clusters around the country that it would be fool-hardy not to vaccinate a child. Polio and all these other diseases have been drastically reduced in Ireland and other developed countries over the past few decades but if parents start refusing vaccinations then these diseases could become common again. Your child is far likelier to get measles than to get any bad effect from being vaccinated.

    Something to think about.
    Choosing to vaccinate your child is a very personal decision that can only be made in good faith after strenuous research. My husband and I have decided not to get our children vaccinated, as we believe it is in our children's best health interest. Parents who decide to vaccinate their children still get the same level of respect from me as those who don't, as long as they have done their research and believe it to be in their child's best interest. :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    ok if we are going to start the vaccination disscusion again please start a new thread.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 345 ✭✭eiretamicha


    Hobbes wrote:
    I'd agree with you maybe 20 years ago, but modern day nappies aren't harsh at all. The plastic pants you have to put on top of the normal nappy is more likely to be more painful.
    Not all cloth diapers require plastic covers. ;)

    Modern day disposables ARE much more harsh than their soft, cloth counterparts. Most disposables contain a chemical-based gel that many infants are allergic to. I know many mothers personally who could not get their infant's diaper rash to go away until they switched to cloth diapers.

    This website is very pro-cloth, but it does present some unbiased cloth vs. disposables debates. Have a read, if you're interested. :)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,264 ✭✭✭✭Hobbes


    Most disposables contain a chemical-based gel that many infants are allergic to.

    You are referring to Sodium polyacrylate. While there may be some children allergic to it, the majority there has been no major effect on people. The only exception is it was removed from tampons due to toxic shock syndrome but has had no servere reported effects outside of the body. (ref: Proctor and Gamble labs).

    Funnily enough the pro-cloth sites also quote slight bits of the proctor and gamble report.

    That link you gave looks like a spam site, all the links on the page have links to other sites with vendor ids on them.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 345 ✭✭eiretamicha


    Hobbes wrote:
    You are referring to Sodium polyacrylate. While there may be some children allergic to it, the majority there has been no major effect on people. The only exception is it was removed from tampons due to toxic shock syndrome but has had no servere reported effects outside of the body. (ref: Proctor and Gamble labs).

    Funnily enough the pro-cloth sites also quote slight bits of the proctor and gamble report.

    That link you gave looks like a spam site, all the links on the page have links to other sites with vendor ids on them.
    I'm sorry, but how is it a spam site? It's from diaperpin.com, a well-known cloth diapering store and website. The link I gave you (Cut of Cloth, part of diaperpin.com) lists many articles that are well-worth reading for anyone interested in cloth diapering. Yes, there are links to vendors that sell cloth diapers...is that a bad thing? I did warn that the site was pro-cloth. I'm not sure where the problem here lies. :(

    I'm not sure if I posted this link earlier, but if you haven't read it already, you might want to take a look. It is an essay written by a cloth-diapering parent that is well-written and lists lots of facts about cloth-diapers. :)


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,264 ✭✭✭✭Hobbes


    I'm sorry, but how is it a spam site?

    Because the majority of the links on the site link off to other sites with referral IDs, which means you click on the link they get paid while not actually giving you any real information. There is information on the site, but then most referral spam sites do the same thing. Your earlier link did the same thing
    but if you haven't read it already, you might want to take a look.

    I've already read a number of scientific reports that did comparisons. The finding is that there is no real difference between the two, and if your doing it for green reasons you need to be composting the nappies and not sending them to a landfill.

    Linking to a blog while intresting is hardly a reliable source of information.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 345 ✭✭eiretamicha


    Hobbes wrote:
    Because the majority of the links on the site link off to other sites with referral IDs, which means you click on the link they get paid while not actually giving you any real information. There is information on the site, but then most referral spam sites do the same thing. Your earlier link did the same thing



    I've already read a number of scientific reports that did comparisons. The finding is that there is no real difference between the two, and if your doing it for green reasons you need to be composting the nappies and not sending them to a landfill.

    Linking to a blog while intresting is hardly a reliable source of information.
    I don't believe you can discredit a site with useful information simply because there are links to other sites where you can purchase items.

    In regards to the link to that parent's blog, I did say that it was an essay written by a parent. *shrug* There are also links in her essay to other reliable sources of information.

    I'm choosing to cloth diaper my children, and will be making my own out of second-hand fabric purchased from other people or at thrift stores and/or out of organic cotton and hemp fabric. I will be using baking soda and vinegar to wash the diapers, as well (no harsh chemical detergents for me). These diapers will be used over and over again with each child that I have (I'm planning on four). If you're trying to tell me that the impact on the environment is going to be the same whether I use cloth or disposables, (let's see...four children equals a gazillion disposables throughout their diaper years, whereas I could get by with with with only a handful of cloth that can be reused until they fall apart...and we DO compost, btw :) ), then I believe you might want to do a bit of extra research into the production methods of natural, organic cloth (for those so inclined to use it) versus the production methods of your general disposable diaper. ;)


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 827 ✭✭✭Brian Capture


    I
    I'm choosing to cloth diaper my children, and will be making my own out of second-hand fabric purchased from other people or at thrift stores and/or out of organic cotton and hemp fabric. I will be using baking soda and vinegar to wash the diapers, as well (no harsh chemical detergents for me). These diapers will be used over and over again with each child that I have (I'm planning on four).

    You're so cool.

    You're so cool.

    You're so cool.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    Brian Capture was there a point to you post ?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 345 ✭✭eiretamicha


    You're so cool.

    You're so cool.

    You're so cool.
    I know! :D

    In all seriousness, I wasn't bragging (though when I read that part that you quoted, it does seem that way), I was simply trying to make a point of "this is what I'm doing and this is why I'm doing it". *shrug*


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 827 ✭✭✭Brian Capture


    Thaedydal wrote:
    Brian Capture was there a point to you post ?

    The same point quoted thrice for emphasis.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,508 ✭✭✭Ayla


    Eiretamicha -

    I have always valued your opinions, and I look forward to reading your (as well as everyone else's) posts, but could you move your nappy discussion to the resuable vs. disposable thread that I started yesterday?

    I wasn't intending this thread to be a debate (and I'm sure your comments weren't intended to begin them either), but more of a reference/recommendation thread for specific brands and products.

    Btw, this comment also goes out there to all of you others who've contributed to the nappy debate. :)

    Let's get the debate going in the reusable vs. disposable thread

    Also, Brian Capture,

    From your message to Eiretamicha and your signature, it seems to me that you have a habit of "quoting thrice for emphasis".

    But perhaps this isn't really the place for it? No one needs the hassle of sarcasm in this discussion...we're all here to build off each other, not knock anyone down.

    Just a suggestion...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,264 ✭✭✭✭Hobbes


    then I believe you might want to do a bit of extra research into the production methods of natural, organic cloth (for those so inclined to use it) versus the production methods of your general disposable diaper. ;)

    Like I said I have already read the scientific reports on it. The verdict is there is not much difference.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 345 ✭✭eiretamicha


    Ayla wrote:
    Eiretamicha -

    I have always valued your opinions, and I look forward to reading your (as well as everyone else's) posts, but could you move your nappy discussion to the resuable vs. disposable thread that I started yesterday?

    I wasn't intending this thread to be a debate (and I'm sure your comments weren't intended to begin them either), but more of a reference/recommendation thread for specific brands and products.
    Oops! Sorry, I didn't notice the other thread yesterday! I apologize. :o


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 201 ✭✭bandraoi


    Wraps, slings etc. are wonderful for newborns but once the baby gets a bit bigger you're going to need a buggy if you plan to leave the house with it at all.


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