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looking for Sarah RIP

  • 22-04-2006 3:59pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,269 ✭✭✭


    I am trying to contact the parents of Sarah.
    She died in a moter bike accident.
    She was about 15-16 years old.
    PM me
    thanks


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  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Uhm. This is paranormal?

    Are the parents of this Sarah dead too ..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,269 ✭✭✭cathy01


    no, both are alive.I just cant contact them


  • Subscribers Posts: 19,425 ✭✭✭✭Oryx


    There may be other forums/resources more useful than this for finding these people. I can see you want to be vague with your information, this being the internet and all, but it seems a bit too vague. We dont where youre talking about, who, when, why. Why did you post here specifically? Are you hoping a psychic can help you find them?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,999 ✭✭✭solas


    I figured as it was posted here that cathy, acting as a medium, is trying to get a message through to someones parents. ? (I could be mistaken, tho if it was a general search for someone would have thought it would have been posted somewhere more appropriate)
    I'm sure if it resonates with someonethey will get in touch via pm.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,247 ✭✭✭✭6th


    Thats how i read it too.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 15,552 ✭✭✭✭GuanYin


    Erm I left this open to see where it was going (and because I assumped it was contacting dead people).

    Erm Cathy, can you give us a bit more info, I'm not sure why you think this is a paranormal topic.


  • Posts: 8,647 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Just a question to uld original poster,could the girls name be nicola?It happened 11 months ago to a girl i knew! R.I.P.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,269 ✭✭✭cathy01


    No Sarah's parents are still alive.I dont want chancers contacting me so It seems better to say as little as possible..
    Ok, Sarah crashed into a cliff edge.Like a large wall.She is dead.
    I want to speck to her parents.they would have to tell me who was with Sarah before I give the info out.
    No its not Nicola, sorry.
    The accident happened in the last 3-5 years .
    And if you think this is bad.wait to you read whats next.
    Looking for Darren RIP...
    Darren is about 9 and died of CF.
    His parents have recently moved house.
    I need to speak with his Mother.
    no...I am not mad.
    I dont take fees or prey on heartbroken people.
    .Just doing as I am asked.
    Cathy.
    Thanks all for trying to help.


  • Posts: 8,647 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Not the girl im thinking of!Sorry about that!This may be crude but could you not google it?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,269 ✭✭✭cathy01


    Never thought of that.I am sure she is Irish 100% or why would she even contact me?
    will give it a go.
    any one else want to try??
    cathy


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  • Posts: 8,647 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I tried "sarah motorbike crash wall teenager 2003 ireland" got 166000 thousand results!Prob need more info!you could just type it in yourself if you wanted to keep it quiet!:)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,984 ✭✭✭✭kippy


    Sorry, not able to help but just to point out googling:
    sarah motorbike crash wall teenager 2003 ireland
    Without the quotes will give you many results, but all irrelevant as it will pull up pages with each single word in them.
    Googling:
    "sarah motorbike crash wall teenager 2003 ireland"
    With the quotes however will give you no results as it searches for words coming together in that order.
    OP, I hope your search comes to an end on this thread.
    Kippy


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,269 ✭✭✭cathy01


    thanks for the tip.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,566 ✭✭✭Gillo


    I assumed that she mentioned linked her parents with boards otherwise you've very little chance of finding the parents here.

    I also assumed that Sarah is Irish; don't spirits normally "haunt" somewhere they have a connection with?
    Now if who is Irish, you could try the regisitar for births, deaths and marriages. The records are all computerised, it may be possible to put a date range (she's 15-16, combine that with how long she has been dead, when she died or what year she thinks it is (eg, she says she died 3 years ago that puts the year at 2003, got back another 15-16 years, you know when she died)) and age into the variables, and come back with anyone who matches that criteria. The Registar is based on Lombard St, about a minutes walk from Pears St train station (back of Trinity college). Again if you can match dates (roughly) try the national press.

    Why not ask her about her education, where did she go to school?
    Even if you can only get a name, most shcools in Ireland would be easy to find as they would either be xxxxxx community college or else St. joe bloggs, once it's a saint's name you then have the parish name and should be able to find the area easy enough.

    The same could be applied to Darren, but you could also try contacting CF Ireland and explaining the situation, they won't give you the information, but they will have a record of CF sufferer's. You might be able to convince someone there to pass on a note to his parents, but obviously you will need more information so they can get the right family. Be prepared though they may well tell you to f&*k off.

    any more help needed pm me


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 860 ✭✭✭rondeco


    Best of luck Cathy. Its an honourable thing you do.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,269 ✭✭✭cathy01


    I wish I could talk to them , just like that.But its not like that.
    Its like watching things on the TV.
    You see the person, the death get a message and sometimes I do talk to them.But its strange.I just tell them that they are dead and shouldnt really be talking to me.Oh my God I sound like such a FREAK.But I am not.
    Anyway.
    Sarah , I never knew her.
    I cant think why she asked to to pass on the message??
    I have in the past , passed on messages to people , when I knew who it was , but not this time.
    As For Darren, there is no way I would ring CF.I think I would feel a fool.
    What if I am wrong.What if I upset someone.
    That said, with Darren I seen him dead.
    I seen his house.
    I just dont know who he is.
    I will keep looking .I think if it was my son or daughter that left a message I would want the reciever to never stiop trying to find me.
    I cant stress this enough.I am a mam, kids, washing up and dinners to make.Not a phycic.
    so I have no idea what I am doing.
    thanks all.
    Off to google for Darren,
    thanks,
    Cathy


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,371 ✭✭✭✭Zillah


    Ask Sarah her second name, or when she had the accident. If she can pass on a message then surely she can share these details? Once you have either of these it should be relatively easy to search newspaper articles.

    EDIT: Name mixup


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,269 ✭✭✭cathy01


    if it was that easy , why dont I just ask her for her telephone number??
    I only have the information that I have.
    thats all.
    I think I will just give up.
    However I did a google on Darren and think I may have a result.
    Will keep you all posted.
    cathy


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 25,848 ✭✭✭✭Zombrex


    cathy01 wrote:
    if it was that easy , why dont I just ask her for her telephone number??
    I only have the information that I have.
    thats all.
    I think I will just give up.
    However I did a google on Darren and think I may have a result.
    Will keep you all posted.
    cathy

    Why don't you contact the Garda. If she died in a traffic accient in Ireland there will be a record of it. Or you could check the death register through the freedom of information act. If you know the area it happened you could also contact local newspapers for death notices.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,406 ✭✭✭Pompey Magnus


    [Edit, see below, Psi]

    This is a Sarah [Edit, Psi], 15 years old, died in a motorcycle accident in Tallagh last year.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,247 ✭✭✭✭6th


    [
    EDIT, See below, Psi]

    This is a Sarah [Edit - Psi], 15 years old, died in a motorcycle accident in Tallagh last year.[/QUOTE]


    This Sarah died on a very straight and flat road. She was hit by a motorbike going at about 120MPH as it over took a car which stopped to let sarah cross the road on her way home from school. No cliff involved as the OP discribed.

    RIP Sarah [Edit - Psi]. x


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,269 ✭✭✭cathy01


    Hi, thanks for trying.I had a look and got all excited , then re read and gave up.
    I have contacted Darrens frined.
    Darren was older when he died but I got that he died of CF and that his mother had moved house.
    Maybe I will get it right.
    I am really greatful for all your help.
    cathy


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 15,552 ✭✭✭✭GuanYin


    Ok.

    Sorry folks, I'm editing these posts.

    Two reasons:

    Firstly, I don't want anyones personal info posted on this forum unless someone makes their info readily available themselves (such as someone supplying the contact details of some medium).

    Seconly, I don't want any suggestion of a bereaving family being contacted through this forum. I know its in a newspaper article, but I don't want this forum to be responsible for anyone contacting the any families. The scope for error or mistaken identity is too big and the consequences too grave.

    If you guys want to talk about ways to find out about such info. Or if you guys wish to talk about the paranormal nature of the OP. Grand. I can't stop you PMing either.

    But I don't want to see full names or info like that article posted in the forum.
    You never know what crazy might come along and ring the family to send them here. If cathy01 wants to contact someone, its down to her, not this forum.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,247 ✭✭✭✭6th


    Fair enough, valid points. I know this info is all available on the net but we dont want to be seen to be handing it over to potential weirdos.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,269 ✭✭✭cathy01


    well,I am deffo not a weirdo.
    I understand , I wouldnt knock on someones door.
    its only if maybe a board member was Sarahs dad, uncle etc.
    had to try.
    anyway , think I will give up.
    thanks all for your help.
    Cathy.


  • Subscribers Posts: 19,425 ✭✭✭✭Oryx


    cathy01 wrote:
    well,I am deffo not a weirdo.
    I think that reference was meant for other strange people who trawl the net with nothing to do.:)
    cathy01 wrote:
    think I will give up.

    Cathy.
    Thats why this thing is a blessing and a curse. You wonder why you get the info if you cant pass it on? Sometimes tho, you have to let it go, unfortunately.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 15,552 ✭✭✭✭GuanYin


    Yup Cathy, no offence meant to you.

    I wasn't suggesting you are a weirdo, but people on the web do the strangest things. Someone with nothing better to do, or some gutter journo on a slow day, might read this thread and decide to go contact people mentioned.

    I'd see that as a nono.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,269 ✭✭✭cathy01


    I never thought of that.
    Thanks all for making me feel better.
    Have a feeling am going to "have another dream".
    Spoke to a girl today , told her she was pregnant about 5 months ago.She is about 5 months gone.
    cathy


  • Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 9,689 Mod ✭✭✭✭stevenmu


    psi wrote:
    I wasn't suggesting you are a weirdo, but people on the web do the strangest things. Someone with nothing better to do, or some gutter journo on a slow day, might read this thread and decide to go contact people mentioned.

    I'd see that as a nono.
    Equally someone connected to Sarah could see it and assume that we're a bunch of weirdos. (I sure do :) )


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  • Subscribers Posts: 19,425 ✭✭✭✭Oryx


    stevenmu wrote:
    Equally someone connected to Sarah could see it and assume that we're a bunch of weirdos. (I sure do :) )
    Weirdness is Good.:D

    Seriously, thats a big risk you take with contacting people like this. Good luck with what your doing, Cathy.


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