poor me. loveless. sigh.

Silent Grape

well ive been single for a loooooong time. over a year now.

im an attractive, 22 year old student, with PLENTY of opportunities with boys in college, but i cant get past kissing/having sex once with someone. its not like people dont find me attractive, i know that people do (besides builders) but they;re not the right people. but i want to be friends with someone first, then go out with them. and all the boys i know are great friends so we've passed that whole thing of 'are we just friends or do we like each other' and its all my fault. i do not pick up on hints. no matter how much i like someone, they could be waving a big flag saying i love u on it and i still wouldnt get it.

im really sociable and friendly and upfront and vocal and everything else.

i just want a boy. for longer than a couple of weeks. i miss cuddling! goddamit im such a girl!

sorry for the kind of illegible rant. im gettig impatient and you know what they say, 'itll happen when u least expect it' so i better start not expecting

sigh.
sorry.

Sangre

you're probably not attractive.

biko

Try http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=127 for best responses.

murphaph

Maybe this should be in PI? I'm sure you'll find a nice chap soon Grape

Maybe you could ask one of your nice friends out, it being 2006 and all. Sometimes us blokes are bad on the whole 'signals' thing and a bit of to the point bluntness is welcomed!

ronbyrne2005

boo hoo

jcoote

if a guy isn't getting 'vibes' he is not gonna chance his arm unless he is a bit full of himself..

maybe if u can do little gestures like compliments or asking them out on another date or saying stuff like 'i had fun' after a date.

i'd ask a girl out again if she did those things

feylya

Post pics. It's easier.

ronbyrne2005

dont sleep with them for a while and let them get to know ya.

Silent Grape

yeah i wasnt really expecting sincere replies. im just venting.

my friends say im just totally oblivious to their advances. i give vibes all the time, maybe thats the problem. i dunno. i know it aint the fault of the boys though, and i know there are a lot of people in college who like me. maybe they just want to have sex with me. urgh. now ive made it worse.

christ im moany. im usually not like this by the way. there was a boy i finally realised i liked. we get on really really well, then he asked me for my friends number. arse. i am going to cease moaning now, this is compeltely not like me. the fact im stuck in my dads instead of being out is probably helping this blackest of all black moods. grrr.

Sleipnir

ronbyrne2005 wrote:

dont sleep with them for a while and let them get to know ya.

Stop telling women not to sleep with guys immediately. You'll ruin it for the rest of us.

Silent Grape

yeah and the boys i really care about id never think of sleeping with them for a good while. and the boys i dont really want to go out with ill sleep with and thats fine. or else i kind of like them but im notsure and i sleep with them and then its over. i think im learning while im typing; dont sleep with any boys at all. until u like him properly.

i just want a boyfriend at this stage, not a friend that everyones asking you what the story is but you have no reply.

poop

Silent Grape

i think maybe i think a bit like a boy. i like sex, so ill have it when i want it, and i dont have a problem with a couple of one night stands here and there, but now im being all piney and loveless and pathetic hoping i find someone. and ive got a huge pool to fish in but i already good friends with most of the possibilities. to be honest i think id know sure if i liked them by now anyway.

ill give u a ridiculous example and i will probably go even lower in your estimations, but anyway, ive been literally in love with a friend for the past maybe 9 or ten months (i know, but 4 months of summer is included!)

i was secretly plotting and was a little nervous because its been a long time since i liked someone as much as this person. we got to know each other slowly over the months, and we went to a gig one night, got back to a friends flat, completely hammered, me gazing at himwith love eyes the whole time, and he cuddled me while we were sleeping the whole night. i was so happy, but i didnt take that hint of him being physical and do anything with it. I AM SUCH AN IDIOT.

now he's with a friend of mine and ive lost him forever. FOREVER.
i told you it was a pathetic story.

sorry for the rambling

jesus_thats_gre

PM me baby

Pepe LeFrits

lol, Iseult?

Probably not, but you've a got a twin... hee hee!

meowCat

Sangre wrote:

you're probably not attractive.

you are quite a charmer, Sangre!
:mad:

Silent Grape wrote:

everyones asking you what the story is but you have no reply.

I never used to know what to say then, too. But a friend recommended "I just haven't met the right person yet". And this seems to work fine.

Perhaps, some of the single fellas who read this thread could send you a PM. And then you could go for a pint together. And maybe you like each other. This way, at least the boy would know then that you are looking for a bf, as opposed to a 1ns or fb.

Good luck Silent Grape!

jcoote

see this is the men from venus thing again...if u sleep wit a guy that u have no plans formin a relationship wit your shootin yourself in the foot cos he's gonna want more (unless your ****e in the sack that is )...but if u don't show physical advance to a guy u wanna get wit he's gonna think your not interested...

Nevyn

Go find a dating site or go speed dating.

Aporia

Sangre wrote:

you're probably not attractive.

yeah

Aporia

jesus_thats_gre wrote:

PM me baby

haha you sound desperate so it's contagious im drunk no you pm me baby i'm hotter and probably younger than her

ronbyrne2005

Aporia wrote:

haha you sound desperate so it's contagious im drunk no you pm me baby i'm hotter and probably younger than her

get a room for gods sake!

projectmayhem

Sangre wrote:

you're probably not attractive.

man i lmao'd at that for 5mins

The_Minister

If you want to send me a picture ill rate you here......

Aporia

ronbyrne2005 wrote:

get a room for gods sake!

you're sex

Aporia

projectmayhem wrote:

man i lmao'd at that for 5mins

same here

retrospect

Silent Grape wrote:

well ive been single for a loooooong time. over a year now.

im an attractive, 22 year old student, with PLENTY of opportunities with boys in college, but i cant get past kissing/having sex once with someone. its not like people dont find me attractive, i know that people do (besides builders) but they;re not the right people. but i want to be friends with someone first, then go out with them. and all the boys i know are great friends so we've passed that whole thing of 'are we just friends or do we like each other' and its all my fault. i do not pick up on hints. no matter how much i like someone, they could be waving a big flag saying i love u on it and i still wouldnt get it.

im really sociable and friendly and upfront and vocal and everything else.

i just want a boy. for longer than a couple of weeks. i miss cuddling! goddamit im such a girl!

sorry for the kind of illegible rant. im gettig impatient and you know what they say, 'itll happen when u least expect it' so i better start not expecting

sigh.
sorry.

maybe you just need a big hug
here you go
http://home.att.net/~johnwaf/dc20s.gif
hope this helps

LundiMardi

Silent Grape wrote:

well ive been single for a loooooong time. over a year now.

im an attractive, 22 year old student, with PLENTY of opportunities with boys in college, but i cant get past kissing/having sex once with someone. its not like people dont find me attractive, i know that people do (besides builders) but they;re not the right people. but i want to be friends with someone first, then go out with them. and all the boys i know are great friends so we've passed that whole thing of 'are we just friends or do we like each other' and its all my fault. i do not pick up on hints. no matter how much i like someone, they could be waving a big flag saying i love u on it and i still wouldnt get it.

im really sociable and friendly and upfront and vocal and everything else.

i just want a boy. for longer than a couple of weeks. i miss cuddling! goddamit im such a girl!

sorry for the kind of illegible rant. im gettig impatient and you know what they say, 'itll happen when u least expect it' so i better start not expecting

sigh.
sorry.

generally if you want to be friends first, you keep your legs closed..

murphaph

LundiMardi wrote:

generally if you want to be friends first, you keep your legs closed..

....but that still leaves 2 angles of attack

Chucky the tree

http://boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2054904430


why dont you pm this sad tosser?


the 2 of you desperate losers would get on great.

RoundyMooney

Aporia wrote:

same here

Your eagerness to reply, on multiple occasions signifies something, I'm unsure what ;-)

Aporia

RoundyMooney wrote:

Your eagerness to reply, on multiple occasions signifies something, I'm unsure what ;-)

my tipsyness i'm sure

jesus_thats_gre

Aporia wrote:

haha you sound desperate so it's contagious im drunk no you pm me baby i'm hotter and probably younger than her

Eh??

mloc

boards needs a built in breathalyser!

jcoote

http://www.turnpike.net/~mirsky/drunk/ that should do it

Pepe LeFrits

jesus_thats_gre wrote:

Eh??

Hey jtg, how's your penis?

panda100

Sangre wrote:

you're probably not attractive.

This is what your're like sangre-this girl is obviously upset and you probably just made her feel worse.Why a horrible comment?Is it funnny?no! Is it useful advice for the girl?No! So this is what I mean when I say an insult by you is infact a compliment!

RobertFoster

panda100 wrote:

This is what your're like sangre-this girl is obviously upset and you probably just made her feel worse.Why a horrible comment?Is it funnny?no! Is it useful advice for the girl?No! So this is what I mean when I say an insult by you is infact a compliment!

Of course it's funny. Everyone knows that there's no girls on the Internet anyway.

Dave!

panda100 wrote:

This is what your're like sangre-this girl is obviously upset and you probably just made her feel worse.Why a horrible comment?Is it funnny?no! Is it useful advice for the girl?No! So this is what I mean when I say an insult by you is infact a compliment!

It's kinda sad and nerdy isn't it? Poor guy Pathetic...

Femelade

.

jesus_thats_gre

Pepe LeFrits wrote:

Hey jtg, how's your penis?

Crusty..

jesus_thats_gre

Femmy wrote:

.

While I do know its wrong to laugh - this made me giggle.... and giggle..




and giggle....








giggle

Retr0gamer

panda100 wrote:

This is what your're like sangre-this girl is obviously upset and you probably just made her feel worse.Why a horrible comment?Is it funnny?no! Is it useful advice for the girl?No! So this is what I mean when I say an insult by you is infact a compliment!

Well boo ****ing hoo!

DonkeyStyle \o/

ronbyrne2005 wrote:

boo hoo

Quoted for truth tbh.

nesf

Dear God people this is neither IRC nor a dating forum.