big whinge

LegacyUser

Today is my birthday and Im such a ****ing bad mood. I feel like crying. Im not sure if its premenstrually related or birthday anxiety.

Im argumentive and oversensitive. Not able to blow off the passive aggression of a good friend of mine who has major jealousy issues with her female friends, so Im fighting with her. Meow.

I feel unusually needy and clingy like I need a hug but all I can do is alienate with my snarky mood.

And Im not getting enough attention from someone Id like to be getting attention from. I know, immature, but that's how I feel.



blaaahhhh...................

gubby

first!! are you male or female? if the latter, is it " that time of the month?"
The advice I would give you is to give yourself a hug.. do something that you enjoy. and ............ repeat after me.. "THIS TOO WILL PASS"
hope you soon feel better.. you are loved!!

justsomebloke

happy belated birthday and hug...
hope you are feeling better today, to be honest we all feel like this occasionaly on our birthdays cause sometimes we just want to be the certain of attension even if it is only for one day in our lifes, and when other people aren't there or refuse to drop the gripes with other people for your special day we can just feel like sh1t. So once again hope your birthday wasn't to bad and hug from most of the people on boards

Zulu

Funny, thats the way I feel on all my birthdays, but unlike you suggested Jsb, it's being the centre of attention that I hate!

CathyMoran

I do hope that the rest of your birthday picked up - I know that sometimes birthdays are a time of reflection (even more than New Years) and that can be hard. Also, if you have PMT that can be a pain and you can be quite irritated if it happens around your birthday.

Belated Happy birthday.

Keyzer

gubby wrote:

first!! are you male or female? if the latter, is it " that time of the month?"
The advice I would give you is to give yourself a hug.. do something that you enjoy. and ............ repeat after me.. "THIS TOO WILL PASS"
hope you soon feel better.. you are loved!!

I would have thought "I feel like crying. Im not sure if its premenstrually related or birthday anxiety." would have given it away...

Faith

I felt like that on my last birthday. My mum was the only one who came over for it and I felt like all my friends back home should have made a way bigger deal. Stupid, yeah, but birthdays can be hard. Hope you're feeling better!

Nevyn

Meh birthdays suck.
I tend not to be bothered with mine other then the kids giving me cards and having a cake cos they expect it.
It is nice when people remember but i don't make a fuss about it why build youself up to get upset over it.

Dragan

It's just another days folks!

If you want to be happy on your birthday your best to make that happiness for yourself! Treat yourself to something you have wanted for a while, if your on a diet of any kind throw it out the window for 24 hours, take the day off work and just crash in bed watching a film or reading a book.

Simple pleasures folks, life is all about simple pleasures.

Doodee

Syxpak?

LegacyUser

I had to go to a function that was entirely unrealted to my birthday, had several rum and cokes, a few laughs with friends, and a phone call from the very person I wanted attention from.

And that added up to a fine turn around on my birthday. I needed my mind taken off it.

But yes, birthdays are like personal new years and thats why they are tough sometimes. Thanks everybody.

LegacyUser

Its my birthday next sunday but i don't think ill be doing much celebrating seeing as my brothers wife was knocked down on saturday by a drunk driver and shes still in critical condition.

Chin up, things could be worse.