Confused not sure what to do ?

Eminem

Hi just thought that i was post this thread. My ex rang me recently saying that he wanted to give it another go, But i am not sre if i want to . Because we got back together before and it didnt work out, I do like him but it ended baldy the last time. And i dont want the same thing to happen again .

Enyone have the same difficulty? I would be greatfull for your replies thankyou.:)

hullaballoo

He's probably just feeling a bit randy and just thinks he wants to get back with you. You'll get back together and you'll probably end up in bed (or whatever you kids do these days), and afterwards you'll both regret it.

Only get back with him if you really want to. Otherwise it's just stupid.

Eminem

hullaballoo wrote:

He's probably just feeling a bit randy and just thinks he wants to get back with you. You'll get back together and you'll probably end up in bed (or whatever you kids do these days), and afterwards you'll both regret it.

Only get back with him if you really want to. Otherwise it's just stupid.

I do but i am not sure what to do because i dont want to get back with him and then a few weeks later its over.

Femelade

you just have to think if its worth it, do u really really like him? or would u just be getting back with him for the sake of it, if u think its going to end badly again then dont bother setting your self up for heart break....

Eminem

Femmy wrote:

you just have to think if its worth it, do u really really like him? or would u just be getting back with him for the sake of it, if u think its going to end badly again then dont bother setting your self up for heart break....

Yeah i do really really like him but i just am not sure i do like dont get me wrong he have had good times together i tould him this was the last time. .

Fanny Cradock

if i'm reading your post correctly, this would be the second time you will have gotten back together. i hope i'm correct here.

anyway, if a realtionship breaks up it's for a reason. will this change at the second or third (??) time of asking? probably not.


greener pastures.

arbeitsscheuer

Cradock is spot on. It's pointless heading down that road again. You know where it leads, and it wasn't a great place last time so why should it be so this time?
Move on darlin, find someone who'll stay with you, and not just call you up as a safety net when his own relationship goes to sh*t.

Exon

If you like him and he's worth it give it another shot, could be a few years before you find someone worth going out with again...

madhitchhiker

U can always leave him if it doesnt work again this time..that is if he's worth another try..

Eminem

SebtheBum wrote:

Cradock is spot on. It's pointless heading down that road again. You know where it leads, and it wasn't a great place last time so why should it be so this time?
Move on darlin, find someone who'll stay with you, and not just call you up as a safety net when his own relationship goes to sh*t.

He rings me up whenever he feels like it and says it to me. And i forgive him . Maybe your right . Thanks for the adive Darlin:) :rolleyes:

kellxor.1337

If any relationship breaks up a 2nd time then it's 9times out of10 not gonna work out the 3rd time, I'd say leave it off and just get on with your life, He prob thinks he can get back with ya whenever he wants, And thats just wrong,


Hope you make the right decision


Kellxor

Eminem

kellxor.1337 wrote:

If any relationship breaks up a 2nd time then it's 9times out of10 not gonna work out the 3rd time, I'd say leave it off and just get on with your life, He prob thinks he can get back with ya whenever he wants, And thats just wrong,


Hope you make the right decision


Kellxor

Thanx for that you are right thier .