Friends?

LegacyUser

Ok this is really strange but have this friend who honestly means the world to me and I'd die for, we're both young and a little crazy and have been known to occasionaly hook up (planned and unplanned).

I'm unsure if i like him and if i am wheteher it's smart to act on it. Or even any waysensible as we're both known to be players and live really far apart. Nobody makes me as happy as he can but i don't know if I'd throw all that away for a relationship, despite the fact we already act almost as if we have one?

Just confused where to take this but its really strage leaving things as they are- I know hes perfect for me and it would definatley prevent me from being with anyone else...
Is this one time to play it cool?

WhiteWashMan

girl 2006 wrote:

Ok this is really strange but have this friend who honestly means the world to me and I'd die for, we're both young and a little crazy and have been known to occasionaly hook up (planned and unplanned).

I'm unsure if i like him and if i am wheteher it's smart to act on it. Or even any waysensible as we're both known to be players and live really far apart. Nobody makes me as happy as he can but i don't know if I'd throw all that away for a relationship, despite the fact we already act almost as if we have one?

Just confused where to take this but its really strage leaving things as they are- I know hes perfect for me and it would definatley prevent me from being with anyone else...
Is this one time to play it cool?

play it cool?

do you like the guy or not?

why would you fúck up any chances with him, just so you can give the impression you are 'cool'.

do you think he will find you being 'cool' attractive, and then want you to be his girlfriend?

if you like him, and you want to make something of it, say it to him.
if you are unsure if you want him, then why dont you just continue playing charades until you figure out what you want.

LegacyUser

girl 2006 wrote:

Ok this is really strange but have this friend who honestly means the world to me and I'd die for, we're both young and a little crazy and have been known to occasionaly hook up (planned and unplanned).

I'm unsure if i like him and if i am wheteher it's smart to act on it. Or even any waysensible as we're both known to be players and live really far apart. Nobody makes me as happy as he can but i don't know if I'd throw all that away for a relationship, despite the fact we already act almost as if we have one?

Just confused where to take this but its really strage leaving things as they are- I know hes perfect for me and it would definatley prevent me from being with anyone else...
Is this one time to play it cool?

****ing hell! I'm in an extremely similar situation, moved away from said girl to continue with my life, but fell for her completely along the way. While I would take her invitation to be a massive compliment, I wouldn't accept it, because the distance would destroy things. Life has sadly led you apart - for now at least. Maybe he'll come back, maybe you'll move on, but its definitely worth keeping in regualar contact as friends.

You never know - if he feels even remotely the same way as you, just a simple "Hows things" text will brighten up the day for him!