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Kissed by a Friend?????

  • 06-01-2006 12:39am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Sunday night I was out with group of friends, one of whom kissed me at end of night. I was so taken back it took me a few seconds to push him away!! (we friends about 2 years)

    The problem is I am very happily living with my partner the last 6 years. He was not out as he was in work (he works shifts). On Monday I was in shock, now I am annoyed with my friend. Do I tell my partner or do I try and forget about it? Should I confront my friend or should I put it down to drunken moment?


Comments

  • #2
    Webmonkey
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,579 ✭✭✭Webmonkey


    It was only a few seconds, plus you wern't the one that started, you were the one to push away.
    Why even bother telling your partner


  • #3
    C_Breeze
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,435 ✭✭✭C_Breeze


    ah , let it go . no big deal !
    hes hardly a home wrecker now is he.
    it was a flippin kiss.
    put it down to a drunken mistake if you will.


  • #4
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 8,647 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Dont tell him!you would hurt his pride alot!


  • #5
    MrsA
    Closed Accounts Posts: 321 ✭✭MrsA


    Hard one I think - what if one of your partners "friends" kissed him like that would you want to know about it?
    MPA


  • #6
    Dizzyblabla
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,440 ✭✭✭Dizzyblabla


    if you didn't tell him straight away, I wouldn't tell him now....
    I'm surprised you didn't... if it was something that happened to me, I'd probably go home and go "oh my god mr.x tried to kiss me tonight" etc etc etc....
    if you tell him a few days later, it sounds like you've been thinking about it, and debating whether or not to tell him, which makes you look kinda guilty, if you know what I mean?


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  • #7
    killswitch
    Closed Accounts Posts: 233 ✭✭killswitch


    i agree with Dizzy.the longer u leave it the worse it would be if he found out.u should have told him when u got home or even the day after that at the latest


  • #8
    Victor
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78,574 ✭✭✭✭Victor


    Its not uncommon for people to kiss on New Year's Eve (Saturday, not Sunday) - maybe he got erm, confused....


  • #9
    BigArnie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 140 ✭✭BigArnie


    I'd just leave it if I were you. Pretend it never happened. You did your duty and pushed him away. If it happens again, let your friend know that his advances aren't welcome and that you just see him as a friend. I wouldn't judge him harshly, he may really fancy you and that was just his way of showing it - it seeped out after a few drinks.


  • #10
    Tar.Aldarion
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,110 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tar.Aldarion


    BigArnie wrote:
    I'd just leave it if I were you. Pretend it never happened. You did your duty and pushed him away. If it happens again, let your friend know that his advances aren't welcome and that you just see him as a friend. I wouldn't judge him harshly, he may really fancy you and that was just his way of showing it - it seeped out after a few drinks.
    He really should have stopped himself as that is no excuse. He probably does like you OP, so I would tell him that you are happy with your bf...and never to do it again.


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