Getting it ooown with a housemate!

RamonVagaizi

Hi all

god i love this place! have been reading around this parts for a while so i thought I'd post something that i've been thinking about

i moved into a house with a 2 guy and 3 girls a few months back. now there's this girl and i'm thinking she's hot...we've been getting on really well and i'm thinking grrrrr (as in airrrr hairrr lairrrr;) ) but it could get messey... So I'm wondering:

Is it advisable to get involved with a housemate?
can it be done?
has anyone else done so and lived to tell the tale? if so tell the tale!

naked cooking anyone?

Dave!

lol, funny thread

I would probably say leave it... If it doesn't work out, it could make your living conditions really uncomfortable and stuff. Or even worse, she might be like "I'm not living here with that coont, he fooked me and now he won't even say hello to me!:eek:" and that would put you in an awkward position where one of you ends up moving out.

On the other hand, if before-hand you be like "if this doesn't work out, can we just pretend it never happened, and go back to being friends and sheeeiiiit?" although I don't know if that actually works in practice.

So...

danniemcq

well as my ma used to say don't sh!t in your own back yard.

kept me goin through some rough times

Setun

I've never experienced such a situation, but I read about it in a book once. Go for it, it worked for Lucy.

Dave

A guy I know did it. It didn't work out, he slept oh his neighbours couch for about a month afterwards. Be warned!

kaimera

guy I used to know did it aswell. Happened one drunken night.

left him wrecked for months afterwards and us listening to him pine on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on.

oh, there was tears in there somewhere aswell.

dunno what happened to him in the end *shrug*

Peteee

RamonVagaizi wrote:

Hi all

god i love this place! have been reading around this parts for a while so i thought I'd post something that i've been thinking about

i moved into a house with a 2 guy and 3 girls a few months back. now there's this girl and i'm thinking she's hot...we've been getting on really well and i'm thinking grrrrr (as in airrrr hairrr lairrrr;) ) but it could get messey... So I'm wondering:

Is it advisable to get involved with a housemate?
can it be done?
has anyone else done so and lived to tell the tale? if so tell the tale!

naked cooking anyone?

Dont.

"It wont be weird will it"

ROFL! And to boot twas the night before we all moved out, and it still got messy! Too torrid a tale to tell here tbh!

ShiverinEskimo

Risk it for a Biscuit.

Do it drunk the first time so you have some comeback if she sucks in bed.
"last night was just a drunken mistake right? I mean, we're just good friends aren't we?" she'll be too ashamed to admit otherwise and you have another notch.*

*all the above based on you being a bastard hell bent on sex. ShiverinEskimo does not condone such activity and is not liable for any murder, maming, burning or molestation occuring as a result of following the above.

flanzer

Tricky one!! I'd always have a motto.... Don't screw the crew...... Move up the road, THEN have your wicked way with her!!

el tel

If there's a potential leg over available then go for it and never mind the repercussions. There're be plenty more things in life to regret having done. And as your granda will tell you, bad sex is better than no sex.

*marie*

Time for some female input I think...my friend did it and SHE really regrets it, so does everyone else in the house, there's loads of tension etc now. Unless you actually want a relationship with this girl don't do it!

screw her and get it over with !!!
the worst that can happen is that she'l hate u afterwards
dont do it drunk BTW because if u end up being crap in bed it will be like Oh My God the awkwardness afterwards!!!!

let us know if ur sucessful in ur mission

shakaman

Hmmm funny story and if said girl or boy is a member of boards, I apologise.

Started in college and immediately clicked with a hottie in my house. She had a fella at home, 3rd day in college I was in her bed gettin some oral pleasure. I was young and innocent and didn't think of the repercussions.

Anyway she then said she wanted to break up with the fella and did, without asking me! I had no interest in a girlfriend, first time in a co-ed establishment after 5 years in a boys I was like a kid in a sweet shop. She got pretty upset and shouted badness about me round the college.

Dude shows up on the door step following day and I answer, thinkin holy fuk! He goes I know she has a fella up here and I want to speak to her....so I let him in but girl was out. We get chattin and actually got on well (he had no idea i was the other fella) and we ended up on the piss for the day. So much so we ended up pullin two friends in a club about 10 feet from said girl.

I left to go home with my lady, and the pair left to go home together. Had my fun and came home about 5am to hear shouting up in the kitchen. So I went in and it was the couple arguing, I said whoa there folks what's going on you'll wake the town!

So we all got talkin and yer man shouts across the table to girlfriend so N**** how does it feel to the dirt and what does she answer..........

Why don't you ask the guy across the table from you!

Holy moley, got my dukes up ready to rock but what does my man do.....bursts in to tears. What a lady.

Anyway needless to say relations were frayed in that house, especially when I pulled another one of my housemates.

Result I ate all my dinners in my bedroom and spent all my time round the lads. Wouldn't have changed any minute of it, one for the grandkids!

Go for it i say!

Big Nelly

When I was in college, me and bro had a house and it was always just the 2 of us as men in the house. The rest of the time we had women. Well he started to go out with one of them so he had it on "tap" so to speak but she would say the exact same. Mad for mikey as we say.:D

So as people moved in and out it was left up to me to "welcome" them into the house. It was a hard job but someone had to do it. On each occasion we never had a problem afterwards. One of the girls we where together about 4-5 times and more or less going out and then said it was too full on living together. So we kinda stayed mates. Would go out. If she pulled and I pulled then sound. But if both missed out we would prob end up with each other. Was only a casual thing. Depends what both people are looking for in a relationship. It was college for us so was always a casual thing!

el tel

shakaman wrote:

Result I ate all my dinners in my bedroom and spent all my time round the lads. Wouldn't have changed any minute of it, one for the grandkids!

Go for it i say!

Wicked story man!

O/P,
You don't want to be reminiscing with the grandkids and suddenly regret the things you didn't do!

robinph

Happened to a mate of mine and they are now married, so it's not all bad.

Of course that depends on your opinion of marrige, but thats for another time.