confused and sad!!!

katiegordon

Hey!
I posted a thread a while ago about getting over people.Now usually idget over people once i meet someone new which is probably pretty shallow but hey im not complaining.now ive started meeting someone else and hes really nice, sound and funny and pretty cute.he makes me laugh which is what i like best in a guy but for some reason i just cant REALLY LIKE him.I dont want to lead him on or anything as hes really lovely.Thats just one half of my problem
i found out one of my friends was texting my ex.im not angry or anything because obviously hes not my property but i swear to god i just got this feeling in the pit of my stomach.i cant explain it but i felt awful.it was like both of us were moving on.id been texting him lately and it had got back to how it used to be friends wise and i suppose i just always figured wed get back together.i didnt even want him to know i was with someone else.just so hed think i hadnt moved on.stupid i know.
my friend is lovely and they deserve each other but its hard.i set the two of them up the other day, i just had to do it i could see they both really liked each other.
I know people will say its just a stupid teen thing and all relationships only last like a month anyway but it doesnt stop me feelin so bad!!

DonkeyStyle \o/

You should be down on your hands and knees every night saying the rosery.
Just be happy you're not a complete minger that nobody would go out with.
Count your blessings girl.

JC 2K3

I get that feeling in my stomoch too, it's like you regret something badly even though you shouldn't regret it at all.......

biofreak

This is "just a stupid teen thing and all relationships only last like a month anyway" so stop feeling so bad. Nah only joking. I think this guy that has come along provides the perfect opportunity to get over your ex. Your going to have to sometime and it'll take your mind off things.

Kulgan

DonkeyStyle \o/ wrote:

You should be down on your hands and knees every night saying the rosery.
Just be happy you're not a complete minger that nobody would go out with.
Count your blessings girl.

I don't think that's really helping but thanks for the effort !

katiegordon

DonkeyStyle \o/ wrote:

You should be down on your hands and knees every night saying the rosery.
Just be happy you're not a complete minger that nobody would go out with.
Count your blessings girl.

Ya know sometimes thats worse!
my life would be so much simpler if guys werent involved!!!;)

The_B_Man

i know how u feel! i wouldnt be strong enough to set up me ex though! and i also defo dont want her to know who ive been with, or who she's been with!

but to be honest, u dont wanna go jumpin back into a relationship again! u seem, like me, still hungover from your previous relationship. time is the only healer, though the timeframe can vary.

by the way, dont think u shoulda set ur mate up wit ur ex. u sure u werent just doin it to be the bigger person? it'll come back to u and hit u in the face wen ur not expectin it! hope it wasnt a good friend u set up! messy!

LegacyUser

It's called wounded pride, thats all. You love yourself, (go on admit it) and he copped off with another bird, its an ego thing thats all, not real feelings for this boy.

Believe me i completely sympathize with u, that feeling is following me around these days I cant get over the fact that my ex kissed a girl on Halloween night:(
(he told me we're still mates) and might me out there now meeting someone else I dread it. Even though im casually seeing other guys I cant move on yet as im not ready its makes mefeel sick to think he is.:(

dundalk cailin

ah yea course it hurts, my friend got together with this guy i was kissing(for want of a better word!) a while back and she felt so awkward even mentionin his name, i just told her look id rather u said it to me instead of makin it seem a big secret..i was lucky i suppose that it'd been a while since i was with him and i wasnt still into him..hope things get better for u, at least u've got a nice guy who's interested in u!

katiegordon

oh my god i feel like **** im such a fool.seriously im sitting here crying over a guy!Ive NEVER EVER done this b4 EVER!!!somebody help me:-(im just putting on a big show of being happy for them and i cant do it anymore.......:( no matter what happens now hes always gonna be hers i know we can never be together again cause id be the b**ch who was with her fella.
Ya know what else??? not one of my friends has aked me how i feel about the whole thing.It s prob my fault cause i always put on a hard face when talkin about him but still it doesnt help!!
i dunno why im still writing but i think it helps just writinit out.

dundalk cailin

aw poor lass, it hurts being a teenage girl i know..it hurts being an adult too!! it will get better hun, i know it feels like ur world has crumbled, but believe me..it will

katiegordon

i hope it does!!thanks for the advise!
I really think this guy was different though, i never had this awful feelin b4 i feel physically sick whenevr anybody talks about them including me!except i have to have this stupid smile on my face and be going aww its sooooo cute that youre meeting now.i really cant see myself getting over him if they start going out long term

dundalk cailin

ouch i can see what u mean, and bcos u have been putting on a brave face, u feel like you cant let your true feelings show? is this girl one of your best friends? take her aside now, while its still early, tell her how ur feeling deep down, dont pressure her, but do make sure she's aware..after all boys come and go, but friends *true ones* last a lifetime

xxxx

katiegordon

shes a pretty good friend.We went through a bad kinda phase last year kinda my fault but we are just getting back bein good friends again.I really couldnt say it to her.we hang in a group of school friends and basically what ya say to one person gets back to everyone.Aswell i acted as if i dont care when it all ended, i only told one person how i really felt and that was when we were drunk and i dont think she remembers, so if i said anything everyonewould think i was doing it out of spite:( .

dundalk cailin

god i dunno what to advise now in that case, seems a bit messed up indeed..well keep me posted anyway, u can pm me if u want and i can c if i can suggest anything!

katiegordon

nah its alrite.theres nothing i can do now i suppose thats the part thats annoying me most, its totally gone from my control!!!Neway thanks!ur very good for givin everybody advise by the way!I was just lookin ur postin in loads of threads!!!Hope i can return the favour:)