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Risky, no condom!

  • 20-11-2004 12:43pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Last night my girlfriend and I went further then we ever have before. We were having forplay for a while without any condom and then we got closer and basically what happened is I started rubbing my penis against her vagina, and it was very steamy. We are both virgins (were only 18) and then I did sumthin i regret, i put it up her vagina. But only maybe 2 inches or so. Then I took it out again, and put on a condom and then it was ok but the unprotected stuff lasted maybe a minute or two but I was only up her for about 5 seconds. I didn't cum or anything and she is still a virgin.. I didn't break through anything. Any chance of another Mary and Joseph scene? what are the chances?
    Thanks


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,099 ✭✭✭✭WhiteWashMan


    chances are low, but they are still there.

    you'll know better next time wont you.

    only thing that will put your mind at rest is either she takes a morning after pill, or you do a pregnancy test.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,315 ✭✭✭ballooba


    only thing that will put your mind at rest is either she takes a morning after pill, or you do a pregnancy test.

    Might ask her to take a pregnancy test too just to be sure.
    :p


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,579 ✭✭✭Pet


    May as well go for the morning after pill, you can never be too sure. But get it TODAY - you don't want to leave it to the 72 hour max.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,126 ✭✭✭✭Idbatterim


    If what you are saying is 100% accurate, there is no chance, no chance of her getting pregnant, although i wouldnt advise doing it again or without a condom, its not worth the angst and nerves you have till she gets her next period, hopefully!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,035 ✭✭✭Bri


    There's such a thing as 'pre-cum' by the way, where you won't know that some of your little guys have got out early...


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,698 ✭✭✭garthv


    there is a slight chance of here getting pregnant from pre-cum if what you were up to was really steamy but like the rest of the people are saying,morning after pill just to be safe


  • Moderators, Education Moderators Posts: 9,654 Mod ✭✭✭✭mayordenis


    the chances are so slim that anything happened, really its minuscule(not your wang :P) look just dont do it again learn the lesson from all the fear you have.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,126 ✭✭✭✭Idbatterim


    i doubt he was close to cuming after having it in her for 5 secs, the pre cum normally cums literally a sec before the cum!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,035 ✭✭✭Bri


    Was simply pointing it out due to the way the original poster talked.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,579 ✭✭✭Pet


    Idbatterim wrote:
    i doubt he was close to cuming after having it in her for 5 secs, the pre cum normally cums literally a sec before the cum!
    Eh, NO...it usually comes early on, acts as a lubricant/neutraliser, and can contain sperm. Hence why "coitus interruptus" (hehe, always makes me snigger) is an ineffective method of contraception. There is a risk there, however small, and if you're 18, it's one that can be avoided by using the morning after pill in this case (and using a condom in the future).


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,126 ✭✭✭✭Idbatterim


    "Eh, NO...it usually comes early on", Im obviously some sort of freak then!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Well basically, we were doing other stuff for a good hour or so before I started doing that, but I'm just worried about the pre cum theory because I was aroused and there was probably some on the tip of my penis but I definitely only stayed up there for 5-10 seconds, but I was rubbing it against her vagina for a few minutes. she is still a virgin, I didn't break her himan(spelling?) I did it at about 5am saturday morning, so I have until say tuesday morning 5am the latest to get morning after pill? her period is in about 2 weeks. Just get the MA pill so? thanks!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78,580 ✭✭✭✭Victor


    Dumbo wrote:
    she is still a virgin
    Eh, sorry to disappoint you, but on my understanding of "virgin" and based on your post there was some cigar there.

    There is the possibility of pregnancy and STIs.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,989 ✭✭✭✭Giblet


    Dude, start buying baby clothes


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78,580 ✭✭✭✭Victor


    Giblet wrote:
    Dude, start buying baby clothes
    Pink? Or blue?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,647 ✭✭✭impr0v


    Victor wrote:
    Pink? Or blue?

    He didn't state whether he was lying under her or over her.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78,580 ✭✭✭✭Victor


    were you in the shower?because she can't get pregnant if you were in the shower. Also here a free and useful tip :if you ride her while she is standing up, she cannot get pregnant. FACT.
    *

    * May not be true


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Hi !

    I got pregnant and I ended up having an abortion after messing around with a guy the very same way. You are playing with fire. Your girlfriend should get the morning after pill and a prescription for the Pill asap.

    Don't mean to freak you out but you can't be too careful. Hope all goes well for you both!

    Sinéad.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,126 ✭✭✭✭Idbatterim


    You beat me to it Victor, very good


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,749 ✭✭✭tony 2 tone


    Idbatterim wrote:
    "Eh, NO...it usually comes early on", Im obviously some sort of freak then!
    You're taking the piss(or pre-come) right?


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,478 ✭✭✭GoneShootin


    :if you ride her while she is standing up, she cannot get pregnant. FACT.

    Guffaw!

    What kinda shampoo are you using ? I gotta get me some of it.

    V-gel

    Horny cummy bastard?
    Relieved by V-Gel!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,811 ✭✭✭✭billy the squid


    were you in the shower?because she can't get pregnant if you were in the shower. Also here a free and useful tip :if you ride her while she is standing up, she cannot get pregnant. FACT.

    Oh really? do you have evidence of this?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 791 ✭✭✭fightin irish


    were you in the shower?because she can't get pregnant if you were in the shower. Also here a free and useful tip :if you ride her while she is standing up, she cannot get pregnant. FACT.

    WTF LMFAO at this...sorry man but thats just ridiclous...unless you can back this up with some medical evidence or lnternet links to such im pissing myself laughing!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,811 ✭✭✭✭billy the squid


    we do have a humour board if you are looking for somewhere to crack jokes

    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=22

    and until the user who started thread starts to act the muppet then you have to treat them with respect and take their post whether it be true or false, at face value, "taking the piss" does not add anything to this thread.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 791 ✭✭✭fightin irish


    Guffaw!


    Guffaw?Guffaw? What the **** is this the beano? I guess you were chortling as well?
    I'd expect people still up at this time of night posting on messageboards,to recognise 2 classic urban legends,which the the 2 "facts" in my original posts are. If you were anyway sexually active during secondary school you might have come across these two gems,which when I was in fourth year were treated as gospel by sum.
    So in summary, I was taking the piss. You guys must be mighty slow not to have copped

    hmm true on the late at night posts lol...i'm back from a good night out and very pissed...and billy the squid is right...piss off and post ur jokes some where else ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 568 ✭✭✭newgrange


    <old lady mode>To be honest, if you think you are old enough to be having sex with your girlfriend, you are old enough to get a book/go to the doctor/ask a parent/ask a teacher and find out about your fertility. The things I read on this board are frightening sometimes.</old lady mode>


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,524 ✭✭✭✭Gordon


    What billy the squid said.

    themaverick if you plan on posting on PI again, make sure that you don't take the piss and actually post helpful replies that are factually correct. Next post like that and you get a banning.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,604 ✭✭✭Kev_ps3


    your a dirty little boy arnt u?!!
    did she have a tight one?! ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 920 ✭✭✭elvis2002


    I saw that "themaverick" was having a joke earlier. I've seen it soo many times on boards in this section people asking "Can i get pregant in the shower, does withdrawl work, can i get pregnant during period etc...." the list goes on... I think some people need to lighten up in here.... I found in very funny.

    On the original post. Its highly unlikely shes pregnant. I very rarely see any of that precum on my dinger. It usually comes out just before cum. 20 Seconds before. I've read though the most common is right at the start of erection and stimulation.

    I think its time dumbo to get some condom's in the local pup machine and go and ride that little flower!! :-()


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78,580 ✭✭✭✭Victor


    elvis2002 wrote:
    I saw that "themaverick" was having a joke earlier. I've seen it soo many times on boards in this section people asking "Can i get pregant in the shower, does withdrawl work, can i get pregnant during period etc...." the list goes on... I think some people need to lighten up in here.... I found in very funny.
    The difference is Giblet overstated something, themaverick told a mistruth. themaverick was "wrong".


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,770 ✭✭✭Bottle_of_Smoke


    You'd really have to be an unfortunate bastad for her to be pregnant but it still was stupid all the same.
    and eh your hymen theory ? ? if she got horny one night and the cucumber looked attractive has she lost her virginity?

    were you in the shower?because she can't get pregnant if you were in the shower. Also here a free and useful tip :if you ride her while she is standing up, she cannot get pregnant. FACT.

    ***depends on the density of your sperm, if dense enough gravity will pull the semen away from the vagina and no one gets pregant////***

    seriously tho im sure anyone reading this will know he's taking the piss
    He didn't state whether he was lying under her or over her.

    very good :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,478 ✭✭✭GoneShootin


    If you were anyway sexually active during secondary school you might have come across these two gems,

    Does having sex with my hand count ? I called her lucy.

    But Lucy left me you see, when I lost my right hand in a shoe tieing incident.

    OH LUCY COME BACK TO ME!














    Also, my penis is far bigger than yours. And so on................


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,016 ✭✭✭✭vibe666


    all these people who seem to 'know' when pre-cum occurs seem to be missing one tiny (and I mean tiny) little fact.

    did you ever notice that sperm are invisible to the naked eye?

    did you ever notice that most women give off a little 'juice' of their own?

    pre-cum can occur at any time during intercourse. any time you have it in her, for those of you at the back of the class, even if it's only an inch or two it still counts. ;) even if her hymen is intact it could very well be perforated (i.e. not sperm proof).

    get the morning after pill first thing (afaik, she'll have to get it and go through a little sermon from the chemist, you can't pick it up yourself) and get some more condoms while you're there.

    and then give her one. if you've got that far already, i think she's ready for it. ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 66,122 ✭✭✭✭unkel
    Chauffe, Marcel, chauffe!


    Dumbo wrote:
    her period is in about 2 weeks

    OMG your timing could not have been worse :rolleyes:

    Did you not get biology in school at all? Never mind, make sure she takes the MAP pronto. Otherwise it might be off to England for a little jobbie that the chief wanker in Rome does not approve of...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,423 ✭✭✭tinkerbell


    Dumbo wrote:
    We are both virgins (were only 18) and then I did sumthin i regret, i put it up her vagina. But only maybe 2 inches or so. Then I took it out again, and put on a condom and then it was ok but the unprotected stuff lasted maybe a minute or two but I was only up her for about 5 seconds. I didn't cum or anything and she is still a virgin.. I didn't break through anything.

    And here's why they really need to bring in proper sex education into secondary schools. She ain't a virgin anymore dude, you had sex, therefore, she's no longer a virgin, doesn't matter if you were up her 5 seconds, 5 minutes or 5 hours - you still had sex. Yes, pre-cum does contain sperm. As for her hymen, it may be broken already due to sports, etc. Go get the morning-after pill. And never ever rub against her or put it in without protecting yourselves first!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,099 ✭✭✭✭WhiteWashMan


    can the majority of posters on this thread, not including me, please go away.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    One thing is for sure (considering she is probably a healthy female), the only thing a girl needs to be able to get pregnant is that she is of a "period" baring age.

    She can get pregnant even if she is a virgin.

    Please dont be fooled by old wives' tales.

    If any part of the penis was in her vagina then that is sex - unprotected sex. It only takes 1 egg and 1 sperm (out of millions) to get pregnant.

    Also, please realise or understand a woman's period cycle (or your girlfriend should understand at least).

    Most women (but not all) have a 28 day cycle - i.e you will get your period every 28 days.

    Day 1 of the 28 is the day a woman gets her period.

    So day 1= day 1 of period......and so on so on for 28 days.

    Days 11-17 are normally considered the most fertile period for a woman. Ovulation occurs (release of an egg).

    If you have unprotected sex during these days (again, depending on the womans cycle length, ovulation days can vary), the chances of the egg becoming fertilised are higher.

    You said she has 2 weeks to go? Sounds like she was around ovulation day.

    I dont mean to scare you but you need to know these things. Maybe you will think before you act again having this in mind.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,192 ✭✭✭Dathai


    Seriously dude, get the pill as fast as you fúcking can, even if you think there is a big chance that she's not pregnant just get the pill and you'll be sure..I mean youre only 18 you dont want that shít happening to you..If she is not pregnant now, next time you may not be so lucky.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,989 ✭✭✭✭Giblet


    My comment stems from the fact that while you think it's ok to have sex, you seem to be lacking basic knowledge and precautions.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78,580 ✭✭✭✭Victor


    True wrote:
    Most women (but not all) have a 28 day cycle - i.e you will get your period every 28 days.
    Of approximately 28 days, I suspect few enough are exactly 28 days.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,016 ✭✭✭✭vibe666


    can the majority of posters on this thread, not including me, please go away.
    Yep, that'll get rid of the problem. nothing like bueying your haed in the sand to make things all better.
    :rolleyes:


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