some questions about women i need a lil help with

LegacyUser

ill keep this post very short, and to the point. This is not a joke! These questions should have been answered during the birds and the bees talk when i was younger!

i met a girl, stuff happened, we got to sex and it was hurting her. Im not saying im a stud or anything like that - i just want to know is it natural for a girl to hurt when she hasnt had sex for a few months? Why does it hurt? And no she isnt a virgin.

Also...

during the course of our night, she popped up on top and got more pain.. she said it was something to do with her womb? is it possible for a woman to get pain from her womb moving during sex?

I really like this girl, but i just need to know some of this stuff so i can relate to her better... She explained some of the stuff above, but i was 1/2 asleep at the time (you all know how it is.).

Thanks!

Beruthiel

persontypebloke wrote:

during the course of our night, she popped up on top and got more pain.. she said it was something to do with her womb? is it possible for a woman to get pain from her womb moving during sex?

I'd need more info on what exactly is wrong with her womb?
I've never heard of that tbh
sounds to me like she just needs to relax, more foreplay is required!

embee

Obviously, I am not a doctor, but from what you say it sounds like she may have a Prolapsed uterus, which is probably the result of the pain during sex. Google the phrase "prolapsed uterus" and you will be able to find plenty of information etc.

Best of luck anyways.

Beruthiel

embee wrote:

Prolapsed uterus

this happened to my Gran, but that was after 10 kids!
wouldn't it be very unusual for it to happen to a young girl

Sleepy

Think Beruthiel had it right the first time, just need to relax her a little more.

Ste.phen

You're sure she's not a virgin?
Without wanting to go into too much detail, based on past experience, after the first time, there could be a bit of pain down there afterwards? (like, later that night).

It was explained to me as "its like things are moving themselves around".

DapperGent

Sounds vaguely similar to the experiences of a guy I knew going out with a girl with severe endemetreosis.

Jekell

It happens when a girl hasn't had sex for a while. Things are a little tighter
More foreplay is what is called for

LegacyUser

yea Jekell, thats what i expected, i just wanted someone else to say that

she said it can happen to girls when the bloke is in full swing... something about when she sat upright it hurt her to move... your guess is as good as mine

Quigs Snr

Yup unless you have a langer like a babys arm, sounds like you just need to get her motor running first.

When I was starting out in that particular vocation many years ago, I was not much better than you by the sounds of it and experienced similar problems, most guys I know started out the same way, but once you know how to work the controls, you'll be alright ! Find the 'go' buttons (every woman has one in common, but the others are often located in different places on different women, ask her to help you find out what does it for her, she will already know, and if she doesn't shes a big liar!) , you'll know when you do, breathing will probably become heavy, hips will start to move and .... well you know how to check a car's oil level yes ? You understand that for any engine to function without wear and tear in the pistons and piston shafts you need it to be well lubricated yes ? Well draw your own conclusions. Bottom line is this, she is wet = good, dry = bad, keep it in it's holster until you can rectify the situation !

If all else fails put on your snorkel and go diving.....................

logic1

Are you related to John Holmes?

.logic.

HJ Simpson

Google "dyspareunia" this could be the issue. The better half suffers alot from this no matter how wormed up she is so to speak. Sex is generally just painful for her she been to the doc and there is nothing physically wrong.

Coconut

persontypebloke wrote:

She explained some of the stuff above, but i was 1/2 asleep at the time (you all know how it is.).

PTB, do you think this could be part of your problem?? I sympathise, I do. But if shes going to the trouble of explaining it, she probably expects you to pay attention! Its not always easy to talk about this stuff. She'd be so impressed if she knew you were concerned (less so if she knew it was on boards..), but you may have come across as uncaring. Ask her to explain it again, "just to make sure you understand". Preferably not when you're not... feeling sleepy.

tinkerbell

Yah you should've been listening when she took the time to explain what was wrong! If you had, maybe you wouldn't be here posting asking about it. Ask her again what she reckons it is. It could either be physical or mental (physical - she ain't warmed up properly, mental - she had a bad experience) or it could be something else.

TALK to her!! She's the only one that can answer your questions.

Quigs Snr wrote:

If all else fails put on your snorkel and go diving.....................

P.S. What a great post Quigs Snr!

bug

could she have said something about her womb being tilted in a different direction? Aparently 25% of women have tilted uterus'es (whats the plural - uteri ) anyhow, most tilt back some tilt forward, so certain positions dont feel *as* comfortable as others, but then again, as everyone is saying above, if you work on her a little, anything should go

a quick google brings up this youngone yapping about her own internals http://forums.obgyn.net/forums/womens-health/WHF.9912/0388.html

LegacyUser

ahh here! your making it out like i just pinned her down and went at it!

There was load of play before hand n stuff! and im starting to tell too much here, but the oil level was overflowing

Thats all i needed to know, thanks loads lads and ladies!

Beruthiel

typeblokeguy wrote:

Thats all i needed to know, thanks loads lads and ladies!

no worries
since you know all you needed to, I'll close this before it spirals into muppetry
B