Need Help/Advice

LegacyUser

Hello,

I am in need of some advice/confidence. The thing is I seem to get erections a lot when im around girls and even in general sometimes. I know it is normal to get erections but im 100% sure about this sort of stuff. The reason im posting is because me and my ex are getting back with each other. Now I loved her very much but I ended it before we got close to each other because im afraid. Im afraid im not normal when im sure I am. Its just ive been getting erections since 6th class. Im sure there is nothing wrong with me but im sure I will be more confident if I have a few questions answered :-

1) How often does the average 17yr old masterbate?
2) Is it normal to have erections sometimes through the day and when your with a girl your going out with when kissing her
3) I am afriad of cuming too quick if she goes down

I am honestly terrified of sex, I think when I get that over me I will be alright. Ive had many chances but pulled away because im not confident enough with myself and im a good looking person.I dont want to have to worry about this everytime im with a girl and more importantly when/if I get back with my ex whom I really like.

I cant keep going on like this, When erect im about 6-7 inches thats why im afraid so much I think its too big when its the average size. I know this all sounds stupid but I want to know im normal down below so I can be confident and make a go of it with my ex instead of being terrified.

Cheers

Victor

Guest101 wrote:

Its just ive been getting erections since 6th class.

Late starter?

1) How often does the average 17yr old masterbate?

For males, probably between several times a week to several times a day. For 19 year old females, it's probably several times in the one 90-minute videotape.

2) Is it normal to have erections sometimes through the day and when your with a girl your going out with when kissing her

Yes. Just make sure your clothing isn't too tight, having and erection with you penis pointing in the wrong direct can be excruciating.

3) I am afriad of cuming too quick if she goes down

Then crack one off before you see her and the second time won't be as quick.

I am honestly terrified of sex, I think when I get that over me I will be alright.

Fair enough, if you aren't ready, you aren't ready. You'r 17 which is probably below average age.

I cant keep going on like this, When erect im about 6-7 inches thats why im afraid so much I think its too big when its the average size.

This is soooo trolly, but girls rarely complain about big ones and 5-6 is typical (measured on the topside)

Tiriel

just relax and don't worry so much..
think of it this way.. it's one of the best compliments a girl can get

aidan_walsh

Guest101 wrote:

I know this all sounds stupid but I want to know im normal down below so I can be confident and make a go of it with my ex instead of being terrified.

Whoa, wait what? Sleeping with your ex? Which is the issue he wants to talk about here, me wonders...

Unless, of course, I picked up on that totally wrong...