can't have sex due to tight foreskin! advice?

LegacyUser

I've only ever had sex once without a condom...
Every other time it's just been too sore. It's fine with a condom however.

I have never seen my foreskin pulled back, ever. I didn't even know it was meant to happen till I was about 17!! When trying to have sex, it's quite sore, and I often say 'feck it' and push harder, but im just afraid it'll rip, and i stop. I just can't see how its meant to 'stretch' that much.

Also, is sex more enjoyable when your foreskin is rolled back?? When i do have sex, i dont really enjoy it that much. like, i have just as much fun just playing around, or doing other things without intercourse?

I'm worried however that my partner is feeling unsatisfied sexually. I wouldn't blame her either...


Thanks!

tighter

dargan

Go see a doctor/urologist. This is a common enough problem. See the parallel thread about circumcisions....

Sex will be one whole new experience once your head is out ;-)

azezil

as dargan said, also you could try pulling you foreskin back in a warm bath, take you time, it'll loosen up the more you do it.

rewop

apparently, a lot of these cases are to do with when mothers bath their babies and cleaning down there.
Rolling it back in babies can cause microscars and results in the foreskin not being able to stretch later in life.
Get on to your mother and ask her what she did to your willy.
Seriously though, talk to your doctor.

Idbatterim

Your condition is common enough, check google for phimosis. http://www.cirp.org/library/treatment/phimosis/
Hope that helps, you can also check out healthboards.com and check under mens health. You either have adhesions or your frenar band is too tight, or your frenelum is too short. The latter two can be alleviated through stretching, which you can do yourself.

Lord diablo

could be thrush!! happened me once when came back from a holiday with the gf got some cansten and that sorted but it was real tight but if it is constant see a doc

Stark

Loads of people will tell you you need to be circumcised. You probably won't need to, like previous posters said just try stretching it every day, a little bit extra at a time. And be prepared for some ugly finds! It'll also be very sore at first due to mild infection from poor hygiene.

Gordon

Go to a doctor with medical problem fixing qualifications.