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'Mate'

  • 14-06-2004 11:54pm
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    Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 12,450 Mod ✭✭✭✭


    Does anyone else find the constant and in some cases relentless use of the word 'mate' incredibly annoying?

    And can somebody explain to me where it all started?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,719 ✭✭✭ARGINITE


    Yes very, i think its an english thing sorry if im wrong thing.
    to many people watching to much corrie and east enders...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,367 ✭✭✭✭Sleepy


    To my shame I've noticed myself using it a lot, partially down to the influence of a friend from London I used to spend a lot of time with and now working with an Aussie bloke.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,284 ✭✭✭RobertFoster


    I have also noticed the increase of the words "man" and "brother". "brother" always makes me laugh :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,335 ✭✭✭Cake Fiend


    I'd rather hear 'mate' than 'bud' tbh.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,174 ✭✭✭[CALIBUR]


    I've use the word "man" what is the big deal if use words from different parts of the world. The only problem I have is irish 14 year olds speaking in american, FS... MAN!


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 5,154 ✭✭✭Oriel


    Originally posted by #MEAT#
    what is the big deal if use words from different parts of the world.
    Originally posted by #MEAT#
    The only problem I have is irish 14 year olds speaking in american, FS... MAN!

    Erm.... :(


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 5,154 ✭✭✭Oriel


    "Mate" has been used in Belfast here for ages now. I just hate it when complete scumbags come up to you and say "Here Mate, you got a light, like?" - I just want to reply with "F*ck off, you're not my mate don't talk to me again".

    Like "bud" it just seems to be forcing a sense of familiarity on you which you clearly don't want.

    Saying that, I'd rather here "mate" than "bud" (in that scummy Dublin accent) any day. That was one of the most annoying things I experienced when living in Dublin.

    S.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,718 ✭✭✭whosurpaddy


    Originally posted by RobertFoster
    I have also noticed the increase of the words "man" and "brother". "brother" always makes me laugh :D

    i think hulk hogan started the "brother" phenomnon


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,924 ✭✭✭✭BuffyBot


    The things some people get bothered over :rolleyes:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 825 ✭✭✭MarcusGarvey


    I hate the design of Marks and Spencer plastic bags, but apart from my online website (!!! Now with new forums and a gallery !!!!!1! ) you don't see me getting worked up about niggly bits.



    p.s. website is at www.geocities.com/marksbagsareyuk


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,746 ✭✭✭pork99


    Originally posted by Sinecure
    "Mate" has been used in Belfast here for ages now. I just hate it when complete scumbags come up to you and say "Here Mate, you got a light, like?" - I just want to reply with "F*ck off, you're not my mate don't talk to me again".

    You can use it back to them and make it sound very condescending :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,084 ✭✭✭✭Stark


    It's disgraceful.

    Boyo is such a more civilised term. (/me gently sips a cup of vodka that I hold with my twinky).


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 214 ✭✭arkles


    mate joke

    paddy over in London, looking off tower bridge into the thames,

    a copper passes and says u all right paddy, paddy replies, me "mate" fell in the river,

    copper says geez one min and jumps into the thames

    after 15 mins he shouts up at paddy no sign of ur mate ere ,

    paddy replies ah sure tis ok ill eat the bread on its own :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,718 ✭✭✭whosurpaddy


    Originally posted by arkles
    mate joke

    paddy over in London, looking off tower bridge into the thames,

    a copper passes and says u all right paddy, paddy replies, me "mate" fell in the river,

    copper says geez one min and jumps into the thames

    after 15 mins he shouts up at paddy no sign of ur mate ere ,

    paddy replies ah sure tis ok ill eat the bread on its own :)

    death_valley-lone_sagebrus.jpg


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,004 ✭✭✭Big Ears


    Originally posted by whosurpaddy
    death_valley-lone_sagebrus.jpg

    Rofl


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,198 ✭✭✭✭Crash


    "pack of fags mate"
    "you're a fag"
    "no a fag is a pack of cigarettes mate"
    "i'm not your mate ****"

    *ensue random beatings*

    "it wasnt til years later we learnt what i fag really meant"
    "you're a fag"
    "no a fag is a cigarette"
    "you'er a cigarette"


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,284 ✭✭✭RobertFoster


    Originally posted by MarcusGarvey
    p.s. website is at www.geocities.com/marksbagsareyuk

    linky no worky


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 88,972 ✭✭✭✭mike65


    Mate as in English/Australian comes from ShipMate.

    Only works if said by Paul Hogan or Michael Caine.

    Or Bob Hoskins if Caine is unavailible...

    Mike.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,598 ✭✭✭ferdi


    "thats so random!" - all the d4 ****ers say this now, its killing me!!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,263 ✭✭✭Caesar_Bojangle


    "thats so random!"

    gets on my tits. whats it supposed to mean?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,225 ✭✭✭JackKelly


    mate and cheers, two most annoying words.Cant stand either of them


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,784 ✭✭✭Nuttzz


    what about "Brud"?? or "Hopo" or "babee"??


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,730 ✭✭✭✭simu


    What about "boss"? Now, that's annoying.

    If mate annoys you, say something like "No thanks, I'm not in heat at the moment" next time you hear it!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,111 ✭✭✭tba


    Originally posted by simu
    If mate annoys you, say something like "No thanks, I'm not in heat at the moment" next time you hear it!

    But what if you are?
    I dont want to lie


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,726 ✭✭✭quank


    'Dude' is quite common around my area actually. I admit, I say it too. And to think about it, I have no real problem with it. I just thought it would be common amoung other boardsters? No?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,730 ✭✭✭✭simu


    Originally posted by tba
    But what if you are?
    I dont want to lie

    "Yes please, your burrow or mine?"


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,718 ✭✭✭whosurpaddy


    Originally posted by ferdi
    "thats so random!" - all the d4 ****ers say this now, its killing me!!

    thats more of a phrase than a word, and if thats where this is going then "oh my god" deserves a dis-honourable mention.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,522 ✭✭✭Dr. Loon


    Originally posted by ferdi
    "thats so random!"

    If I ever hear someone say this I will have to beat them senseless.

    Spa is an insult I don't like. Really don't like.

    As for cheers!? It's something almost the entire world says. It's the same as thank you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,889 ✭✭✭Third_Echelon


    one phrase i really hated when i worked in new york was 'guy'

    "...alright guy..."

    "...do you need some help guy..."

    ahh it was so annoying... i would have preferred mate or dude or anything apart from that... uber-annoying...


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,081 ✭✭✭BKtje


    word i hate is 'luv'

    You all right there luv?

    ARGH, im not ur luv and i dont think i wanan be fs.

    Everything elseis fine by me tho :p

    I use mate regularly and have no qualms about it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,070 ✭✭✭hedgetrimmer


    As long as the motivation is nice, I don't mind any of those words, like pet, chicken, mate, etc etc

    Something like "where are my games, mate" :p:p


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,309 ✭✭✭✭Bard




  • Closed Accounts Posts: 544 ✭✭✭pauldeehan


    Must admit, I'm often guilty of "mate" and "man". Dude? Don't like that. And at work one of the lads said "Jeez Laweez" about 4 times in one day. That was annoying.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,288 ✭✭✭✭Standard Toaster


    I'm noticing alot of people using the word 'dude' now too. :dunno:

    'Bud'....I hear that and I just wanna punch someone.....
    Originally posted by Bard
    Is my head on fire, mate?

    LOL! :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,367 ✭✭✭✭Sleepy


    WTF is "That's so random!" supposed to mean?

    I never realised that silver spoons acted as babelfish...


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 131 ✭✭mudflapgirl


    Originally posted by Third_Echelon
    one phrase i really hated when i worked in new york was 'guy'

    "...alright guy..."

    "...do you need some help guy..."

    why is it that now all i can think of is saddam hussein in south park the movie ('ah, come on guy......')

    :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,225 ✭✭✭JackKelly



    As for cheers!? It's something almost the entire world says. It's the same as thank you.

    i still hate it

    Anyone else here say "Kula Bula"? Nows ,thats a cool phrase


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,081 ✭✭✭BKtje


    lol ive said that a few times tho never regularly :p

    Too far even for me ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,048 ✭✭✭Lainey


    heard coola noola.....................:dunno:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,288 ✭✭✭✭Standard Toaster


    Or 'Headerball' (sp?)

    ".....'ere, alright headerball...." :o


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,048 ✭✭✭Lainey


    Originally posted by The_Edge
    Or 'Headerball' (sp?)

    ".....'ere, alright headerball...." :o

    lol.. always used here.. :D


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,670 ✭✭✭Doc


    People from London who end every sentence with "init".

    GOD I HATE THEM!!!

    Im going down the shops now init!

    You should come with me init!

    Get something for Lunch init!

    KILL THEM ALL!!!!

    you dont have to kill them just please make them stop


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,626 ✭✭✭smoke.me.a.kipper


    Originally posted by quank
    'Dude' is quite common around my area actually. I admit, I say it too. And to think about it, I have no real problem with it. I just thought it would be common amoung other boardsters? No?

    its not common where i am, but 2 of my friends started using it alot in the last few months and its sorta rubbed off. everyone gives out to me about. id say its annoying but i dont care.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,889 ✭✭✭Third_Echelon


    Originally posted by The_Edge
    Or 'Headerball' (sp?)

    ".....'ere, alright headerball...." :o

    i think the term is a "head the ball", refering to a lack of mental capacity or ability...

    it could be in the urban dictionary..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,482 ✭✭✭RE*AC*TOR


    i hate when people use the word toilet - its a bog, or a jacks or a dunny ffs!
    damn them to hell! :mad:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 687 ✭✭✭kano476


    well butty! gotta love that one.
    chief is an annoying one.
    i love it when dub knackers come up to you and go "stooory bud" and then you go "once upon a time....."


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,531 ✭✭✭blobert


    Originally posted by Doc
    People from London who end every sentence with "init".

    GOD I HATE THEM!!!

    Im going down the shops now init!

    You should come with me init!

    Get something for Lunch init!

    KILL THEM ALL!!!!


    I wouldn't go quite that far, but it is a little irratating, yes.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,437 ✭✭✭Crucifix


    Originally posted by kano476
    well butty!
    Reminds me of Juno and the Paycock.
    The only time I use 'mate' is in the phrase, "Cheers mate", when I recieve change in a shop. Force of habit kind of thing.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,668 ✭✭✭nlgbbbblth


    Originally posted by Dr. Loon
    .

    Spa is an insult I don't like. Really don't like.
    .

    ironically people call other people "spa"/"spastic" when the other person is not a "spa"/"spastic"

    they never call a spastic a spastic if you know what I mean


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,284 ✭✭✭RobertFoster


    Originally posted by nlgbbbblth
    ironically people call other people "spa"/"spastic" when the other person is not a "spa"/"spastic"

    they never call a spastic a spastic if you know what I mean

    of course not, that would be bad taste...:rolleyes:


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